Domestic Violence Rumor Mill Runs the United Nations

2006-11-12
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If United States Ambassador John Bolton fails to act, world feminists will seize vast powers to destroy families internationally while committing tremendous human rights violations against men, women, and children in every country of the world.

The Secretary-General’s study on domestic violence against women [DAW], developed under the corrupt leadership of Kofi Annan, is a much greater threat to America than the rejected Kyoto Protocol ever was. It calls for the establishment of a new feminist world order, possessing unilateral powers to mindlessly destroy marriage and steal family and business assets by teaching women how to holler “abuse”.

Everyone agrees that domestic violence is a problem. Feminists dishonestly pretend it is entirely problem of unruly men, buttressed by unreliable myopic surveys of women. The purpose of this feminist approach is to achieve the primary goal of radical feminism: to destroy marriage, seize children and family wealth, and establish the liberated single-mother family. Unfounded allegations of abuse are the political and legal vector already used in many western countries to achieve this end.

The senseless destruction of marriage, homes, families, and the lives of children in western cultures has deeply violated the human rights of everyone. It has transformed many good cities into third-world urban disasters suffering from rampant illegitimacy, prostitution, crime, child sexual predation, and poverty. Radicals at the United Nations wish to force their new world order on the rest of the world.

The truth is this: women are as likely, or even more likely than men to engage in, and initiate, domestic violence. According to a 32-nation by Murray Straus, female-only partner aggression is twice as prevalent as male-only partner abuse.

Many credible individuals now recognize this fact. They acknowledge the truth, and in many cases advocating strongly against the looming radical takeover of the United Nations. You can count on leaders and knowledgeable professionals (not driven by entitlements or political power) such as President Bush, Phyllis Schlafly, Dr. Gerald Koocher (President of the APA), Dr. Murray Straus, Dr. Don Dutton, Wendy McElroy, Dr. Felicity Goodyear-Smith, and Lee Newman [SAFE International] to speak the truth.

Even a child could see through the rumor-mill-fed machinations of feminists. Here are a few examples:

  • The 113-page United Nations Report admits it is based on a “lack [of] systematic and reliable data on violence against women”. There is no evidence in the report that any information was collected about women’s violence against men. Without any supportive factual foundation, the U.N. Report claims that “Violence against women persists in every country in the world as a pervasive violation of human rights and a major impediment to achieving gender equality”.
  • The U.N. Commission on Human Rights framework for model legislation on domestic violence is a carte-blanche vehicle empowering feminists to violate science and human rights in every country of the world. It defines domestic violence solely as “gender-specific violence directed against women“, and admonishes states to “adopt the broadest possible definitions of acts of domestic violence”. It states, “There shall be no restrictions on women bringing suits against spouses or live-in partners”. The victim must be advised “of her rights as outlined below”. The responding officer must “arrange for the removal of the offender from the home and, if that is not possible and if the victim is in continuing danger, arrest the offender”. It permits immediate seizure of assets, and criminal conviction on the sole basis uncorroborated testimony by the alleged victim.
  • A UNPF report alleges that two-thirds of married women in India were victims of domestic violence, and then contradicts itself by claiming that 70 per cent of married women in India between the age of 15 and 49 are victims of beating, rape or coerced sex. This report also asserts that the rate of domestic violence is much higher in Egypt with 94 per cent and Zambia with 91 per cent.

Where do these dangerous claims come from? Non-Governmental Womens organizations around the world generate volumes of narcissistic surveys about violence. These are fed to feminists in the United Nations, whose re-sytheses are recited round-robin by NGO’s, creating vast illusions for predatory political use.

Here are a few examples how the revolving feminist rumor mill works:

  • The Feminist Majority cites World Health Organization (WHO) surveys of women, saying that “More than 25 percent of women said they had experienced moderate to severe domestic violence in the last year. At six of the 15 sites, over 50 percent of women had experienced a moderate to severe level of domestic violence. The study found that rural Ethiopia had the highest rate of domestic violence, with 71 percent of women experiencing violence in the home.

United Nations should be involved in ending domestic violence. The approach must be realistic and scientifically appropriate on a country-by-country basis. Clearly, the ideological feminist approach will harm many women, men, and families, and be dangerous to the world. The United States must not submit to foreign controls that lump it in the same category as Sudan.

We have nothing to fear but fear itself. Ambassador Bolton should testify against acceptance of the Secretary General’s Report, and state why it is unacceptable. President Bush should send a message that the United States will not support the United Nations at the present level of $5.3 billion annually, should it pursue a course of action that will clearly violate human rights in most egalitarian countries of the world.  You can send a message to Ambassador Bolton in just 60 seconds via RADAR.

