Tentative thoughts on the William J. Hetherington spousal rape case

2007-12-29
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I am currently researching the case of William J. Hetherington, a man who has served over twenty years in prison because he was convicted of raping his wife Linda during their separation. He maintains that the rape never occurred and his cause has found prominent champions such as Phyllis Schlafly and the National Coalition of Free Men.

So far, I have only found sources that depict Hetherington as a likely victim of a miscarriage of justice. My research is far from complete so my readers should take my observations on the case as tentative.

The seemingly most thorough source I have found on this case is “Complexities cloud marital rape case” by Cathy Young. It was the August 1, 1994 cover story for Insight on the News, a magazine owned by Rev. Sun Myung Moon’s Unification Church. Some may be suspicious of anything connected with the “Moonies” but Young’s piece at least appears to have the markings of solid and professional reportage.

I cannot quote too much from Young’s article without infringing on her intellectual property. The link to that article is http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1571/is_n31_v10/ai_15674644/pg_2.

To understand this blog, my reader must first read Young’s article as much of my writing will be commentary on it.

Young writes that there were “several times” when “Linda would accuse her husband of raping her.”

This reminds me of a radio call-in program I heard on rape. A man called in who had two things to say. The first was to ask if there was such a thing as a “habitual rape victim.” His question did not mean he doubted the existence of rape as his second statement was to introduce a woman with him whom he said had survived an attempted rape.

One of the guests on the program acknowledged that there are “habitual rape victims” and spoke of trying to find out if they were lying or hallucinating. I also recall reading an article on rape that stated that a mentally disturbed woman regularly called either police or rape crisis lines to say that newscaster Roger Mudd was climbing through her window.

It seems to me that when someone has “several times” told authorities that she (or he, although it would probably usually be she) has been the victim of a sex crime, it would behoove authorities to order a thorough psychiatric work-up on the complainant. It is not at all impossible for someone to have been victimized multiple times but a pattern of accusation gives rise to the possibility that the complainant is either trying to manipulate the system or hallucinating and these possibilities should be checked out. Young’s article gives no evidence that any such examination was done on Linda Hetherington.

Young details Linda’s version of the rape that was prosecuted. I find it a description of a gaspingly horrible crime.

William insists that no forced sex took place. Rather, he says that Linda made sexual overtures to which he happily responded and the separated couple engaged in sexual intercourse.

After William’s arrest, Young continues, he could not post bond because his assets had been frozen in divorce court. The matter of the frozen assets hangs heavily over this case as it appears to have put this defendant in a kind of classic Catch-22 bind. He had assets and therefore was not declared indigent and so was ineligible to have court-appointed counsel. However, the freezing of the assets meant that he could not use them! It seems obvious to me that frozen assets should be considered as good as no assets in determining a defendant’s financial status.

Young writes, “A pelvic examination at the hospital three hours after the incident showed no evidence of forced penetration – a fact that the doctor who examined Linda described on the stand as ‘very unusual.’”

Perhaps the oddest part of Linda’s story, at least as reported by Young, is Linda’s assertion that William flushed packaging tape with which he had gagged her, together with gloves he wore during the attack, and even their underwear down the toilet.

Huh? That would seem to make for one clogged-up can. While someone in a panic after a crime might indeed attempt to flush such bulky items, it hardly seems likely that they would have swirled obligingly down the commode without blocking up the tank. Yet Young reports that the police did not even try to recover this vital evidence up from the pipes!

However, a jury convicted William. Why? Young’s article does not really give a convincing explanation although it notes that two police officers saw what they believed to be masking tape marks on Linda’s and testified to this. Young also writes that the medical examination found no evidence that tape had been on her face. There was other evidence, as readers of Young’s piece should know, but the total case appears weak.

The jury’s verdict is a puzzle to this writer. Judge Thomas Yeotis’s sentence is an equal one. Young writes that Michigan’s sentencing guidelines would have suggested “a sentence of six to 10 years.” The judge sentenced him to 15 to 30 years. Young quotes Yeotis as saying, “You come into court, Mr. Hetherington, and you make a nice appearance and yet, there’s something about you that disturbs me.”

In other words, this judge more than doubled what his state’s sentencing guidelines say a defendant should be sentenced to simply because the defendant rubbed him the wrong way.

Some of my readers believe this case means that there should be no laws against spousal rape — even when the parties are separated. Young writes that William has supporters who have no quarrel with the law under which he was convicted but believe he has been unjustly imprisoned under it.

