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Whenever Something to Make Family Court Fairer for Dads is Proposed, the First and Final Argument Which Kills It Is….

2008-02-12
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…Domestic Violence.

In the article below, South Dakota legislators propose a 90 day waiting period for divorce filings so spouses from other states can’t skip off to South Dakota, file for divorce, and force the estranged spouse to suffer the disadvantage and expense of having to contest the divorce from out-of-state.

It’s an eminently reasonable argument but what does the opposition say? The South Dakota Advocacy Network for Women says that the proposed waiting period would endanger women who flee to South Dakota to escape abusive husbands. So basically women should be permitted to use this scam, because a tiny percentage of them might be fleeing abuse. (And by the way, the women could just get a Protection Order without the divorce anyway).

This is yet another example of why the fatherhood movement needs to confront the domestic violence issue and the misleading, anti-male claims of the domestic violence establishment.

(It’s also an example of why the California Alliance for Families and Children’s February 15/16 conference–“From Ideology to Inclusion: Evidence-Based Policy and Intervention in Domestic Violence” is so important. Dozens of leading authorities in the domestic violence field are challenging the entrenched domestic violence system. They are advocating for non-discriminatory and evidence-based policies, and seek to correct the many damaging laws and policies which have been based on misleading claims. To learn more, click here.)

The article is below. The bill did get out of committee, barely.

Divorce requirement proposed
Associated Press
February 7, 2008

PIERRE – State law contains no minimum length of residency to file for divorce in South Dakota, but that may change.

A bill sent 7-6 Wednesday to the House floor by the Judiciary Committee would not permit people to start divorce proceedings until they have lived in the state for at least 90 days.

Rep. Richard Engels, D-Hartford, said the absence of any waiting period allows nonresidents to come into the state and immediately file for divorce. He said that is unfair because it forces estranged husbands and wives in other states to bear the expense and inconvenience of going through the legal proceeding in South Dakota.

South Dakota once had a one-year residency requirement before people could file for divorce, but the Legislature eliminated the waiting period after a federal court ruled several years ago that a waiting period was unconstitutional, Engels said.

That ruling was later overturned, but the state did not reinstate a new residency requirement, he said.

“Is it fair for someone to move to South Dakota from another state and file for divorce the same day?” he asked.

HB1157 should not be passed, said Caitlin Collier, lobbyist for the South Dakota Advocacy Network for Women. She said the proposed waiting period would endanger women who flee to South Dakota to escape abusive husbands.

“This would remove a potential haven for battered women,” Collier warned. “You are putting women at risk.”

Women should not have to hide for 90 days before they can start divorce proceedings, she said. Collier explained that an automatic restraining order kicks in when people file for divorce.

Engels said the legislation also would change state law so divorce cases that are filed in South Dakota can continue in South Dakota even if people who file the cases move to other states. When that happens, those people now must meet the minimum residency requirements in the new states before they can refile for divorce, he said.

Keeping jurisdiction for divorce cases in South Dakota would be especially helpful to those who live near the state’s borders and move just across the border to another state and to military personnel who may be transferred out of state, Engels said.

[Note: If you or someone you love is being abused, the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women provides crisis intervention and support services to victims of domestic violence and their families.] 

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  • Robert Stevens

    You are correct panic, the law can and is often abused by women. We need to go back to common law and make women be held to the same standard of behavior. Once we do that we will put a stop to alot of the ” screams of abuse and I am afraid, therefore I want to do away with a mans right to due process.
    I am a woman, I am selfish, socially legally and morally irresponsible and I want to continue to get away with it. Anytime someone want me to obey reasonable limits to respect and ensure the rights of others, I will throw a tantrum and not do it. I will scream and throw a hissy fit and some feminazi and some weak kneed politician will pass some phony and unconstitutional laws to suit me. I don’t care if I wreck society, or if I cause a million deaths, I won’t stop being selfish. And when the day comes I am made to behave myself and respect the rights of others, It won’t be pretty , because I am a bad loser.

  • panic

    There is a concept inherent in all legal process called “service, notice and jurisdiction”.
    Service requires the Plaintiff (the person seeking something from the Court, also known as the Petitioner or Complainant) to warn the Defendant (the other party, also known as the Respondent) in some formal manner determined by law that they must dispute the Plaintiff’s argument, or the request will be granted. No service? No case.
    Notice means that everything that the argument contains must be referenced in the papers served, including what will be granted, when and where the case will be heard, and how to object. No notice? Even if you win, you get nothing.
    Jurisdiction means that once served, the Defendant is subject to the Court’s power and authority and must obey the decision. Defendant was not served? Decision means nothing.

    Strangely, female (not male) attorneys seek a holy grail, where a woman who claims abuse need not notify the husband at all (“because we have an order of protection”, “she’s afraid”, etc.), and become quite irate when this failure interferes with their plan.

    Not hearsay, not rumor, not myth – personal experience from my long years in the Matrimonial Part of the Supreme Court of New York.

  • roger

    She said the proposed waiting period would endanger women who flee to South Dakota to escape abusive husbands.

    “This would remove a potential haven for battered women,” Collier warned. “You are putting women at risk.”

    I don’t see the big deal.
    The same could be said for removing “a potential haven for battered men”, and “putting men at risk”.

    If a man moves to south dakota and files for divorce on the same day. Good for him. If that is what needs to happen to resolve their disputes, then it should be allowed.







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