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David R. Usher is Senior Policy Analyst for the True Equality Network, and President of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, Missouri Coalition

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  • http://www.antipeonage.0catch.com Roger Knight

    David Usher says:
    “United Nations should be involved in ending domestic violence.”
    Wrong. The UN should not be involved at all.
    Interfering in the internal affairs of sovereign nations is one of the causes of war. The UN was set up primarily for the purpose of avoiding wars.
    It does not even do that successfully.

  • http://www.antipeonage.0catch.com Roger Knight

    David Usher says:
    “United Nations should be involved in ending domestic violence.”
    Wrong. The UN should not be involved at all.
    Interfering in the internal affairs of sovereign nations is one of the causes of war. The UN was set up primarily for the purpose of avoiding wars.
    It does not even do that successfully.

  • http://lovability.org amfortas

    Ushers comprehensive denunciation should be on file on everyone’s computer and sent by email to Bolton and everyone in any position of authority Worldwide. Newspapers, Legislators, City Councillors, Professional Organisations, TV stations, Radio Stations, attachments to personal emails, everywhere. Hey why not a talking head video on YouTube!

  • http://lovability.org amfortas

    Ushers comprehensive denunciation should be on file on everyone’s computer and sent by email to Bolton and everyone in any position of authority Worldwide. Newspapers, Legislators, City Councillors, Professional Organisations, TV stations, Radio Stations, attachments to personal emails, everywhere. Hey why not a talking head video on YouTube!

  • DcFather

    Truth and accuracy doesn’t get in the way of feminists in America, so why should it matter in a corrupt UN?

    Besides, though they won’t admit it, the real definition of “domestic violence” used by feminists is this: Any time a male who has sex with a female does not do or say exactly as the female wants him to do, even if she decides what it is she wants a week or a month later. This definition makes the numbers realistic, excludes females from ever being perpetrators, and eliminates the need for any facts or proof of law-breaking.

    Feminist: anybody who hates men, thinks all sex except lesbianism is rape, thinks the next best thing to an aborted baby is a fatherless child, thinks laws should be based solely on female emotions, and gets billions in taxpayer money to promote this agenda.

  • DcFather

    Truth and accuracy doesn’t get in the way of feminists in America, so why should it matter in a corrupt UN?

    Besides, though they won’t admit it, the real definition of “domestic violence” used by feminists is this: Any time a male who has sex with a female does not do or say exactly as the female wants him to do, even if she decides what it is she wants a week or a month later. This definition makes the numbers realistic, excludes females from ever being perpetrators, and eliminates the need for any facts or proof of law-breaking.

    Feminist: anybody who hates men, thinks all sex except lesbianism is rape, thinks the next best thing to an aborted baby is a fatherless child, thinks laws should be based solely on female emotions, and gets billions in taxpayer money to promote this agenda.

  • David R. Usher

    On UN involvement with DV: while I agree this falls outside of the founding intent of the U.N. (my grandfather Roland G. Usher was involved with that), the U.N. will be activist on protecting women whether we like it or not. We must ensure that implemenation is focused on a few countries where male-on-female violence is skewed. These are predominantly muslim countries. But where dv-by-gender ratios are fairly even, the approach, if any, must be to heal the causes of it, which specifically translates into treatment for chemical abuse as the leading cause of DV.

  • David R. Usher

    On UN involvement with DV: while I agree this falls outside of the founding intent of the U.N. (my grandfather Roland G. Usher was involved with that), the U.N. will be activist on protecting women whether we like it or not. We must ensure that implemenation is focused on a few countries where male-on-female violence is skewed. These are predominantly muslim countries. But where dv-by-gender ratios are fairly even, the approach, if any, must be to heal the causes of it, which specifically translates into treatment for chemical abuse as the leading cause of DV.

  • http://www.false-accusers.com TheManOnTheStreet

    WHAT!??? And admit that DV is perpetuated equally by women as well as men (specifically in Western Contries)???? NEVER! Whats next! Admitting that child abuse is perpetuated (western again) moreso by women than men!

    Oh look at the pretty pink elephant in the corner of the room!

    TMOTS

  • http://www.false-accusers.com TheManOnTheStreet

    WHAT!??? And admit that DV is perpetuated equally by women as well as men (specifically in Western Contries)???? NEVER! Whats next! Admitting that child abuse is perpetuated (western again) moreso by women than men!

    Oh look at the pretty pink elephant in the corner of the room!

    TMOTS

  • David R. Usher

    If the President of the APA is willing to talk about it, and the President of the United States is, then we have changed the landscape enough to make science a part of conventional wisdom.

  • David R. Usher

    If the President of the APA is willing to talk about it, and the President of the United States is, then we have changed the landscape enough to make science a part of conventional wisdom.

  • http://www.false-accusers.com TheManOnTheStreet

    One could only hope David.

    TMOTS

  • http://www.false-accusers.com TheManOnTheStreet

    One could only hope David.

