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Society’s age confusion applies to both sexes

2007-08-11
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In an article published in the Atlanta Journal-Constitution called “Cult’s rites do wrong by girls” about Warren Jeffs’ polygynous sect, the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, Susan Paynter writes, “as a society we are still pretty confused about girls and women.” She notes that females of 16 and 17 may be referred to as “young girls” when they are missing or injured but even if as young as 12 and 13 may be declared “mature enough to be held fully responsible for the consequences of their actions” and prosecuted as adults.

Paynter was unnecessarily sexist. The confusion about age applies to boys and men as well as girls and women. I published an article in Court TV’s online Crime about the infamous case of Mary Kay Letourneau, the schoolteacher imprisoned for an affair with Vili Fualaau that began when he was 13 (the couple married after she served seven years in prison). Letourneau’s attorney, David Gehrke noted, “When he had sex with Mary, poor little Vili was not responsible at all for his acts because he was just a child but if he shoots someone or steals a car at that same age, all of a sudden he has personal responsibility. If he commits a crime like an adult, he’ll be held responsible like an adult.”

If anyone is interested in reading my piece on the Letourneau case, it is at http://www.crimelibrary.com/criminal_mind/psychology/marykay_letourneau/1.html.

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  • Virtue

    Did you know this boy is now held accountable for paying childsupport?

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/denise-noe/ Denise Noe

    amfortas: Further, Denise, the young boy is not only held responsible for his actions but hers too. Even a small 6 year old with a late teen babysitter, she is the victim.

    (Denise) Not necessarily. Many, many years ago I read an article in “Good Housekeeping” entitled “My Son Was Molested.” The boy was 6 and had a 13-year-old girl babysitter. When Mom came home late that evening, the boy was obviously disturbed. He told his mother, “Mom, please don’t let Carol babysit me again.” Then the story came out: she had been bathing him and had started manipulating his penis through a towel. “Stop!” the little boy said. “You’re not supposed to do that unless you love the person! And besides, I’m not old enough yet.”
    My ex-husband was asked to babysit because the mother had had bad experiences — the same bad experience — with two teen female babysitters. As the little boy said, “Those babysitters were so weird! All they want to do is wash your w—–! I told them I already know how to bathe myself but they said they had to help and then the only thing they washed was my w—– and my w—– wasn’t even dirty in the first place!”

  • amfortas

    Further, Denise, the young boy is not only held responsible for his actions but hers too. Even a small 6 year old with a late teen babysitter, she is the victim. At 6, 16 or 66, he is held responsible. If he is shot to death with seven bullets from his wife hiding in the bushes after luring him to a quiet spot ‘to talk’, he is guilty and she gets off scot free. (Victoria, Oz, 2 years ago).

    No confusion over males. Males are guilty unless God himself vouches for him. Even then…..

  • markc

    Along with this the idea that someone is innocent by reason of insanity. It should be guilty by reason of insanity. Also the idea that a retarded person does not realize what they have done is wrong. Having worked with them Many understand the system enought to use it well. Young girls who chase older men, then the man is blamed fully and payes the price. So much wrong with the system.







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