Domestic Violence ‘Training’ for Judges

2007-12-27
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Texas criminal defense attorney Paul Stuckle (pictured), who specializes in defending men falsely accused of domestic violence or sexual abuse, wrote me recently concerning the Domestic Violence Benchbook used for judges in the state of New Mexico. It is put out by the Rozier E. Sanchez Judicial Education Center of New Mexico, which was established under a federal grant to provide education and training to the judges, administrators and other staff of the New Mexico judicial branch. The Benchbook contains numerous gems, including this one:

“Domestic violence perpetrators can be men or women involved in heterosexual or same-sex intimate relationships, and New Mexico’s laws against domestic violence make no distinction based on the parties’ gender or sexual orientation. Nonetheless, the discussion in this chapter will assume a heterosexual relationship with a male abuser unless otherwise indicated. The discussion uses this assumption because most domestic violence research has been done in this context.

“Violence in same-sex relationships and in heterosexual relationships with female abusers has not been much studied to date, and is not well understood. According to the National Crime Victimization Survey (1992-1996), about 85% of victims of intimate violence are women. Although less likely than men to experience violent crime overall, women are 5 to 8 times more likely than men to be victimized by an intimate. Greenfeld, et al, Violence by Intimates, p. 1, 4 (Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1998).”

As I’ve explained on numerous occasions, crime surveys dramatically and consistently undercount male victims of domestic violence, for reasons that are logical and understandable. (To learn more, see my co-authored column New DOJ Domestic Violence Study Undercounts Male Victims, Baltimore Sun, 1/12/07). Domestic violence research clearly shows that women are at least as likely to attack their male partners as vice versa, and that one-third of domestic violence injuries are sustained by heterosexual males.

The Domestic Violence Benchbook even cites and treats as good coin research from Dr. Lenore E. A. Walker’s The Battered Woman Syndrome (aka the “How to Murder Your Husband and Get Away with It” defense).

This is another example of the importance of the California Alliance for Families and Children’s upcoming conference “From Ideology to Inclusion: Evidence-Based Policy and Intervention in Domestic Violence.” The dissident domestic violence authorities and researchers speaking and directing the conference are challenging the domestic violence establishment’s discredited yet pervasive “man as perp/woman as victim” model of domestic violence. To learn more, see my recent post Group of Domestic Violence Dissidents/Authorities Sponsors Historic Conference.

[Note: If you or someone you love is being abused, the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women provides crisis intervention and support services to victims of domestic violence and their families.] 

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  • lieweary

    “We’re not going to be biased. Instead, we’ll be biased.” Love the double-speak.

    I don’t doubt at all that one-third of domestic violence injuries are suffered by men, but I still find that to be an incredible figure. There must be many more assaults that don’t result in injuries.

    I’ve read that over 50% of domestic violence is done by women, but perhaps the real figure is much higher. The men obviously are underreporting this stuff.

  • steven deluca

    A woman attacking a man, or their children in the home, does severe damage, even if the injuried don’t need medical attention. Domestic Terrorism is the term I believe E Pizzey calls it.

    There is NEVER any excuse for DV the feminists tell us, unless of course you have breasts and then you can blame: The patriarchy, the husband, the boy friend that once treated you badly, PMS, poverty, drugs, Post Patrum Blues, … bottom line, most feminists still say “there is no excuse” and then when it’s a woman who is the abuser they spend time defending her and explaining it away because in their eyes, the estrogen crew just doesn’t do such things unless something has “happened” to her to “make her” react.

    Never will feminist allow a man to use any excuse, not even months of bitching, or threats (I can call 911 anytime – I can get the kids, anytime, I can slap you and if you slap me back I can get you arrestsed, anytime)

    He can see her abusing the children or having sex in their bed with another man (or woman) … and when he slaps her for that – such acts are not considered slap worthy, while a woman slicing off a man’s penis is cheered on for simlar reasons… if she slaps him any reason feminist don’t need or want a reason, his maleness is cause enough. Men, don’tchaknow, provoke women and men can take it.

    Again, look up the song, or google the lyrics of “fathers be good to your daughters” (I think that’s the title. Where mothers and fathers are told to be good to girls but… “Boys you can break, see how much they can take” … that is the attitude of schools, cops, courts, judges, it seems to me. ) Be good to daughters, and mothers, and give all woman any excuse they want. If any woman shouold fail in school, fail in politics, fail in work, fail in marriage, it’s almost always seen as men’s fault.

    DV against males? He had it coming. And still, few men are speaking up.

    I have read in woman’s magazines a mom bragging about training her son to respect women, give women what they want, and advising other mothers to train boys to be slaves for women’s needs. When I hear most men speak of gender, they are almost always repeating feminist views.

    The callousness towards males is showing up in drop out rates from school, in male suicides, and now 2 million men in jail. When women start seeing how this is affecting their daughters “no good men” or “all the good ones are married” … when they have not enough men to protect our borders – the damage done will take a 100 years to fix. Feminists think they are winning but what are they winning. Broken families, more drugs, teens with children, more homeless men, a weakened military, …

  • lieweary

    I just Googled “Fathers be good to your daughters.” Yuck! What a stupid song.

  • amfortas

    Wonderful how ‘inclusiveness’ goes, isn’t it. There are numerous PC books and articles published which eschew the ‘he’ word (‘He’ embraces ‘she’)when describing both genders, and substitutes ‘she’. It is deemed ‘oppression’, otherwise. Even the Judges own manuals do this describing the individual Judge’s required actions as ‘she will…’ etc. But when it comes to DV, it is ‘he’ inclusive of she. Whooda thunk!

    Selective PC Hypocricy.

    Man = bad: woman = good.

  • http://www.antipeonage.0catch.com Roger Knight

    No excuse for domestic violence they say. Unless the perpetrator is Lorena Bobbit, who could qualify for a job harvesting pineapples. Or Clara Harris who graduated from the Ted Kennedy Driving School. At least she showed a touch of class using a Mercedes whereas the Senator used a ’67 Oldsmobile. And what’s a shotgun blast to the back of a sleeping man between friends? Farrah Fawcett once played the part of a woman who burned her man in his bed. Lee Majors and Ryan O’Neal ought thank their lucky stars they survived their marriages to her!

    Funny how we don’t hear anyone saying that there is no excuse for violating the Constitution of the United States. Or that there is no excuse for violating a state constitution that prohibits imprisonment for debt. Or that there is no excuse for violating the Antipeonage Act. Or that there is no excuse for extortion.

    And whether or not it is an excuse, those being extorted sometimes react badly.

    Darren Mack, for example.

  • http://www.shatterdmen.com/ shatteredmen

    There is another point to remember. Often when men report domestic abuse, nothing is done about it. My own son was hit with a broom and the police did nothing. This is after he had a heavy glass just miss his head.

    Why did this happen? He was trying to leave when his female abuser started yelling and screaming. (Is this not what men are told to do?)

    I was called and got there before the police left and I even gave them a Shattered Men business card but the only thing we were able to do is to assure the police did take a picture of the bruise she left.

    One reason the police did not do anything…..Many state attorney generals actually have a policy NOT to prosecute WOMEN for domestic violence.

    Again, we can thank the VAWA for this!






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