    TMOTS

  • roger

    great article, and great responses.

    I agree with amfortas – copy this to file and send as appropriate.

  • roger

    great article, and great responses.

    I agree with amfortas – copy this to file and send as appropriate.

  • dad4justice

    Well done David great article .Pity the UN like many governments do not recognize many decent fathers are suffering injustice, discrimination, prejudice, bias ,disregard , trauma, exploitation from a system content on destroying them. How hard are these men to be driven in the best interests of the child? Their suicides give the answer. So that’s in the best interests of their children !!! Human rights for men do not exist in the new utopian feminazi age of Western society !!

  • dad4justice

    Well done David great article .Pity the UN like many governments do not recognize many decent fathers are suffering injustice, discrimination, prejudice, bias ,disregard , trauma, exploitation from a system content on destroying them. How hard are these men to be driven in the best interests of the child? Their suicides give the answer. So that’s in the best interests of their children !!! Human rights for men do not exist in the new utopian feminazi age of Western society !!

  • http://www.antipeonage.0catch.com Roger Knight

    David wrote a good article correctly defining the recent UN report on DV as pure unadulterated BS.
    The reason I say the UN should stay out of it is because the gender biased and easy work for greedy lawyers who are not required to prove a damn thing system of family law is that what drives some men to suicide will drive other men to war.
    It happened in Reno last summer. It will happen again. When all other Amendments fail, there is the Second Amendment.
    I would rather we try the 13th Amendment and the Antipeonage Act first, but I understand that these laws are not available outside the US.
    We keep talking, and hope others don’t start shooting. But I refuse to condemn those who give the Judge Wellers of the world what they richly deserve for perverting the law.

  • http://www.antipeonage.0catch.com Roger Knight

    David wrote a good article correctly defining the recent UN report on DV as pure unadulterated BS.
    The reason I say the UN should stay out of it is because the gender biased and easy work for greedy lawyers who are not required to prove a damn thing system of family law is that what drives some men to suicide will drive other men to war.
    It happened in Reno last summer. It will happen again. When all other Amendments fail, there is the Second Amendment.
    I would rather we try the 13th Amendment and the Antipeonage Act first, but I understand that these laws are not available outside the US.
    We keep talking, and hope others don’t start shooting. But I refuse to condemn those who give the Judge Wellers of the world what they richly deserve for perverting the law.

  • wheresmy40

    “But I refuse to condemn those who give the Judge Wellers of the world what they richly deserve for perverting the law.” RK

    Hmmm…. What ever happened to THAT case? That case should be broadcast on Court TV with as much fanfare as the OJ case. It would be a good venue to expose the problems with the current family law debacle in America. Or should this trial be held in secrecy to protect the “best interests” of the judge and his ilk?

  • wheresmy40

    “But I refuse to condemn those who give the Judge Wellers of the world what they richly deserve for perverting the law.” RK

    Hmmm…. What ever happened to THAT case? That case should be broadcast on Court TV with as much fanfare as the OJ case. It would be a good venue to expose the problems with the current family law debacle in America. Or should this trial be held in secrecy to protect the “best interests” of the judge and his ilk?

  • steven deluca

    Years ago a woman speaking at a world conference as a member of the American Psychiatric Association, reported two studies about therapists having sex with clients. The numbers were very small (self reported – anon) with males out numbering females by double. The way this woman saw it, women had different motives, love/nurturing and the men, well, the men, of course, were self centered pigs. How did she determine that … from her tone, and attitude, you could tell that she didn’t think much of men. She is likely one of those women who can watch the Vagina Monologue play, see the sexual abuse of a 13 year-old girl who is given booze, and used sexually by an adult woman, and cheer. But if she, and her peers, had watched a male getting a child drunk for sexual gratification, they would be looking for their carving knives while discussing castration.

    It’s been years since I heard that sexist speech and I am glad to see that the head of the APA, Dr Gerald P. Koocher, now challenges feminist views of domestic violence. Brave man. Hopefully the APA will make the studies avaible and the therapist of tomorrow will be more careful about sterotyping men when it comes to sex, violence, and the abuse of the other gender.

    The AMA (American Medical Association) 3/22/03 had an article online (Report 9) of the Council on Scientific Affairs (1-94) http://www.ama-assn.org/ama/pub/article/2036-2559.html challenging the biased views spread by feminists the last few years about D.V.

    Why is it that with two such powerful groups – the AMA and the APA, clearly saying that DV is not about “a war against women” while showing that both genders are deeply impacted by the other gender, that so many groups still are unchallenged, yearly, when they have programs teaching our children and young adults that men are perps and women victims, almost always.