One conclusion I draw from this case is that a defendant who is indigent without assets that are frozen should be considered – well, indigent. Not to do so flies in the face of reality.

Phyllis Schlafly writes in a column on this case that can be found at http://www.eagleforum.org/column/2006/feb06/06-02-08.html that the parole board has repeatedly denied William parole because the “prisoner denies the offense.” I believe this reason for parole denial should be excluded by law because it presumes a perfection that no system of justice can ever achieve.

I would like to do more research on this case. However, what I’ve read so far leads to the conclusion that much went awry in the prosecution and incarceration of William J. Hetherington. It seems quite possible that authorities were attempting to make an example of him to, as a prosecutor stated, “let the women of this world know this is not tolerated.” Thus, he may have become a scapegoat in the feminist campaign to punish husbands for sexually coercing themselves upon their wives.

If this is so, Hetherington’s case resembles that of Leo Frank, who was a victim in the 1910s of an industrializing society’s fear for the safety of female factory workers and of comedian Roscoe “Fatty” Arbuckle, who was a victim of the concern in the 1920s with Hollywood’s supposed sexual exploitation of women.

To learn more, and/or learn how to aid Hetherington, I suggest my readers visit not only the websites suggested above but the following as well: http://www.geocities.com/tiluser/wils_page.html and http://ncfm.org/william-hetherington.html.

  • fourthwire

    Belatedly, I read your blog on William Hetherington’s case, Denise. Sorry to have been out of contact for so long.

    Even taking my own interest in this case aside, I am impressed with the quality of your writing, your articulation of the information available, and your interest in delving into almost every man’s nightmare.

    Much is written about how actual rape hurts and scars women, but you have now delved into how rape accusations can destroy a man’s life.

    I know that I have written harshly, even impolitely in reply to some of your earlier blogs.

    But through this particular blog, I am privy to some of the best writing that I have had the pleasure to read on a topic that is near and dear to my heart.

    As you know, I am already fairly well-versed on many of the aspects of this particular case and you managed to cover quite well many of the salient details of which I am aware.

    I do not know if your investigations to date have uncovered information about a letter supposedly written by the Hetheringtons’ babysitter that was declared inadmissible as evidence, since it was forthcoming some time after William Hetherington’s conviction.

    That letter supposedly stated that Linda Hetherington lied about the so-called rape incident since she was having an affair, and wanted her husband safely out of the way, unable to claim custody of their children, much less their house and other assets.

    If this alleged letter actually was written, it would have provided a motive for Linda Hetherington’s deranged or malicious rape accusation against William Hetherington.

    That being written, your blog has shown me that facet of a compassionate, intelligent, loving credit to American womanhood that apparently our friend amfortas perceived some time ago.

    In writing this blog, you have demonstrated your compassion for men’s plight – how rape accusations can be used to separate a man from his career, his children, his home, his assets, his right to an attorney, and his freedom, for a woman’s personal convenience, or simply so that radical feminists can demonstrate their hatred for men, not to mention their political power.

    My own crude investigations into this case shows that it’s very likely that William Hetherington was purposely denied due justice, due to political pressure to make a man “an example”, at Michigan feminists’ bidding.

    He was almost certainly railroaded into a prison cell for his wife’s convenience, and so that Michigan’s feminists could continue inciting women to male-hatred, and men to learn to fear their own wives’ whims.

    If the Duke lacrosse team defendants had not had considerable funding available to hire attorneys, perhaps they would have fared no better than Mr. Hetherington.

    Keith McKay, if you read this message, please convey my own email address to Mr. Hetherington: beltfed.weapon@hotmail.com

    Denise, you have my admiration and respect for doing the right thing, through writing about Mr. Hetherington’s case as eloquently as you have.

    I truly hope that the state of Michigan that incarcerated him sees fit to pardon him, wipe his record clean and restore a measure of justice for him.

    This miscarriage of justice could have happened to me, Denise.

    It could have happened to most men…… to be unjustly convicted of one of the most heinous crimes, merely on a whim, for the convenience of an unscrupulous or deranged woman, backed by a judge doing the bidding of men-haters.

    Thank you for providing this articulately-, compassionately-written blog, Denise Noe.

    I hope that you will write more about the case in the future, if you have sufficient material.

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/denise-noe/ Denise Noe

    FriendOfWill said,

    Denise,

    I have been a friend of William Hetherington for the past 20 years. He asked me to write to you to determine if it was possible for him to submit documentation about his case that may help to shed greater light on the situation that is not currently available from the sources that you mention in this article. If that is acceptable, please specify a mailing address where it can be sent.

