We Want Young Dads to Be Responsible Fathers–but All Hell Breaks Loose If They Actually Do It…

2007-08-21
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A letter from a reader:

“Dear Glenn:

“My 16 year old son is one of a kind the one most mothers of teenage daughters would love to have if teen pregnancy was an issue. He works and goes to school straight A student. He did however get his girlfriend pregnant. But he has stepped up and took the responsibility from day one. He has gone out and bought a crib, Bassinet, and swing. He tries to go to the doctor’s appointments and even schedules his job around them. But his girlfriend’s mother is a controlling one–she doesn’t want my son to be a part of this child’s life.

“I just don’t get it. There are so many teenagers that would have ran at the first word ‘pregnant.’ Not him–he wants to be a part, he wants to be there when the baby is delivered, and he wants to be in his life everyday for the late night feedings and the diaper changes. Yet her mother has done everything in her power to keep him from whatever she can.

“I have done so much research on what is my sons rights and there isn’t a whole lot out there. Does he have rights? His girlfriend would like to live here with the baby and my son in our home and finish high school. We are behind them 100 %, but the mother says no.

“She recently went and filed for emancipation from her mother. She will be 17 in a few months and we are not sure if the judge will grant it to her. Although for the unborn child and the mother and father we do hope the judge sees the importance of them wanting to be parents and raising the child.

“They have carefully planned how they will finish high school and go to college. I sure am proud that I have raised my son to be so responsible for his actions. Who does this woman think she is? If you can give me any advice on anything we can do so that this child will have his father in his life I would greatly appreciate it. The baby is due in a few weeks–we are at a stand still with this.

“Thank you

“A loving mother”
 

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  • mruffolo

    a loving mother wrote ” There are so many teenagers that would have ran at the first word ‘pregnant.’ ”

    About 260,300 American teenage women kill a developing baby each year – over 700 per day.

    http://www.mnstate.edu/gracyk/courses/phil%20115/Stats_on_abortion.htm

    About 350,000 American teenage women gave birth to a baby each year – over 950 per day (table 3).

    http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/prelimbirths05_tables.pdf#2

  • amfortas

    “Does he have rights? ”

    Where has she been? Does she not have ears? Eyes?

    Of course he has rights. He has the right to pay for the next 18 years. That’s more than he has lived so far.

    She is astonished at the girl’s mother’s words. Her dismissal of this boy. Why? Hasn’t she noticed that dads of any age are just rapists and deadbeats? Her son.

    She gets one part right, – “his girlfriend’s mother is a controlling one”. She sure is. She is a woman. She is one of so many who have decided that the world revolves around her wishes and to hell with anyone else. Her Daughter. This woman’s Son. The Baby who she wants to be fatherless.

    But what has this boy’s mother been doing all these years while her son’s reputation has been ruined along with all other men and fathers, just because he has a penis.? I’ll tell you.

    She has sat on her arse and kept silent while society has been taken over by the noisy harridans and the legislators that cringe before them.

    There appears to be two sorts of women left in the world: the harridans that she is now having to confront, and the silent, deaf, blind fat arses who look back at her when she looks in the mirror.

    (OK, There are a small, tiny few who speak out. But women like this one just don’t listen).

    Madam, YOU f*cked up.

  • college activist

    mruffolo.. Thank you sir for taking the time to educate men with links to different facts and resourses!!

    My massive college outreach is going to highlight mensnewsdailly in it’s litterature, and we’re going to need men like you to show them the facts!!

    In light of the **DUKE 3*** the time is ripe on college campusses!! I’ve done a few small runs, and am getting an eager audience!!

    so keep in mind sept 1 st onward throughout the year, my hopes are to pack MND. and other educational resourses with young eager college activists!!

  • tonysprout

    College Activist; See also http://standyourground.com/forums/index.php?board=3.0 if you’re not a member there already.

    Stand Your Ground members have thousands of MRA references and many members read here daily. We also discuss many MND news items as well as news not covered here.

  • college activist

    tony sprout..thanks for the tip!!

    I’lle look at it this evening, and see if It’s appropriate to put on my college activist literature!!

    The time is ripe to churn some major interest in our universities!! I’ve spoken with many young men who feel as though our universities are in fact hostile to men,
    to the degree that men are now getting their civil rights violated!!

    REMEMBER THE…… DUKE 3..
    question can anyone tell me the exact day and time that Crystal Gail Magnum…pointed ate those 3 boys and said..” they did it”

    ..Remember the DUKE 3…will be a major protest day!! we must not let this national media event fall into abscurity!!

  • http://elusivewapiti.blogspot.com Elusive Wapiti

    I’m having a hard time seeing what the problem is. This young man is acting just like a husband. She wants the pregnant daughter of the other family to come and live with them in their house. Maybe she’s already thought of this, but there is a solution…have her son and his knocked-up girl get married. That’ll grant emancipation fairly quickly. Perhaps they live in a state where the minimum age to marry is 18?

    Of course, she may not want her son to marry because she realizes what he’ll be signing up for.