    Oh, now I remember, girls don’t do as well in science and they are better than boys with “intuition” and “feelings” … so why look at scientific studies – so many details, so boring? When you can bring man-hating lesbians in the class room (ya, it’s a sterotype) discussing sexual harassment, rape, DV, showing photos of women with black eyes, sharing stories about savage beatings and rapes. Our sons and daughters will not forget the stories and their fathers are not “standing up” for men, mothers are not protecting their sons. Both genders are hurt when lies are told about the other.

    Paul Craig Roberts in his article “Feelings in First Place” The Washington Times 10/22/01 wrote: “When confronted with their false reporting, feminists say that they trust their feelings about men more than ‘gender based’ statistics. Like others, they are not interested in information that gets in the way of an agenda.”

    SD

  • steven deluca

    Years ago a woman speaking at a world conference as a member of the American Psychiatric Association, reported two studies about therapists having sex with clients. The numbers were very small (self reported – anon) with males out numbering females by double. The way this woman saw it, women had different motives, love/nurturing and the men, well, the men, of course, were self centered pigs. How did she determine that … from her tone, and attitude, you could tell that she didn’t think much of men. She is likely one of those women who can watch the Vagina Monologue play, see the sexual abuse of a 13 year-old girl who is given booze, and used sexually by an adult woman, and cheer. But if she, and her peers, had watched a male getting a child drunk for sexual gratification, they would be looking for their carving knives while discussing castration.

    It’s been years since I heard that sexist speech and I am glad to see that the head of the APA, Dr Gerald P. Koocher, now challenges feminist views of domestic violence. Brave man. Hopefully the APA will make the studies avaible and the therapist of tomorrow will be more careful about sterotyping men when it comes to sex, violence, and the abuse of the other gender.

    The AMA (American Medical Association) 3/22/03 had an article online (Report 9) of the Council on Scientific Affairs (1-94) http://www.ama-assn.org/ama/pub/article/2036-2559.html challenging the biased views spread by feminists the last few years about D.V.

    Why is it that with two such powerful groups – the AMA and the APA, clearly saying that DV is not about “a war against women” while showing that both genders are deeply impacted by the other gender, that so many groups still are unchallenged, yearly, when they have programs teaching our children and young adults that men are perps and women victims, almost always.

    Oh, now I remember, girls don’t do as well in science and they are better than boys with “intuition” and “feelings” … so why look at scientific studies – so many details, so boring? When you can bring man-hating lesbians in the class room (ya, it’s a sterotype) discussing sexual harassment, rape, DV, showing photos of women with black eyes, sharing stories about savage beatings and rapes. Our sons and daughters will not forget the stories and their fathers are not “standing up” for men, mothers are not protecting their sons. Both genders are hurt when lies are told about the other.

    Paul Craig Roberts in his article “Feelings in First Place” The Washington Times 10/22/01 wrote: “When confronted with their false reporting, feminists say that they trust their feelings about men more than ‘gender based’ statistics. Like others, they are not interested in information that gets in the way of an agenda.”

    SD

  • http://www.antipeonage.0catch.com Roger Knight

    wheresmy40, I believe Darran Mack attorneys filed a motion to dismiss the charges related to the Judge Weller shooting on the grounds that the prosecution has no more evidence that Darran did it than they do against any other Nevada resident.
    And of course, Darren is not the only one with a motive!
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Darren_Mack
    is usually up to date on the Mack saga.

  • http://www.antipeonage.0catch.com Roger Knight

    wheresmy40, I believe Darran Mack attorneys filed a motion to dismiss the charges related to the Judge Weller shooting on the grounds that the prosecution has no more evidence that Darran did it than they do against any other Nevada resident.
    And of course, Darren is not the only one with a motive!
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Darren_Mack
    is usually up to date on the Mack saga.

  • wheresmy40

    Thanks RK. I’ll keep my eyes on this case as it does illustrate the abuses of family law(lessness).

    My disappointment is that an issue that affected three main players plus peripherals (OJ slaughtering two innocents -for those freshly out from under a rock) garnered more attention than an issue that negatively affects many millions (and that a law-abiding judge of the court was shot!! Oh, my!).

    “And of course, Darren is not the only one with a motive!” RK
    Hell, I could be a viable suspect in that case. Scary.

  • wheresmy40

    Thanks RK. I’ll keep my eyes on this case as it does illustrate the abuses of family law(lessness).

    My disappointment is that an issue that affected three main players plus peripherals (OJ slaughtering two innocents -for those freshly out from under a rock) garnered more attention than an issue that negatively affects many millions (and that a law-abiding judge of the court was shot!! Oh, my!).

    “And of course, Darren is not the only one with a motive!” RK
    Hell, I could be a viable suspect in that case. Scary.

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  • David R. Usher

    I just recieved a most interesting email from a discussion group of Indian women. Apparently they do not like the new domestic violence law in India. They know that feminists are lying and do not want to see the Indian family destroyed as feminists have done in western culture.