    Keith McKay

    (Denise) Thank you, Mr. McKay. Email me at ddnoe@bellsouth.net for the mailing address.

  • FriendOfWill

    Denise,

    I have been a friend of William Hetherington for the past 20 years. He asked me to write to you to determine if it was possible for him to submit documentation about his case that may help to shed greater light on the situation that is not currently available from the sources that you mention in this article. If that is acceptable, please specify a mailing address where it can be sent.

    Keith McKay

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/denise-noe/ Denise Noe

    steven deluca said,

    Raping a wife. That’s a weapon any angry woman could hang over a man’s head. Not saying raping a spouse isn’t a real issue but if she was forced to have sex with a man she has had sex with hundreds of times, then is it the sex, or that he humiliated her by showing he was stronger…

    (Denise) I think most women know most men are physically much stronger, especially in the upper body, and don’t believe we feel humiliated by this knowledge. Heck, the vast majority of WOMEN are much physically stronger than I am but I don’t go around charging random females with crimes because I feel inferior to them on this count.
    Steven, the truth is that consent simply must be freshly renewed each time people are sexually active. Prostitutes may have had thousands of pervious sexual partners but if they are forced — by a previous customer or someone else — it is rape. No matter how many times people have previously had sex, no one has the right to force it on them.

    Steven DeLuca: Why is it that women can shoot husbands and get off but a man raping his wife can get 30 years.

    (Denise) One of the questions here is whether or not he actually DID rape her. Another is the severity of the sentence if he is in fact guilty.

    steven deluca: A girls scout goes door to door, is raped, … find the guy, toss the key, but the rape of a wife or X wife, it’s not the same no matter how brain washed we are about how holy a vagina and how missle like a penis is… ya, a man rapes a woman he has had sex with many time, should go to jail, but decades, for that, – that’s closer to stoning a man or woman under old laws for having premarital sex … than to justice.

    (Denise) Some people might say the girl scout “asked for it” because she shouldn’t have been going door to door pestering people.

  • steven deluca

    I believe that if you go to the newspapers or local safehouses around the time of his trial to see if women’s groups showed up, or if women’s groups held rallies asking the courts to teach all husbands a lesson, to make an example of Hetherington – you would (likely) find that the judge knew he was being watched and that his views (support women, get bad men – be a hero) are influenced by what the loudest voices wanted.

    Wasn’t she at his home when this happened? Also, follow the perks, the cash, what did she gain and what did he lose at that point?

    Raping a wife. That’s a weapon any angry woman could hang over a man’s head. Not saying raping a spouse isn’t a real issue but if she was forced to have sex with a man she has had sex with hundreds of times, then is it the sex, or that he humiliated her by showing he was stronger… Why is it that women can shoot husbands and get off but a man raping his wife can get 30 years.

    It’s the vagina union. Cheap sex is when a woman “gives it up” too easily, not enough dates or ass kissing, not enough promise of future somethings… we laugh when a man gets his penis cut off at the jokes that follow because, p’s are a bad thing, not like a V… so disgusting – American PR for men and male bodies is at an all time low, while the Vagina is a holy temple thanks to the Vagina M plays, where men should pay, bow down, (one one knee for marriage) and he “gets to kiss the bride” not kiss each other… it’s a way of seeing the sexes.

    A girls scout goes door to door, is raped, … find the guy, toss the key, but the rape of a wife or X wife, it’s not the same no matter how brain washed we are about how holy a vagina and how missle like a penis is… ya, a man rapes a woman he has had sex with many time, should go to jail, but decades, for that, – that’s closer to stoning a man or woman under old laws for having premarital sex … than to justice.

    We don’t know, there is no proof, that he raped her or didn’t rape her. She said he did, he said she didn’t. Shall we chaulk it up to a couple of screwups spending time together after once calling it love, …

    There is no way in the world that he had a fair trial. He was seen, like the Duke crew, as guilty before the evidence came in, I am pretty sure of it. And if they had enough to show rape, then give him a year or two because they had been lovers and we can’t really know the damage done … my guess is that words were exchanged that were as harmful as that act if he did force her (And please don’t – women readers, suggest that because I am a man I can’t know what a horrible crime this is – I know it can be one of the worst and I know that some women lie about it) then he should have been punished. But if you don’t know for sure… then what? Go with the PR from women’s studies?