    “I have done so much research on what is my sons rights and there isn’t a whole lot out there. Does he have rights?”

    Amazing how many women come to the realization that the fem-friendly world they’ve been receiving goodies from has an ugly downside that comes back to haunt them personally. Too bad they usually don’t realize this until after they see their sons being subdued by the very system they promote. By then, it’s too late for her little boy; he helped a woman get pregnant, now the state has all the reason it needs to enslave him. He is at the whim of a 17 y-o girl with raging hormones, toxic in-laws, and little to no independent judgement. Shame that Mom didn’t realize this earlier. But better late than never, I guess. One more brick in the wall.

    “she doesn’t want my son to be a part of this child’s life”

    I call this the Montel effect: women who complain loudly about how the men in their life don’t step up and “take responsibility”, but when these men do, they obstruct it in every way they can because of their God-cursed need for control.

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  • roger

    college activist –
    make sure your audience is aware that there are FAR FAR more unwanted pregnancies with women in the mid to upper twenties than in teenaged women.
    most unwed pregnanices occur in the 25-35 year old age group and most of these women have at least some college.

    pregnancy is a choice and this age group, more than any other, chooses to get pregnant and have children out of wedlock.

    make sure you tell your college aged audience that the males are TARGETS and they should consider that each and every time they “hook up” with a woman…no matter how reassuring she is that she is “safe”. NEVER trust a woman with your future, because she will be taken care of, BUT YOU WON’T !!

  • bolwriter

    Someone should tell this man about the possibility of a “Putative Father Registry” in his state. We don’t know where he lives, but the majority of states have these registries. By law, a single father who doesn’t report the birth of his child to the registry can lose his parental rights if the mother so desires. These registries are generally not advertised and few people know about them, but he should educate himself. Call a family lawyer.

  • Ed

    Ouch, you guys!

    Amfortas; abadda bing.

    Again.

    Right on the petunia.

    Sorry about the lil errrr….misstep mom but hey, “boyz will be boyz”. Winka winka. And when junior pisses off little mommie, and everyone who thinks he will at some point for vitually nothing raise your hand. WOW. She’ll throw him in the trash heap like yesterdays news.

    Good for him he’s stepping up but mommie, little or groused up and hairy can treat men like crap at their whim or Grandma-ma’s whim. Hell, she can shoot him, stab em, run em over or poison him and just declare he wuz abusing her. That preachers wife got 67 days in a mental hospital for shootng that preacher. Lordy, Lordy.

    Think about, he faces the possibility of never meeting/seeing his child and his mother faces never seeing her grandchild based on the whim of some woman who only owns 50% of the genetic code. Or, worse yet, based on ole battleaxe frump who is 25% genetically related to this poor baby.

    This can’t be America (HEY keep dem checks coming boy or youse going to jail where YOUSE might get pregnant, iffin youse knows what I means). Or can it be America?

    And you guys – hit all the nails on all the heads.

    You can all put your hands down now.

  • mruffolo

    “can anyone tell me the exact day and time that Crystal Gail Magnum[?]”

    About March 13, 2006

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2006_Duke_University_lacrosse_team_scandal

  • Ed

    mruffolo: thanx man, that was some read on the Duke 3.

    Wow, when in context it shows the Loooong arm of the feministas and their ilk. Still, wonder why so many men participate in the wholesale slaughter of other men like Nifong who just wanted (needed?) to believe this whore. Even despite the evidence that these guys were just typical guys having a dancer and this stupid woman whose is obviously nuts. Then read about the police nazi Gottlieb who targeted Duke students and it makes for a very Kafkaesque scene.

    Then again, the family of the slain preacher killed with a shot gun at point blank range by his wife who has since been released and granted custody of the three children after 67 days in a mental health clinic might be feeling the same way as the Duke families and students.

    Like Bubba in Forest Gump said about shrimp, you can basically kill men any which way and simply claim “abuse”. “Shoot em, run em over, poison em, stab em, roast em”. “Claim they raped you, claim they harrased you”. You walk and the man is dead

    Same same.

    Well, I thank the Duke students/families for fighting, bet the Nifong whore and Gottlieb slut pushed for a “deal”. Having balls pays I guess. Having money saves live too.

  • Robert Stevens

    I think women have acted so socially.legally and morally irresponsible because we have let them. They think it is A- OK to act and think that way. It is only when they or someone they care about is abused by this God Awful Government Sponsored kidnapping and Extortion Racket. That’s when the begin to under that it is not fair and it is hurting our society. That may be, wrong is wrong no matter who the victim is. Even if the victim is a man, then it’s still wrong.
    So many women have to learn this lesson. they have been taught for over thirty years, that they are special, they can have rights everybody else doesn’t have.
    They can have rights that come off the back of or at the expense of everyone else and that is just A- OK to. Why even if it cost the life of a man or some unborn child then that is just tough. They should not have gotten in the way. Well.. when people in this country wake up. Then things will change Oh … it will take putting a whole lot of women jail to make them understand that concept. but understand they will .






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