    See: http://desicritics.org/2006/11/11/135402.php

    Below is a fascinating unedited clip from her email, which eloquently describes how life really is in India, and why Indian women do not want western-style feminism rammed down their throats:

    “In Western nations, women are not supported by husband or anyone. It goes by give and take policy in marriage. In 2005 as per USA census it is said Marriage is getting extinct in USA.

    do you think any man on the land of india will accept someone he is feeding can control him meaninglessly? by criminal terror fear. Marriage will 100% destroy in a year or 10 yrs, But certainly it will. I guess, outsiders of india is involved for this.

    Those women, who are not thinking and running fastly behind feminist organisations are not thinking in a dimension calmly whether it really helps preserve our culture and soul.

    These laws will be used sprucely by manipulative women largely. If any sita using it, her mind will be slowly spoiled by other bad women to misuse it and “umbrella of control” starts in her family. Marriage closes shortly.

    How can a luv/trust/attachment relationship runs with police, using economic/emotional abuse without physical abuse?

    In otherwords, we are getting pulled by western nations for their form of life style. no one is thinking about this.

    un married women age grows and they will be more burdened like western women to manage herself or her father less(if) family. No man will come forward to marry her or to live with her in fear of 498a or DV act. what will be the fate of the country?

    If you see urban women look healthy and ready for beauty contest, but even higher position men or a bureacrat look dry face, peechy personality or dull/pale structure. Am I wrong in not making this research properly? though we call india, male-dominated, it is never. These men are attached and running their families blindly with no expectation. Such highly position kinda men never take care of their women such way in any part of western life. This happens only in India. Now these men start thinking seriously. These men learn theri sons to stay away from urban women for marriages.

    Laws when designed in bias to women should have been designed bias towards education and literacy as well. Govt must had designed DVact or
    498a differently for educated women after 10th or intermediate atleast, so that misuse gets stopped and country would have flourished infrastructurally. Urban educated ill-women is as cruel as a urban educated ill-men. dont you agree? In that case, how do you agree to keep such laws in the hands of such women? dont you think such women crime increases in society and go unnoticed as there is no law for bad married women to get arrested.

    I came to know about this after looking life in the west for several years. Western nations are male dominated but not India.

    Infrastructure of India will further deteriorate because all significant thinkers loose balance of their mind to perfectly. 5% intellectuals responsible for 70% growth of the country, anyone thought about this. and this 5% disturbed for 5 to 20 yrs due to 498a or dv act!! what happens? present fate of country happened.

    Because of blackmail, by-controll, implicit marital conflicts and years together fight inside courts JUST for finance distribution among couple. Bureacrats and intellectuals mind this way gets ruptured and can’t contribute well or time for the infrastructure better for the country. Intellectuals continue to leave the country.

    This is what you wanted DV or 498a in current form. if any innocent women is learnt about such laws, and one bad individual is enough to change their minds to control their husbands. That starts destruction of marriage and take a lot of time and resources of individuals.

    Today india infrastrcutre is affected, I believe, strong reason is 498a. Many officials participate in corruption as they became imbalanced, selfish not thinking properly for the development of the country, just because their minds are affected for 5 to 15 yrs period in controlled, blackmailed marriage. you can’t imagine what happens to brain or physiology of human when stressed for years together. That outcome is the present physic structure of men in India.

    In future, just like in the west, women be it mother, sister will be fed by only brothers or fathers only. Concept of husband will die. If they get husbands, they get poor husbands, who are economically not well otherwise not. Just western life pervades all walks of life in India. Marriage will not happen (bcoz, boys parents learn boys not to, I learn my son to..i need his physical health and mental helath rather marriage life).

    Many intellecutals(70% 498a cases) masters, phds, engineers, doctors are around courts for 5 yrs to 8 yrs to just become innocent after trials. Is this the way country using intellectual resources/proeprty for the country? is this what we wanted India to be?

    There is chance for India only when dedicated, sacrifice women role is required. India doesn’t afford feminism. It affords active role of BEST women for the development of the nation. Women who are in wonderful marriage and at the same time helping hands for the country flourish and not feminists.

    I end up saying only one thing before western feminism takes its troll completely -

    Good women ROLE is must for Indias growth and to preserve marriage value system and spiritual india. Pls. think calmly for a day or 2 and read western life and indian life difference, where it comes. I want my daughter to be part of this marriage system and not living outside marriage with multiple parterns in the name of liberation.

    Once majority of Indian men are learnt not to provide/protect/feed his wife for no reciprocation/expectation from herside, that is westernization.

