Lord have mercy
Teacher Accused of Sex With 11-Year-Old
Eleven.
Eleven.
Imagine, for an instant, you who have young daughters, coming home and finding a 36 year old man slipping the sausage to your eleven year old daughter. I will submit to the reader that if you can’t muster similar outrage when confronted with the idea of some woman having sex with your eleven year old son – well, let me just say if I were a judge, and you expressed such sentiments to me, I’d be terminating your parental rights so fast it’d make your head spin.
You know, I just do not get it.
I can look at a female child and say, “She’s going to be a heartbreaker when she grows up” but for the life of me, I cannot understand sexual thoughts towards a prepubescent girl – or a child of any sex. It just blows my mind. Even early bloomers. They still look young, and behave young. Even 16 year old or older teens might be able to disguise the youth with enough makeup and sophisticated dress, but they give themselves away in minutes if you converse with them. They just .. I don’t know what it is. But it makes my skin crawl. I mean, just sickens me.
Someone could concieveably make an argument for a student teacher, intern, TA who was young enough having a thing for a 17 or 18 year old. Yes, it’s technically wrong, but it’s not creepy. Move past about 22, and the ick factor starts to kick in. Move below 17 on the other end, same thing. It’s fetishistic.
And there are people who defend this stuff. And it’s not the NMBLA crowd, though it might as well be.
I’ve read on feminist blogs very strident and impassioned defenses of girls as young as 12 to be in charge of their own sexual behavior, and what kills me with those arguments is that once you make them a mature agent you must, by extension, approve of their choice in partner, no matter what their age. I have a 12 year old niece. And she’s as pretty as the day is long, and an early bloomer too. Give her the clothes and makeup, she could pass for an upperclassman. And she is in no way ready for even a 16 year old boy, let alone a grown man. Yes she’s smart, and all that – but she is not ready to make those choices for herself. Nobody is. Her mother and father are the ones to make those choices, not her.
And let’s even say that there are a few who are ready, physically and emotionally. Fine and dandy. Here’s the sticker – how do you construct the law to still protect those who can’t make those choices for themselves to give freedom to a minority so scant as to be statistically zero?
It’s a rhetorical question. You can’t.
Several years ago I was a roommate in a house where there was a woman with a 19 year old son. Down the block lived a 14 year old girl. And let me tell you, this girl was ready to party. She wanted that young man, and wanted him bad – and I came home one day to hear them upstairs, and she was not screaming in pain. I know what a fem,ale orgasm sounds like. And she was having a hum-dinger.
She was digging it. And she wanted it. And wanted it badly.
(Follow up, yes I reported it, and yes, they both denied it, and since I did not actually catch them flagrante delicto, they denied it, so no prosecution was made)
The point I am making with this is that no matter how “good” it feels, and how much anyone may want it, there is an age where there is no right to do so. Hell, reefer feels good, and we don’t even give mature people the right to want it.
And what is sad – absolutely pathetic – is that I have to make anologies and illustrate the point with young females and older males to get any sense of outrage. You get a adolescent boy and an older woman, and there is tittering, “Mrs. Robinson” comments, and excuses made. And it’s from the same people who will say that a boy doesn’t emotionally mature as fast as a girl, and will argue that a fifteen year old girl isn’t ready, emotionally, for a sexual relationship with an adult male, but somehow a younger, and even less emotionally mature boy, is ready to have sex with a thirty something woman.
No, no, no, and no. This is as dumb as a sack of hammers. It’s sick.
And yes, I had sex at a young age. And know what? It fucked me up. I had a sick woman seduce me at 12 by shaming me, asking me if I was gay, or liked boys, when I didn’twant to. I had a big problem relating, after that, to girls my own age, and it took me years – YEARS – to adjust. Hell, sometimes I wonder if I have ever adjusted, or just grew into the type of women who attracted me.
This woman is sick. Sick and twisted. She is a monster, who has screwed this kid up, and she needs to be locked away, and have her shit sold to pay for the therapy this boy will require.
God almighty. What is it with these women lately going after young boys? I mean, Jumpin’ Jesus on a Pogo-Stick, I lived through an era where yeah, we had some of thatgoing on, but it was always the 21, 22 year old student teachers and the seniors, not 30-ish women and junior high students. Whiskey-Tango-Foxtrot. WTF? This is turning into an epidemic. Hell, I hear as much of this – and sometimes more – than male teachers going after their students anymore.
You know, I used to highlight these things as a reaction to the demonization of men; I intended to show that it wasn’t an exclusive trait confined solely to men, and moreso, that such things in any event comprised a fraction of a percent of the population anyway. But this is turning into a fuckin’ epidemic. Do these women really believe that they are immune to being caught or punished? Is it a sense of entitlement? What?
Help me out, folks. Help me make sense of this.
36. And 11.
God help us all.
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