Carey Roberts
Fathers No Longer Cost-Effective?

I’m not one who is prone to get misty-eyed, but Tim Russert’s latest book did it.

Two years ago Russert penned a moving tribute to his own father, Big Russ and Me, which quickly became a New York Times best-seller. Russert was inundated with so many poignant letters that he decided to compile them into a sequel, Wisdom of Our Fathers. Now that book has become a run-away top-seller, as well.

There’s a message here: persons have an enormous sense of gratitude for the many things – big and small – that dad did for them. I know, that’s exactly how I feel about my father.

But there is a small yet influential group in our society that views fatherhood as an anachronism and a stubborn obstacle to their utopian vision of the social welfare state. And they see divorce and award of child custody to mothers as a highly-effective ploy to achieve their goal.

When one million children experience divorce each year, and when custody is awarded to mothers in 85% of cases, you can see the scope of the problem. If you want to scale down male influence in a society, what better way than to bar fathers from seeing their own sons and daughters?

So this past spring, Mitch Sanderson of Grand Forks, North Dakota set out to make things better for kids. He canvassed voters throughout the state, collecting signatures for a measure on the November ballot to promote shared parenting. The petition stated that in the event of divorce, “each parent would be entitled to joint legal and physical custody unless first declared unfit.”

One of Sanderson’s most vocal supporters was grandmother Myrna Meidinger, who explained, “If you don’t have shared parenting like I went through, it’s hard to see your grandkids.” Before long over 17,000 signatures were gathered, proving that the shared parenting idea enjoyed support throughout the state.

But what happened next is comprehensible only if you remember the old saying, “Follow the money.” Under federal regulations, states stand to gain millions in federal incentives and reimbursements by increasing their child support rolls. If kids spend equal time with dad and mom, child support payments are reduced accordingly.

So in July, Thomas Sullivan of the federal Administration for Children and Families (the gargantuan federal agency that runs our child support apparatus) sent a letter to state senator Tom Fisher. Since the measure would reduce federal largesse by $70 million, citizens should vote against the pro-child ballot initiative, Sullivan argued.

Since when are green-visor bureaucrats allowed to lobby state legislators?

As columnist Stephen Baskerville lamented, “federal bureaucrats are now using taxpayers’ money to strong-arm citizens from democratic decisions that, by relieving a serious social problem, threaten to render the bureaucrats redundant.” [www.humanevents.com/article.php?id=16538]
 

Then North Dakota Human Services director Carol Olson weighed in with the same Chicken-Little message, raising the specter of federal cutbacks. How could anyone so brazenly ignore the well-being of children?

This catapulted Mitch Sanderson’s sleeper initiative into the most-debated topic throughout the state. Soon former governor Ed Schaeffer announced his support for the shared parenting measure.

Schaeffer also chastised the lawyer-dominated state legislature for dragging its feet on the issue. Remember, when divorcing couples litigate high-priced child custody disputes, it’s the lawyers who make out like bandits.

Proving Mr. Schaeffer’s point to be true, the North Dakota bar association soon jumped into the fray. The attorneys hastily assembled a front organization known as the North Dakota Concerned Citizens for Children’s Rights. Soon the group was resorting to scare tactics such as the claim that shared parenting would “dismantle the current child support system.”

Huh?

Two years ago a similar ballot measure was presented to the voters of Massachusetts, where 85% of the electorate approved the idea.

But this time, the lawyers, social workers, and others who profit from family break-up succeeded in sowing enough confusion to tip the balance. This past Tuesday, the shared parenting measure was defeated by a 56% to 44% margin, thus dashing the hopes of Mitch Sanderson, Myrna Meidinger, and the many kids who, like the persons who wrote loving tributes in Tim Russert’s book, long to see their daddies.

Brock Chisolm, former head of the World Health Organization, once admitted, “To achieve world government, it is necessary to remove from the minds of men, their individualism, loyalty to family traditions, national patriotism, and religious dogmas.” Men are often the staunchest defenders of those democratic ideals, so it only makes sense to marginalize males by any means possible.

Usually the Lefties work their mischief behind closed doors. But this time around, the rats came scurrying out of the woodwork.

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    4 Comments »

    1. emarel said,

      When the revolution comes, the first thing to be done will be to shoot all the lawyers.

      November 14, 2006 at 12:44 pm

    2. fourthwire said,

      The lawyers are indeed part of the undermining of America’s families.

      If and when a revolution comes, those federal bureaucracies such as the federal Administration for Children and Families ought to stand together with their fellow vultures…….

      Then there are those lobbyist groups whose professional misandry demonizes men and attempts to remove men entirely from their families who are wastes of oxygen….. or worse.

      November 14, 2006 at 1:01 pm

    3. Roger Knight said,

      The thing for North Dakota fathers to do is scream for the enforcement of the Peonage Law. If you can get a majority of the federal grand jury to act, perhaps then you can persuade a majority of the voters that there are some things more important than the state government receiving federal funds.
      The purpose of replacing the Articles of Confederation with the Constitution was to free the federal government from dependence upon the states for revenue, not to provide the states with an additional tax collection agency.

      November 14, 2006 at 1:51 pm

    4. John Dias said,

      I think that the opponents of the Shared Parenting initiative were successful in defeating it because they appealed to liberal constituency groups, people who depend on government largesse and child-support-as-welfare; in short, they appealed to the left wing of the Democratic party. And this was an election season very favorable to Democrats. Turnout was high among those on the left who agree that government bureaucracies are higher priority than kids seeing both parents equally.

      As a solution, I propose that between now and the next election cycle, proponents of equal shared parenting ought to implement a political counter-strategy. Since a good Democratic year yields results hurtful to equal shared parenting, it follows that a good Republican year would favor the success of a ballot initiative for shared parenting. How to capitalize on this? Push for amendments to the state and national party platforms of the Republican party, in which the GOP goes on record as favoring Equal Shared Parenting as an overall “pro-family” package.

      Such a pro-family package could include several initiatives already favored by Republicans, such as opposition to gay marriage, tax credits and tax deductions for dependents, elimination of the marriage penalty from the tax code, etc. Equal shared parenting would fit well with such a package, implying that when divorce does occur, the “family-as-bedrock-of-civilization” is preserved to the extent that a child is not permanently ripped apart from his own divorced family.

      It’s harder to enact a democratic initiative than it is to push for a new plank to a party platform. It’s all about who you know, and how you frame the message. If you frame advocacy for Equal Shared Parenting as a right of children, and qualify that by provisos that ensure this right only when both parents are deemed fit, safe, and nurturing, I can only see good results on the horizon.

      Today the Democrats are enjoying their successes. But the pendulum will one day swing back the other way. If we can make Equal Shared Parenting an issue associated with Republicans (and also standing alone on its own non-partisan merits), when the electoral pendulum once again swings toward the GOP, we will be ready.

      Support adding Equal Shared Parenting to the Republican Party’s state and national party platforms!

      John Dias
      Founder, DontMakeHerMad.com

      November 14, 2006 at 2:36 pm

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