Human beings know that there is safety and strength in numbers. We have formed villages and societies for just that reason. When a person is a member of the village, they know they are when they are invited to have a seat at the Table and share in the benefits derived through the strength achieved by having a large number of people working together.

But, Now we are presented with two tables. One table has few chairs and only the very wealthy are allowed to sit at that table. If you are not wealthy, you are not a member of their village. The other table is more friendly and they invite everyone to have a seat at that table but only if they agree to share everything equally, so many people choose to not sit at that table either. So table two does not have enough members to achieve strength through numbers. Those in the seats at table two know that they are weak and think about how they can get more people to sit at their table. The realize that fear will bring people to the table so they can feel safe. So, table two invents a threat, an enemy that will force the people to the table. The enemy has to be strong enough to be seen as having enough strength to really be a threat. Unfortunately, the only group that fits the having enough strength to really be a threat is: men. And so men are the invented enemy. And now, men are not allowed to sit at table two and are under constant attack from those seated at table two. The men go to table one and ask for a seat and protection, but table one says “You are not wealthy and we have no need for you. We don’t want to burdoned with you because you will dilute our wealth. We don’t share”.

Poor men, the have no seat at any table. So they look about for another table where men can have a seat and they find such a table. But, to be a member of that table, they have to convert to that tables religiuous beliefs. The men don’t want to but they know if they don’t table two will surely destroy them. Now, table one realizes that if the men join table three, table three will be very powerful and might threaten table one and table three will surely attack table two because now the men are strong and the men want to feel safe from table two. To feel safe from table two, table three attacks table two. Seeing this, table one joins with table two because if they join together they will be stronger. so, now the tables are at war. Who will win? It is not known yet. However, table three appears to be getting stronger and stronger as more and more men come to their table.

Who is table one? They are the Republicans.
Who is table two? They are the Democrats
Who is table three? Who are the only people who will still allow men to have a seat at the table? It is Islam.

And now you know why One and Two are at war with Islam.

If all men go to table three, then Islam will win. But, the men don’t want really want to members of table three, the want to be members of their old village, table two or even table one if they become wealty. But if two never realizes that men are not their enemies, they will surely be destroyed by table three. And if table one refuses to share with the men, then they will surely be destroyed by table three.

So, table one and two, please let the men sit with you for the men are really your people. To not do so will surely result in the destruction of the village of the the men. The village that they once protected, but now feel threatened by.

One and Two, please wake up! Time is running out….

In case you havent noticed, neither I, Baskerville, Braver, or anybody else here is a Senator or a state Rep. I have a number of great laws passed in MO, including the first law protecting reservists from child support abuses, and the toughest moveaway law in the country.

But where Congress is bought and paid for on K street by the Bar and feminists, we don’t stand a chance. They simply refuse to listen, and they refuse to let us testify too.

I have been pushing Republicans to the limit for as long as I can remember. Now, we will take it to the next level. They deserved their losses, and they need to understand they won’t ever win again unless they bring us into the tent.

In the meantime, since you feel quite confident about your ability to pass laws, please go get some passed, or work with those who do to push for it. We need hundreds of Baskervilles and Ushers and everyone else to win. We get the government we deserve.

Because you seemed to get what I was saying about people glazing over, and reading further here about data and classes and activism in general, I’ve reached another conclusion. I believe there are many many well intentioned members of the MRM who have fallen into a pattern that is to be so convinced of one’s position (and rightly so I add) and so involved in studying it, proving it, and “getting the word out” that many have failed to realize that what is obvious to you and me and us is nowhere near obvious to everyone…case in point the glazed over reaction. It reminds me of Christians arguing with athiests using scriture as the basis for the argument. If the person on the other side has no perspective from which the scripture, or in our case the “data” is meaningful, then its folly to harp about it.

I sound like the guy who is all problem and no solution but folks, people untouched by this are completely ambivalent about it.

(when) Men grow a “set” and start being men again. Y’know… Not afraid of the repercushions when they know that they are right. Not caring about what a “judge” will say. Going out and demonstrating their discontent. Refusing to play “their game.”

I’ve been saying this all along. Yes, the system is now stacked against us, and yes life’s a bitch. Now get off your lazy butt and be men. The world will give way to real men.

John, I’d love to get my hands on the data, the dryer the better.

What I meant by the research being dry is that the way it has been presented thus far is dry, academic, and hard to read. And you couldn’t group anything together; it was just an incredibly long Web page. But by the end of next week, you’ll see all of the information at the above link distilled into a single spreadsheet. It will be much easier to read. You’ll be able to quote facts and figures as fast as you can sort Excel columns, and you’ll be able to do so rapidly. Imagine calling a talk radio show with this in front of your eyes. I can’t count the number of times that it has been conceded that men abuse more often than women do; even men buy this line. It’s bunk. And it’s about to be de-bunked.

