The Fathers’ Rights Movement is winning. Fathers’ rights activists may disagree. Corrupt family laws have not yet been overturned. Too many corrupt politicians and judges are still in business; too few have been dragged off to jail where they belong. The greatest swindle of the 20th and now 21st centuries – the federal child support enforcement system – has not yet been dismantled. Nonetheless; the foundation for corruption is only an artificially produced mirage. Each day the population moves forward and more people see the mirage disappear.
What the internet debate savvy population understands, as well as many others, is what people do when they cannot win an argument based on fact and logic. They attack their opponents. With the disappearance of the illusion as reason for criminalizing fatherhood, all that is left are the personal attacks – the name calling. But even here there is growing awareness that the list of accusations in support of reform were false.
The attack against fathers, and fathers’ rights, began before the existence of the fathers’ rights movement as we know it today. This movement is a “backlash” against government corruption, the organized and intentional destruction of the institution of family, and 10s of billions of dollars being stolen from government coffers as well as from fathers and children; organized crime. Even those who still do not understand the connection between the battle for fathers’ rights and their own lives may eventually want to know where their money is and whether they can get it back. They will certainly not want to continue paying extra taxes merely to support criminal gangs.
There is a large constituency that is already aware of the destruction of family and they are sincerely concerned. Unfortunately, they have not yet organized themselves under effective leadership. We must wonder how long it will be before they understand that the two major parties are inseparable from the problem and will not provide a solution. Many still fall for the promise of a distant better future, where unpassable or ineffective or destructive constitutional amendments may save the day – or new federal judges may offer an as yet unimagined solution.
Worse yet is that these false hopes serve to produce yet another illusion. They are proposals quite separate from solutions that fathers’ rights activists are looking for. The implicit message is that there is a difference between the fathers’ rights struggle and the struggle to restore the family. But this illusion too can be addressed, since there is now a fathers’ rights movement to address it.
This new illusion seems also to have found a parking spot on Mitt Romney who has been favored in a religious right straw poll. Apparently he has done well due to his occasional reference to his religion. Merely mentioning that he is a member of a minority religion is still mentioning religion more than other candidates. This does help define the size of the current problem. A large group most concerned with family issues has little knowledge of family politics; else they would already be aware of Romney’s extreme anti-family record as Governor of Massachusetts.

