You are correct. Why are you apologizing?

To have the attitude that a woman is responsible for her own orgasms is outright stupidity — and self-defeating. If you can’t make her scream, she doesn’t need you. If you give her responsibility for her orgasms, she will cheat on or leave you, as well she should.

Pleasing a woman in bed is not, however, tantamount to the spoiling derived from wining & dining her like a whore. Such moronic, emasculating behavior gives her real power and establishes the expectation that you will be a great provider in divorce court. In this regard, comparing an entitled woman to a spoiled-brat child is apt, and I draw this comparison in Under the Clitoral Hood. If you don’t read it, you’ll never know.

Above, luna said that men have stood by allowing their rights to disappear. He is restating the point of this article. Thank you, luna.

If you spoil a child rotten, that child will grow to hate you as a parent.

Marc is very right, that men need to stop feeling they have to do everything for women. But this is the basis of our mating system. But the key to defeating this is not to give women plenty of orgasms. It is not completely a mans responsibility to give women lots of orgasms..And I will say that doing this, is just another form of spoiling women. Women have their own responsibility to get their own orgasms. And men make a big mistake by trying to feel obligated to give women these orgasms.

That is a major problem among western women, is they have big problems in the sexual department. But its up to that women to get hers. Men working extra hard in the bedroom is not the answer. While it is fun to satisfy your woman, it could also become a task for men. And make him lose focus on many other things in life. This giving women lots of orgasms once again brings the focus to the woman. Heck, that gives the female the upper hand. I am the one that wants lots of orgasms.

But stil men need to learn to make women see that they have responsibility, accountability in every department. Right now women feel they have entitlement. That has to change.

So what we may see often when we see certain men in the media and in high authoritative position capitalize on exploiting and weakening other men, is simply that male taking advantage of an opportunity.

I have seen plenty of men talk a good game when they are struggling to get to the top, but when the finally get to the top, they give opportunities to women. Go to any major company and see how it works. You see offices filled with women, and most of the executive offices filled with men. That when men get to the top, the get a certain perverted chilvaristic sense about them. Now they become the Sen. Biden, or the Mike Nifong. I cant tell ya how many times I have seen this..

Men in authoritative positions fear surrounding themselves with more men that women, becuz as men we are the competitive sex, and its more likely to face replacement with more men under him, than females…

“Women have never had the ability to give life because that is the male role…Females are simply incubators who nurture life during pregnancy and after birth…”

Well it may be the wrong choice of words that I used, but I think you would understand what I mean. The fact that women have inside their bodies the ability to give birth, they have simply been able to be capitalize on that. Men need a woman to sustain those babies. And women simply have forced men to do what they want them to based on having that womb. This is the original arguement. This is what the war is all about. This lies at the foundation of the issues that lie between men and women. Women simpl have not been fair about it. But if women fear that if they become baby making machines for men, then they simply lose status.

A wise philosopher once said correctly that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.

The fact that Nifong is totally indifferent to what he is doing to innocent men shows that he considers them irrelevant and without value and worth. He would NEVER ever do what he is doing to women. Maybe he IS doing it to WHITE men, but in the end, the fact that they are men is what matters. These are trumped up rape charges.

The fact that men are sent off to die by incompetent politicians who have failed in THEIR jobs, are expected to always give and give to the women (including giving up OUR rights for the benefit of women), are unjustly jailed, deprived of family, property, and possessions, without due process simply for being men, …these all show how little this society values it’s men. And the POS Nifong is a Baby Boomer male product of this culture. It is a culture awash with misandrist ideas and values and these ideas and values marinate the minds of it’s people. It’s been doing this for 40+ years.

It is a spiritual ‘Ceasarian Section’.

You’re In NONSENSE Territory!

Nifong is playing the race card to win political points and it isn’t going as easily as he thought. He doesn’t hate men, he’s a leftist politician. Leftists will do anything to win, even destroy innocent people. Hating men is NOT part of this.