    Do you think, a man who simply becomes a pet dog with economic/emotional violence usage by a urban controlling any women. I dont think so. Marriage will 100% break. BUT if the man is intelligent enough to become a beggar, what happens to the fate of that women in the current indian critcal/difficult economy, has any
    one thought about it. She will be forced to enter into mal-profession for survival. Bad elements use her more and more. Is this feminism?

    Such cases grow exponentially from year after year. Men stop marrying if not now, after 5 yrs. parents will no longer marry their boys. they learn them how to stay away and take care of themselves.

    I disclaim all liabilities, these are my opinions & thoughts and experience for the help to other mankind preserving spiritual india.

    NCRB shows 45% men and 25% women suicide after marriage in India
    (http://ncrb.nic.in/ADSI-03.pdf)

    Nagaraj research study (reliable stats : 498a.org/contents/general/
    frontline_suicide.pdf) states men vs women suicide rates change after
    marriage (before marriage 1:0.9) to 3.4 times (age 35-40).

    This means

    a) suicide rates till marriage Women vs. men: 1: 0.9

    b) suicide rates after marriage (nagaraj study): 1: 3.4

    c) suicide rates overall : 25%: 46% (http://ncrb.nic.in/ADSI-03.pdf)

    d) dowry dispute deaths by police FIR stats (shown at National crime stats
    bureau, you can get a copy using RTI) in 2004: 98%: 2% (2585 women in#s: 53 men
    in #s suicided in 2004). THIS IS WHAT WOMEN ORGS SHOWING TO THE WORLD.

    This 2% men are from women (daughter-in-law) side. Men suiciding in marriage
    is not shown here. This figure is terrorizing to rule women orgs, NCW in
    amending dangerous laws like 498a and DV/DP act into cultural society.

    CORRECTIONS:
    Now my question is what happened to 3.4 times maried men?? where they
    are?? I mean

    That means 10000 suicides in 2004 Nagarajan study (“b”)
    states –2270 women suicide and 7730 men suicide BUT above “d” states 53 men
    only (which is men died from daughter-in-laws family)

    Balance 7677 (53 subtracted from 7730) -what happened??. Where are these men
    deaths?? That means 7677 men died JUST LIKE THAT. They died due to NO family
    problems. Reliable stats already states main reason for suicide is family
    problems/issues in India.

    So empirical analysis from above research shows that “d” (i.e, 98%
    vs. 2%), which is FIRs at police station AND FOOLING COMMAN PPL AND MEDIA
    BRINGING DANGEROUS LAWS LIKE 498A, DV ACT.

    Conclusions:
    In year 2004, approx 2585 women suicided/killed and 7730 (or close) men
    suicided/killed after marriage. Dowry burning deaths, so far no reliable source is available
    anywhere in my research but women orgs(sponsored/funded by western interests) are using this weapon a lot in last 15+yrs to raise funds. This needs serious independent (100% un related to women orgs or feminist orgs) research whether selfish interests are involved to westernize India breaking family system or reality further.”

  • David R. Usher

    I just recieved a most interesting email from a discussion group of Indian women. Apparently they do not like the new domestic violence law in India. They know that feminists are lying and do not want to see the Indian family destroyed as feminists have done in western culture.

    See: http://desicritics.org/2006/11/11/135402.php

    Below is a fascinating unedited clip from her email, which eloquently describes how life really is in India, and why Indian women do not want western-style feminism rammed down their throats:

    “In Western nations, women are not supported by husband or anyone. It goes by give and take policy in marriage. In 2005 as per USA census it is said Marriage is getting extinct in USA.

    do you think any man on the land of india will accept someone he is feeding can control him meaninglessly? by criminal terror fear. Marriage will 100% destroy in a year or 10 yrs, But certainly it will. I guess, outsiders of india is involved for this.

    Those women, who are not thinking and running fastly behind feminist organisations are not thinking in a dimension calmly whether it really helps preserve our culture and soul.

    These laws will be used sprucely by manipulative women largely. If any sita using it, her mind will be slowly spoiled by other bad women to misuse it and “umbrella of control” starts in her family. Marriage closes shortly.

    How can a luv/trust/attachment relationship runs with police, using economic/emotional abuse without physical abuse?

    In otherwords, we are getting pulled by western nations for their form of life style. no one is thinking about this.

    un married women age grows and they will be more burdened like western women to manage herself or her father less(if) family. No man will come forward to marry her or to live with her in fear of 498a or DV act. what will be the fate of the country?

    If you see urban women look healthy and ready for beauty contest, but even higher position men or a bureacrat look dry face, peechy personality or dull/pale structure. Am I wrong in not making this research properly? though we call india, male-dominated, it is never. These men are attached and running their families blindly with no expectation. Such highly position kinda men never take care of their women such way in any part of western life. This happens only in India. Now these men start thinking seriously. These men learn theri sons to stay away from urban women for marriages.