John Dias

I sense that many single people 40 and younger are having too much fun with disposable income and casual sex to make a sober judgement.

For example, a 30 year old friend’s parents separated – his solution – hoped each parent would date as many people, to have fun.

He is a college professor (read: a liberal).

Though my friend has a graduate and an undergraduate degree, he did not sound smart. I supposed that this is why each of us need to study the bible, to learn how to live life.

In my estimation, the reason why the Men’s Movement hasn’t gotten anywhere is that women have perpetrated the notion that their sex is composed of victims (”survivors”) and men are aggressors or potential aggressors. When this research gets out, for the first time you’ll be able to sort it, compute totals on any numerical columns, and draw overall conclusions from it. The data comes from studies spanning four decades, since the 1960s. It is powerful, and it will be easy to see and make sense of.

Stay tuned; we’re looking as soon as the end of next week.

John Dias
Founder, DontMakeHerMad.com

I just don’t see the competition…

LOL

C’mon Stephen, David, Mike and et all… Join this and have fun as I am…

Eric

Done.

But you got stiff competition.

I’ve also nominated Baskerville, Usher, and
LaSalle.

Would you please nominate me for a pulitzer prize?

Thanks in advance,

Eric

excellent column. I’m forwarding this to the RNC. Not that it will necessary achieve anything. I am so god damned sick of seeing the kool aid drinking hacks that yack yack yack the GOP talking points here and delude themselves into believing they are MNDs answer to the Pulitzer Prize. Same with the DNC hacks that comment here.
I’ve torn up my RNC Life Membership for good. Neither party is ANY good for men and fathers. I’ve been a libertarian at heart all my life but made the mistake of believing that the only way to achieve change is within the system and get one party to see the light. Both parties need to get a lot of abuse by men and fathers. The only good scenario until a third party emerges is divided government. The election achieved that I believe.

This site can become THE focal point for the rights of men and fathers if all the eyeballs out there give their attention to columns such as Carey’s and not to the two-bit hacks on both the left and right that have nothing new to say.

What are they doing, emarel?

Have any laws been passed beside trying to placate and pacify others such as changing the wording of existing statutory law to gender neutral to make the rebuttable presumption of Equal Shared Parenting (ESP)the law of the land not only in the USA, but in Canada, Europe, Great Britain, New Zealand, Australia and etc.?

Let me answer that for you… Nopers.

So, since EVERYONE knows how unjust the “system” is as evidenced by the laughter when a comedian “discusses” the subject, obviously, nothing has changed except that some have written about the problem (Baskerville, Usher and ESPECIALLY Sanford Braver, Leving, Farrel and etc.), what has changed in the last 50-100 years?

Let me answer that for you, too. Nothing.

Oh? The “Tender Years doctrine” “outlaws” bias against men? Yeah! Make me laugh more!

No. Nothing.

Nothing, nada, change and etc. will happen until ONE THING. Just what is that?

Let me answer that again.

Men grow a “set” and start being men again. Y’know… Not afraid of the repercushions when they know that they are right. Not caring about what a “judge” will say. Going out and demonstrating their discontent. Refusing to play “their game.”

It really is simple. If you, you and you, decide that enough is enough, things will change. Until then? Each generation gets weaker because they have become indoctrinated within the system’s indoctrination centers commonly called “public schools.”

Want more? Want proof? I can and am able to give it to you. What you have to do? Promise to act and do what is necessary at the sacrifice of yourself in order to benefit your children. Not ready to do that? Then, don’t e-mail me at FIRM@FIRMncp.com or Eric87443@hotmail.com

Fun stuff, eh?

Eric

Absolutely, Conservativation. Married guys usually respond with that smile that says “Dude, don’t you think you’re going overboard?” Often they’ll even say it out loud. But when their marriage starts circling the rim, who do they seek out…? Guys like me. But I was much the same way, I didn’t know the MRM even existed. I’m making damn sure my sons know about it.

It all comes down to our individual circles of influence.

This information needs to be rolled up and summarized to our legislators until the picture is clear. Something like this was done in NH resulting in the New Hampshire Commision on the Status of Men http://www.nh.gov/csm/. This commission is an admission that there is a problem.

This needs to be done in every state.
And men should DEMAND that Men’s Studies courses are available to young men in high school and college….particularly since more and more boys are being raised by single mothers who have no clue about raising boys.