Without a marriage a license from our government, the husband keeps all his real and personal property and saves on other support (day care, insurance, mortgage, car payments, alimony).

It is a myth to “pick the right one,” as our government approves, runs, and enforces her getting the kids, income, and property.

There are reasons why women initiate divorce at twice the rate of men. It pays well and it’s fashionable.

She may not know the benefits of divorce at “I do”, but she learns quickly afterward. After a hint of trouble from you, she speaks to her divorced mom, divorced girlfriends, priest, and or divorce lawyer. Last week a divorced mom shared with me that her priest approved her suggestion to divorce.

The main point that everyone seems to be missing is the fact that we Men NEED TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT WOMAN to start our families with.

Admittedly this is becoming a increasingly harder proposition to do in the US and Western Countries.. But in other countries there are women who still believe in a traditional role and a tradtional home..

This is EXACTLY why I promote Russian Women as a better alternative to what Men are facing now.

Check out this link to learn more..

http://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2006/07/28/what-is-a-genuine-russian-woman/

The 5-star reviewers’ profiles show that most have only ever reviewed one book – Drexler’s! (Obviously a set up by the author’s lesbian-mom circle.)

Just like Drexler’s book which includes few interviews with boys, amazon.com apparently deleted some negative reader reviews from men who were raised in lesbian “families.”

My biased bullet list of excerpted comments follows — the dyke’s comments can be located quite easily by searching reader reviews by “highest rated.”

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•This is the most blatant propaganda I have seen in a while.
•Another “feel-good” book directed at lesbians who insist fathers aren’t necessary in the raising of boys. They are SO WRONG. Unfortunately, their guinea pigs are the children. The author limits her samples to white, upper class lesbians and single mothers. To say her sample is skewed is an understatement.
•A more apt title would be “How Lesbians and Feminists can Brainwash Children into Thinking Fathers are not Important”.
•Curiously,the author contradicts herself by suggesting that sons need some male contact(grandfathers,uncles,etc.)just not dad.
•There are plenty of situations where one parent or the other does not do a good job of raising the children, but there is nothing in the scientific world that shows any boy is better off being raised without a father.
•This toxic mind trash should be avoided at all costs.
•Despite Drexler’s credentials, Raising Boys without Men is just about the most sloppily researched book ever thrown together.
•Why didn’t anyone notice that her research sample was made up of self-selected mothers in higher-income households whose childbearing was much more carefully planned than most? How did it escape everyone’s notice that most of these boys are still in their preteens and teens, and there’s been no opportunity yet to follow them into adulthood?
•The alleged “Drexler-solicited” reviews are easy to spot – they almost all mention the author’s “research”, they have 5 stars, and are typically the only book that person has ever reviewed on Amazon.
•After reading this trash I feel ashamed to be a woman. Women who take this battle to this level must have clearly had problem childhoods and no clue as to the importance of men to them or their children – both girls and boys.
•After raising three children as a custodial father, I would never claim something so absurd as that mothers are not important in the raising of girls. Are we to say that one or the other parent is dispensable?
•There’s no need to read this book except to educate yourself on more of society’s attempt to minimize men’s value to families and their children.
•Yes, Ms. Drexler is helping to advance our society by debunking the old two-parent myth of the past. We will anxiously await her new volume on “Men Raising Girls without Women.”
•(From the rad-fem club) — Imagine how lucky our daughters will be when these young men grow up and are eager to treat them in the most wonderful way!

I was out in less than two hours. I called and I was told “it was to late you should of come sooner.” Of course, I had come sooner, but I was arrested. I called the police who went out there with me (different officers).

With lights flashing all around from the police cars, my kids came out of the house. They had their bags packed and had huge grins. I knew it was worth it, and I knew how important it was.

That kind of thing to an extent continued for several years and now seems to have stopped. All the trouble is more than worth it. My daughter called just a few minutes ago to make sure that I am going to pick her up this evening.

These women who say fathers are not necessary don’t have a clue about life. Fathers provide things that mothers don’t. The converse is also true. These poeple if they really think about it must realize this but they deny it not really caring about the children — they only care about their agenda. Their agenda is not good for anyone.

My ex-wife said that it is the best interest of the child that we remain separate. I suppose that she believes that a strange man will make a better father, yet the strange man probably struggles to parent his own children, as I do.

I hate divorce. Feminism is selfish.