    Laws when designed in bias to women should have been designed bias towards education and literacy as well. Govt must had designed DVact or
    498a differently for educated women after 10th or intermediate atleast, so that misuse gets stopped and country would have flourished infrastructurally. Urban educated ill-women is as cruel as a urban educated ill-men. dont you agree? In that case, how do you agree to keep such laws in the hands of such women? dont you think such women crime increases in society and go unnoticed as there is no law for bad married women to get arrested.

    I came to know about this after looking life in the west for several years. Western nations are male dominated but not India.

    Infrastructure of India will further deteriorate because all significant thinkers loose balance of their mind to perfectly. 5% intellectuals responsible for 70% growth of the country, anyone thought about this. and this 5% disturbed for 5 to 20 yrs due to 498a or dv act!! what happens? present fate of country happened.

    Because of blackmail, by-controll, implicit marital conflicts and years together fight inside courts JUST for finance distribution among couple. Bureacrats and intellectuals mind this way gets ruptured and can’t contribute well or time for the infrastructure better for the country. Intellectuals continue to leave the country.

    This is what you wanted DV or 498a in current form. if any innocent women is learnt about such laws, and one bad individual is enough to change their minds to control their husbands. That starts destruction of marriage and take a lot of time and resources of individuals.

    Today india infrastrcutre is affected, I believe, strong reason is 498a. Many officials participate in corruption as they became imbalanced, selfish not thinking properly for the development of the country, just because their minds are affected for 5 to 15 yrs period in controlled, blackmailed marriage. you can’t imagine what happens to brain or physiology of human when stressed for years together. That outcome is the present physic structure of men in India.

    In future, just like in the west, women be it mother, sister will be fed by only brothers or fathers only. Concept of husband will die. If they get husbands, they get poor husbands, who are economically not well otherwise not. Just western life pervades all walks of life in India. Marriage will not happen (bcoz, boys parents learn boys not to, I learn my son to..i need his physical health and mental helath rather marriage life).

    Many intellecutals(70% 498a cases) masters, phds, engineers, doctors are around courts for 5 yrs to 8 yrs to just become innocent after trials. Is this the way country using intellectual resources/proeprty for the country? is this what we wanted India to be?

    There is chance for India only when dedicated, sacrifice women role is required. India doesn’t afford feminism. It affords active role of BEST women for the development of the nation. Women who are in wonderful marriage and at the same time helping hands for the country flourish and not feminists.

    I end up saying only one thing before western feminism takes its troll completely -

    Good women ROLE is must for Indias growth and to preserve marriage value system and spiritual india. Pls. think calmly for a day or 2 and read western life and indian life difference, where it comes. I want my daughter to be part of this marriage system and not living outside marriage with multiple parterns in the name of liberation.

    Once majority of Indian men are learnt not to provide/protect/feed his wife for no reciprocation/expectation from herside, that is westernization.

    Do you think, a man who simply becomes a pet dog with economic/emotional violence usage by a urban controlling any women. I dont think so. Marriage will 100% break. BUT if the man is intelligent enough to become a beggar, what happens to the fate of that women in the current indian critcal/difficult economy, has any
    one thought about it. She will be forced to enter into mal-profession for survival. Bad elements use her more and more. Is this feminism?

    Such cases grow exponentially from year after year. Men stop marrying if not now, after 5 yrs. parents will no longer marry their boys. they learn them how to stay away and take care of themselves.

    I disclaim all liabilities, these are my opinions & thoughts and experience for the help to other mankind preserving spiritual india.

    NCRB shows 45% men and 25% women suicide after marriage in India
    (http://ncrb.nic.in/ADSI-03.pdf)

    Nagaraj research study (reliable stats : 498a.org/contents/general/
    frontline_suicide.pdf) states men vs women suicide rates change after
    marriage (before marriage 1:0.9) to 3.4 times (age 35-40).

    This means

    a) suicide rates till marriage Women vs. men: 1: 0.9

    b) suicide rates after marriage (nagaraj study): 1: 3.4

    c) suicide rates overall : 25%: 46% (http://ncrb.nic.in/ADSI-03.pdf)

    d) dowry dispute deaths by police FIR stats (shown at National crime stats
    bureau, you can get a copy using RTI) in 2004: 98%: 2% (2585 women in#s: 53 men
    in #s suicided in 2004). THIS IS WHAT WOMEN ORGS SHOWING TO THE WORLD.

    This 2% men are from women (daughter-in-law) side. Men suiciding in marriage
    is not shown here. This figure is terrorizing to rule women orgs, NCW in
    amending dangerous laws like 498a and DV/DP act into cultural society.

