What many men have figured out is that the “dinner date” is the biggest sucker game in the country.

I’m no Tyrone Powers but I know men who are and they don’t have to buy dinners to have sex with women. They have women hit on them to go back to their place. It’s mostly older fogeys like us who still engage in chivalrous gestures like the dinner date. Most young guns have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude.

If a man feels so disadvantaged and needy that he _has_ to engage in a dinner date to impress women to sleep with him, he’s already got 2 and a 1/2 strikes against him. I’ve seen Lis Wiehl and she’s a bit plumpy looking. If she has the attitude that she’s the cats pajamas, then it’s only because of lower self-esteem men placating themselves to her. And at some level, she knows this and this is why such women are often vicious towards men and taking out their anger that they can’t land the alpha males.

Funny story: A co-worker who banged a girl he saw on his ski trips to a rural city and told her that it was a one night stand went back the next year with friends and saw: “FUD” buttons. He asked people what they were and they said: “It means “Fuck You Dave” Apparently, this jerk slept with her and used her.” He laughed and asked for one. He then saw her in the hallway and said “hello” and she turned around to face away from him.

http://www.ogpaper.com/news/news-01766.html

http://blog.washingtonpost.com/the-trail/2008/03/10/spitzer_apologizes_does_not_re.html

Otherwise, I wouldn’t blame club owners for asking clients to leave who seem to be trying to convince women to change careers while in the club. A lot of left wing journalists try to do that and then they write about how the club owners must be sex traffickers because the woman got nervous and the management asked him to leave.

I have had Christian friends who hired prostitutes for one hour so they can talk the woman out of her career. A taxi driver in Holland tried to pimp a 19 year old woman to me recently who had heroine circles around her eyes. I paid 100 Euros to be with her so I could get her alone and ask about the heroine and give her advice on starting a new life for herself. That was an expensive act of charity. I could not do that often.

Heroine and coke, by the way, are the main ways that lower-class prostitutes have been and always were enslaved by pimps. Pimps are often horrible people because it would be so easy for them to lose any given woman who might not want the middle-man anymore or who have found a better club or venue where the clients seem healthy and rich and they don’t have to give away so much of their money, so the loser pimps do everything they can to stop the woman from cutting them out.

Middle class and upper middle class women generally have no problem in cutting out the middle man. This is true for the vast majority of East European women in Turkey (Russian women are so well educated that they easily qualify as upper middle class in any discussion). Paradoxically, the feminist countries like the US, England and Australia have the biggest sex industries, where college students keep 100% of what they charge (in the US, strippers often decide which clients they like and then, after he visits a club a few times, they go with him elsewhere).

But this is far from being a “Liberal” business run by feminists. The feminists are at war with each other over this subject and the Democrats are at war with each other and the Republicans are at war with each other over this as well.

The best we can do is make sure that the US Constitution is upheld in making the sex industry NOT a federal issue.

We already know from US vs Morrison that the liberal Supreme Court justices think that women need special protection from the federal government while men can go blow bubbles.

No federal laws can be legally implemented to regulate any part of this, especially when it comes to the behavior of Americans overseas. But our Supreme Court thinks otherwise, with the liberal justices taking the anti-sex feminist point of view and the conservative justices possibly thinking that perverts must be persecuted to the ends of the Earth and the gates of hell (we do not yet know how the conservative justices will rule on VAWA and IMBRA).

In the USA we do not want the Republicans depicting the entire business as that of Liberals (where the customers are also considered to be Liberals)…because it allows the Republicans to then make the feminist connection of prostitution to international dating services (so-called marriage brokers) and then assume, incorrectly, that the men who date foreign women are all Liberals who can be crucified at will by Republican judges and politicians. The opposite is the case.

Let me have a go. I cornered the market in (what I called my..) Rude, Nasty Girls in Melbourne (Australia) a decade or so ago. For a few years I was the only private mental health professional working directly with a range of brothels.

There were 60,000 working girls of the usual age range in Melbourne, from an adult female population of one million. That’s 6%. They were mostly Australian girls and women, many at college, many ‘married’ or with partners, (some of which knew and some didn’t), many in good part-time jobs in addition. I met a Radio Program Producer one day doing her thrice weekly stint in a brothel.

The ‘Industry’ was run predominantly by women. One ‘Madam’ I knew well used to recruit directly from a specific High School and targeted year 10 girls (16 year olds). The men involved were of two sorts; wealthy crims who put up finance, and the usual ‘well built chaps with some guile’ who were ‘minders’. One such wealthy chap was a well known owner of a national bakery. But it was women who ruled the Industry.

Prostitution was ‘legalised’ in Victoria and the Prostitution Control Board was virtually taken over by ‘madams’ along with a a high profile feminist academic. Not all feminists object to prostitution. Millions of taxpayer dollars disappeared into dark holes, many of them warm and wet.

In the past few days there was a news item on our TVs about a ’sex-slave trafficking’ ring in Sydney. Thai women, four of five, had been brought into the country and ‘kept’ in a house, passports confiscated and in huge debt. Five people – the ‘ringleaders’ were arrested. The news items’ commentaries were full of references to thousands of women being ‘trafficked’, how it was a huge national problem. Only at the very end did reference get made to the ring leaders being three women and their two chaps with muscle and guile.

Five foreign women. 60,000 home-grown ones. Do the math.

I was on the edge of that industry for a few years until eventually a ‘contract’ was taken out on me – by a Madam. It took a lot of persuasion and a wealthy male crim who was happy to wave his own weaponry around to get her to call it off. Meanwhile I had got several hundred women into therapy and out of the business.

War is often called ‘politics by other means’. Prostitution is mainstream ‘women’s business’, the sex war by other means.

Their excuse for supporting the policy of keeping the Russian women from accepting business cards would be that the young women might actually contact the man and agree to meet him outside the strip joint…where the evil man would then rape her and kill her or worse: marry her and make her barefoot and pregnant doing the laundry.

Thus the very feminists who decry Sex Trafficking in Turkey are among the biggest enablers of real Sex Trafficking where it occurs most often: inside the USA itself.

They want the Russian students to go ahead and pay for their degrees by stripping in clubs in Myrtle Beach (lapdancing)…as long as no American male is actually allowed to become friends with them and, God forbid, marry them while they are sojourning in the US.

In New York City I once reported an old Russian woman to the FBI who wouldn’t let me speak with a younger Russian woman whom I knew she had convinced to be a prostitute. I considered the blockage of communication to be a form of sex trafficking.

In Myrtle Beach, South Carolina there is a strip joint called the Dollhouse where the mafia style managers have dozens of gorgeous Russian women who mysteriously got into the US on “Student Visas”. The Dollhouse policy is that these women are NOT allowed to exchange contact information with any men. It is strictly forbidden to accept a business card.

I consider this to be illegal sex trafficking and I would work with the feminists to close the Dollhouse down because of this policy.