Deadbeat Abandons Child

2007-10-31
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Oops, I’m sorry, I forgot–only fathers can be deadbeats. This mother who abandoned her child is not a “deadbeat” for leaving her baby at a hospital. She can walk out of the newborn girl’s life without owing any responsibility to the child she created. In fact, if anything, she’s a victim.

The article says, “[Indiana's Safe Haven Law] The parents do not have to identify themselves or explain their actions as long as the baby is unharmed.” “Parents”? So a dad who doesn’t want to take responsibility for a baby can simply take the baby to the hospital and wash his hands of all responsibility the way moms do? No, sir…

I am not without sympathy for women, particularly young women, who face unwanted pregnancies. What I oppose is society’s severe gender double standard on the issue.

Woman leaves newborn at hospital
By Vic Ryckaert
Indianapolis Star, 10/31/07
vic.ryckaert@indystar.com

Police say a woman left a newborn girl with a worker at an Eastside hospital this week.

The woman, apparently the child’s mother, stopped a Community East Hospital employee in the parking lot and handed the worker the baby girl bundled in blankets at about 12:45 p.m. on Monday, according to an Indianapolis Metropolitan Police report.

“The unidentified female then stated the baby had just been born (and) that she could not take care of it,” Marion County Sheriff’s Department Special Deputy

Thomas O’Daniel wrote in his report.

Hospital worker Karen Fisher brought the child to the hospital’s nursery.

The baby is in the care of Child Protective Services, police said.

Indiana’s Safe Haven Law allows a parent who cannot care for an infant younger than 45 days old to leave the baby with staff at hospitals, police stations and firehouses. The parents do not have to identify themselves or explain their actions as long as the baby is unharmed.

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  • bolwriter

    Glenn – You say men and women are treated differently under this law. Are they? If a man takes a newborn (under 45 days old) who has not been harmed to a hospital, can he not give the child up and not face any legal consequences?

  • tonysprout

    In Ohio the law says that any parent having legal custody of a newborn may legally abandon. Another section specifies that unwed mothers have have legal custody, not the fathers.

    I’m sure most if not all state laws are worded the same.

  • roger

    well, this needs to be tested, of course.
    but I suggest right now that the male will likely be arrested for kid napping, and THEN abandonement.

    fathers have no right to ‘save haven’ protection – in my estimation.
    they should – but I presume they do not (based upon how all other pro-female legislative biases work).

    willful abandonment ‘should’ be a decision that both parties agree with.
    as bringing a child to full term ‘should’ be.
    as aborting an unwanted pregnancy ‘should’ be.

    however, we know how these decisions are typically hijacked by the woman.

    and she states “my body, my choice”. (na, na, na!)

    sounds like a playground taunt to me.






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