    CORRECTIONS:
    Now my question is what happened to 3.4 times maried men?? where they
    are?? I mean

    That means 10000 suicides in 2004 Nagarajan study (“b”)
    states –2270 women suicide and 7730 men suicide BUT above “d” states 53 men
    only (which is men died from daughter-in-laws family)

    Balance 7677 (53 subtracted from 7730) -what happened??. Where are these men
    deaths?? That means 7677 men died JUST LIKE THAT. They died due to NO family
    problems. Reliable stats already states main reason for suicide is family
    problems/issues in India.

    So empirical analysis from above research shows that “d” (i.e, 98%
    vs. 2%), which is FIRs at police station AND FOOLING COMMAN PPL AND MEDIA
    BRINGING DANGEROUS LAWS LIKE 498A, DV ACT.

    Conclusions:
    In year 2004, approx 2585 women suicided/killed and 7730 (or close) men
    suicided/killed after marriage. Dowry burning deaths, so far no reliable source is available
    anywhere in my research but women orgs(sponsored/funded by western interests) are using this weapon a lot in last 15+yrs to raise funds. This needs serious independent (100% un related to women orgs or feminist orgs) research whether selfish interests are involved to westernize India breaking family system or reality further.”

  • roger

    Incredible observations from the Indian woman, Mr. Usher. Thank you for sharing.

    steven deluca’s link to the AMA report doesnt work. Go to the site and search for the report. It is yet another validation that feminists are promoting lies and propoganda. The AMA states clearly “There is considerable debate over the relative rates of male-on-female versus female-on-male intimate partner violence. Notwithstanding
    the findings of the NVAWS and the NCVS, a number of earlier surveys suggest
    nearly equal participation rates for men and women in intimate partner violence.
    Best known is the NFVS, which reports that female-on-male rates of aggression
    are as high or higher than male-on-female rates,9 and Straus16 notes that his
    review of some 30 studies using non-self-selected samples yielded the same
    conclusion. According to Straus16p211 the “near equality in assault rates cannot
    be attributed to a gender bias in reporting.”

  • roger

    Incredible observations from the Indian woman, Mr. Usher. Thank you for sharing.

    steven deluca’s link to the AMA report doesnt work. Go to the site and search for the report. It is yet another validation that feminists are promoting lies and propoganda. The AMA states clearly “There is considerable debate over the relative rates of male-on-female versus female-on-male intimate partner violence. Notwithstanding
    the findings of the NVAWS and the NCVS, a number of earlier surveys suggest
    nearly equal participation rates for men and women in intimate partner violence.
    Best known is the NFVS, which reports that female-on-male rates of aggression
    are as high or higher than male-on-female rates,9 and Straus16 notes that his
    review of some 30 studies using non-self-selected samples yielded the same
    conclusion. According to Straus16p211 the “near equality in assault rates cannot
    be attributed to a gender bias in reporting.”

  • David R. Usher

    All,

    There is substantial evidence that VAWA funds are being mis-spent. In 2005, the GAO was charged with providing a full report to Congress on how VAWA is working. This report was never done.

    The few GAO reports that have been made admit that a substantial number of grants are not being monitored, no reports have been filed, and accounting reports have not been filed by women’s abuse centers.

    It appears that a lot of this money is being used to buy Congress, and to finance a feminist cultural invasion of India.

    See:
    http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d02641t.pdf
    http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d0225.pdf
    http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d02309.pdf

  • David R. Usher

    All,

    There is substantial evidence that VAWA funds are being mis-spent. In 2005, the GAO was charged with providing a full report to Congress on how VAWA is working. This report was never done.

    The few GAO reports that have been made admit that a substantial number of grants are not being monitored, no reports have been filed, and accounting reports have not been filed by women’s abuse centers.

    It appears that a lot of this money is being used to buy Congress, and to finance a feminist cultural invasion of India.

    See:
    http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d02641t.pdf
    http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d0225.pdf
    http://www.gao.gov/new.items/d02309.pdf

  • http://www.false-accusers.com TheManOnTheStreet

    The very first DV-intimate partner report was done in 1975. This report has been touted as fact, which I believe it was. One minor glitch, the fems have been touting the ##’s of male-female, but seem to forget that the ##’s of female to male was almost equal. That’s right, the exact report that they have been using as the building block was cherry picked. Imagine that!

    TMOTS

  • http://www.false-accusers.com TheManOnTheStreet

    The very first DV-intimate partner report was done in 1975. This report has been touted as fact, which I believe it was. One minor glitch, the fems have been touting the ##’s of male-female, but seem to forget that the ##’s of female to male was almost equal. That’s right, the exact report that they have been using as the building block was cherry picked. Imagine that!

    TMOTS

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  • Jeff Pingle

    My life, and the lives of my children were destroyed by my abusive wife. See my Facebook page: Jeff Pingle

  • Jeff Pingle

    My life, and the lives of my children were destroyed by my abusive wife. See my Facebook page: Jeff Pingle






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