  • JamesH

    There is a world wide trend happening.

    In Australia a feminist recently posted an article on the subjecto of Gynocide

    http://www.onlineopinion.com.au/view.asp?article=6787

    Gynocide: the idea that men create a social system where women live entirely as instruments of men’s interests.

    In the UK there is currently a push to make it a criminal offense to have sex with woman who is under the influence.
    http://www.cooltools4men.com/2007/12/john-redwood-has-said-something.html#links

    In Australia a similar trend is emerging.
    http://www.smh.com.au/news/national/tougher-rape-law-no-means-no-way/2007/12/29/1198778769223.html

    http://blogs.news.com.au/heraldsun/robynriley/index.php/heraldsun/comments/no_means_no

    Basically it appears that since the definition of rape has expanded to encapsulate a wide range of behaviours.

    There was a research paper which asked women had they experienced certain types of behaviour and if they had reported the behaviours to the police.

    The researchers then took the answers where women had said that they had experienced certain behaviours and would prefer to deal with the issue privately rather than reporting the behaviour to the police.

    The women regard the issues as a private issue rather than a criminal offense. The researchers however regard the the behaviours as a criminal offence that was not reported to the police.

    So this is where the idea that the vast majority of rapes are not reported to the police.

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  • lieweary

    Wouldn’t that just make it worse? Then every male would be a juicy financial target. Not every false rape allegation is motivated by money.

  • jackal1994

    Maybe the Duke 3 will use their giant settlement and come out with a business idea called “rape insurance”. Having lawyers permanently on-staff would definitely be much cheaper than hiring one temporarily.

    If (say) 2.5million men paid $20 monthly, and (say) .05% are accused of rape every month, then you could easily be covered by the ‘company’ up until you policy pay-out runs out: say $1 million in lawyer fee’s.

    It’s actually getting THAT SICK out there. The world is so badly turned upside down that this actually begins to make sense.

  • RScott

    A man is guilty until proven innocent – and often even proof of innocense is not enough as we saw demonstrated in the Duke False Accusation case. Never invite the state into your consenting adult relationships through “marriage” requiring the state’s permission. Simply recognize the fact that the state’s definition of marriage in no way coincides with the reality of the couple’s definition and insist on a private cohabitation agreement that clearly spells out there will be no transfer of assets or the product of labor should the relationship end. Since the legal version of marriage only provides negative consequences without benefits, this approach to marriage should be very sellable to the general population and provide idiot politicians with a clear message!

  • lieweary

    No evidence? No problem.

  • Squiggy

    Well-written, and fair, Denise. Please yell loudly about this case, and find out what you can. Who knows? You might just change someone’s life.

  • amfortas

    These ‘tentative’ thoughts are in keeping with a clear mind. The points mentioned are all cause for considering a travesty of justice, as is the enormously long sentence.

    Rape is an awful crime, when it is rape.

    So are several other crimes, which do not rate the same level of hysterical self-righteousness.

    Most crimes are ‘not tolerated’ – that’s why they are considered punishable, shirley? The major issue with rape accusation is the reliance almost always on just one person’s claims, in the face of the accused’s denial. In pretty well every other crime, corroborating evidence is required, and pretty convincing evidence at that.

    Can one imagine say an accusation that one’s home had been burgled and a finger pointed at a person? Easy to imagine, even find a thousand examples.

    Would there be ‘anonymity’ given to the accuser, the one whose home had been violated? No. Of course not. Justice should be open and transaprent and the accuser and accused known.

    Would there be an investigation to determine if the house had, in fact , been burgled? Of course there would. Insurance companies insist! Exactly what has been stolen would be noted and proof of their existence and ownership would have to be provided.

    And maybe this is what is needed. An insurance investigator.

    Insurance companies have to pay out. They do not like being cheated by false declarations of loss. They are thorough in their investigations, even well beyond police procedures. The Public Prosecutors, in rape cases (indeed, as in many other criminal cases) do not have to pay-out to a victim. They have no incentive to find the truth.

    Once upon a time, Truth was the assumed incentive. It was expected that the police, the lawyers, the judges would seek and uncover the truth: what actually happened here? What is the Reality? But our courts and Justice system, even our Police forces seem to have become so disconnected with Truth that they have no purchace on reality any more.

    Further, and a most telling point: Insurance companies INSIST on prosecuting false claimants. Thay want them jailed for fraud. Oddly, that does not deter real claimants ones one bit.


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