I agree that the individual members of the feminine gender use their vagina’s to manipulate men yet it is also just as true that they use their wombs to financially enslave men as well…

It seems to me that in this day and age the single greatest mistake a man can make is to become intimate (engage in sexual intercourse)with a female…

Nifong is only acting within the normal parameters of his misandric programing and isn’t even aware that he hates men…Nor is his primary motive driven by hatred of men but by the desire to win a conviction at any cost (a problem that is endemic in the legal profession) in order to keep his job…Had he not pursued a case against the students involved no doubt he would have faced an opponent who would have had no qualms whatsoever campaigning on the promise to pursue the case…Which is being driven by race (black on white racism) just as much if not more so as it is on gender issues…

As the father of a son I would much rather my son to remain single and pursue his own interests rather than a career that would allow him to either marry or bed any female he chooses…For it is upon the altar of lust, marriage and the family court system that the dreams of the average man are being sacrificed in this day and time…

“People used to worship women due to her ability to give life.”

Women have never had the ability to give life because that is the male role…Females are simply incubators who nurture life during pregnancy and after birth…

You understand nothing about what I am teaching men, and you understand less about women. This becomes ever-more clear with every word you write.

It is futile for me to continue a dialog with you, for I am talking to a wall.

Best of luck to you.

You say that men should have equal power to their offspring but right now they have hardly any. Even married men are complaining that they dont have much influence to thec children. I think its childish to teach men to do what you are saying. Every man knows that if he gives his woman the big “o” that he can enslave her. But that is not what men should want to do to women.

What you are teaching is a war in the bedroom, with women. Heck women can give themselves the big “o” without a man these days. With vibrators, dildo, rabbits and such they are geting that orgasm on a regular basis these days. Feminism is teaching women to attach themselves to other women..The whole game being played by you and these feminist is who can make the other cum the hardest…Its purely an immature game.

Men have lost power, because they have simply lost their own self control over themselves. We want loose women, but expect these loose women to have our interest.

Mike Nifong is the result of some mother who teaches who to exploit men to gain power. There are lots of men just like him. Nifong would not exist if his father had of pulled him aside as a boy to teach him how to be a real man. So how do we deal with these men? Or do we just go out on a date and demand that she pay her half? Is that how you suggest I beat Nifong? Or do you suggest calling out the Duke Lacrosse players to stop calling up strippers?

The way to have power (not real power, fun power) over a woman is to give her LOTS of real orgasms — that is the premise of Under the Clitoral Hood. Withholding sex isn’t any fun. I want sex. The purpose of being with a woman IS sex!

When it comes to offspring, neither parent should have real power: we must strive to make all states mandate shared custody. Fair is fair.

Again, back to my article. DA Mike Nifong hates men; that is why he presumed Crystal Gail Mangum innocent and the three lacrosse players guilty. VAWA, Senator Joe Biden’s baby, is premised on woman good/man bad. Joe Biden, the liberal senator from Delaware, is a classic man-hater — study his life.

“The next time a woman begs you to buy her something you don’t want to buy, say “no.” Just try it. The next time a woman demands sex but you are pissed at her, say “no.” Just try it. When a woman begs you to get married or have children before you are ready, say “no.” Just try it. This is how to end misandry — like charity, the anti-misandry revolution begins at home. It’s so simple, most guys don’t see it.”

I am postin here about the sex comment. This goes back to my original comment. I am simply saying that men gain power over women by showing some self-control over themselves. I think you are saying the same thing. But until men learn to say no to sex, and say no to giving things to women, then women will always have that power. But even deeper, I would like to say that many of these men who lack the backbone to say certain things to women, these men have been groomed that way from birth. You can tell many men to stand up, but the truth is, I think alot of men fear women on all kinds of levels. The law, the family, even the church gives women a very big stick to beat men down if they get out of hand. So I go back to my original point, that the one who gains the most power, is the one who has the rights to the offspring.

It is simple: before a blind date, I tell the woman: “This is going to be Dutch. Please let me know that you agree.” Often, the woman will get angry and refuse to pay. I tell her to get lost.

As above, I invite you to listen to my radioclip. You’ll get a better idea of how this conversation about wining & dining goes:

http://web2.streamhoster.com/mhrudov/MHR_RadioHighlights2006.mp3

I dare you to show up at a NOW meeting or a Maureen Dowd lecture to utter these words. Let me know what hospital you’re in afterwards; I’ll send you flowers.