Shock and Awe
Whether a man purchases sex on a date, in marriage, or through an escort service, the dispensing woman is a prostitute, a merchant. Ashley Youmans, aka Ashley Alexandra Dupré, aka Kristen — famous whore of Eliot Spitzer — earns between $3K to $5K per hour spreading her legs. Heather Mills McCartney, while married to Sir Paul, earned $33,562 per day spreading her legs. Had Heather collected the $250M divorce settlement she was seeking, instead of the $49M she got, her daily fee would have tallied $171K! Poor tramp will have to make do with the lower sum. So, if merchant Kristen can turn six tricks per day, at her highest fee, she can join merchant Heather’s league: The Merchant Maureens.
Is your woman a Merchant Maureen? If so, don’t forget one minor detail: you recruited her. Why? Because you don’t know how to sail your ship in her waters without paying a fee. You didn’t even know that it’s possible. You assume that bribing your way through her canal is the rule. She knows that about you and charges accordingly, based on the value of your cargo.
You cannot claim shock and awe at her mercenary behavior. She signaled it in your first conversation — right about the time you bragged about your luxury car (your cargo) and offered to buy her something or take her somewhere. Dummy. In tennis, the first time you display a weak backhand, your opponent begins hitting lots of shots to your backhand. Duh! Likewise, Merchant Maureens sense your manhood insecurity — money is your manhood — and sell sex to you, charging you for passage. And, once you acquiesce to this prostitution, you’re booked and hooked — forever.
Learned Behavior
Men learn this behavior in childhood. Every time a female teacher is caught having sex with a male student, most people think the boy is “lucky” to get laid. Yet, when a male teacher is in the same situation with a female student, she’s a victim (the favorite female word), and he’s a predator — a perverse double standard. What happens if the female teacher spreads an STD to the boy or gets pregnant? His life is ruined. But, nobody cares — he’s a male; he’s disposable.
Society has total disregard for the psychological pains of boys and doesn’t even think boys feel anything at all. Boys are children , not adults. Such an attitude is precisely why men behave as Eliot Spitzer did — with self-loathing and immaturity about women and sex. Boys who feel “lucky” to get laid grow up with low self-esteem and become men who feel “lucky” — and will pay any price — to get laid. That’s why men are attracted to Merchant Maureens, why Merchant Maureens exist.
The NoNonsense Bottom Line
I receive dozens of e-mails every day from men whose lives have been ruined by Merchant Maureens. These men all say the same thing: “Marc, if I had known about you 20 years ago, I wouldn’t be in this mess.” We all learn tough lessons. But, what amazes me is the number of men, in 2008, who will ignore the severe weather warnings of the high seas — will put their fortunes and careers on the line — to pursue the Heathers and Kristens of this world, to recruit Merchant Maureens.
If parents don’t start imbuing their sons with self-respect and educating them about women — instead of perpetuating the lie from their own lives about female sexuality — boys and men will know women only as whores and will continue buying drinks, dinners, jewelry, vacations, cars, and houses for sex that should be free. When men and women respect and like each other, sex is never about money.
They won’t admit it, but many parents are raising future Kristens and Heathers — Merchant Maureens — to scour the globe in search of self-loathing, insecure men who will finance their lifestyles. We all see this happening, even in the homes of our best friends. Merchant Maureens are everywhere, as present in escort services as they are during ladies’ night at your local pub. The question is, Will YOU be recruiting them?
About the Author
Marc H. Rudov is an internationally recognized radio/TV personality and author of 70+ articles and the books Under the Clitoral Hood: How to Crank Her Engine Without Cash, Booze, or Jumper Cables (ISBN 9780974501727), and The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth (ISBN 0974501719). Mr. Rudov is a regular guest on Fox News Channel’s Your World with Neil Cavuto and The O’Reilly Factor .
Rudov’s books, articles, blog, and podcasts are available at TheNoNonsenseMan.com .
Copyright © 2008 by Marc H. Rudov. All rights reserved.
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Carl51 said,
As usual you hit the nail right on the head. I listened to one of your Fox interviews a few months ago (1-2 women and one man, I believe) and you called women prostitutes. The women were very offended, although the man seemed neutral. I think the problem is that women have been conditioned for thousands of years to have men pay for them and it’s so ingrained in the fabric of our culture that I honestly don’t see this ever changing to any great extent. Maybe the women you meet like sex with you enough to not demand payment, but most guys have a choice between paying or doing without. I guess most guys think that you have one life on this earth, so it’s best to make it as pleasant as possible; and that includes sex with women. It’s a hell of a deal, but it’s the only deal we have.
Carl
March 18, 2008 at 4:57 pm
fourthwire said,
And the worst part of all, as seen from a man’s point of view…. is that through marriage and divorce, men have to CONTINUE to pay the prostitute long after she’s stopped providing sex.
Carl, you are completely wrong in your point about “most guys have a choice between paying or doing without.”
Clearly you need to start reading Marc’s books - paying women for sex is not only wasteful and stupid, it’s completely unnecessary. Women have their own sexual drives, and it’s not only possible, it’s EASY to engage most of them in sex once a guy stops being insecure enough to try to PAY, PAY, PAY………..
…….. and learns to turn women on, instead.
Forget your theory that “thousands of years of conditioning” has irrevocably ingrained mercenary behavior in women.
Men who don’t ENABLE that mercenary behavior for sex STILL HAVE SEX……….
…….. provided that they learn how to arouse women.
And money doesn’t sexually arouse women. Got it?
March 18, 2008 at 6:21 pm
Denis said,
Men NEVER have to grovel & denigrate themselves for women.
Let the women do that.
They are better at it anyways. At least the American ones. LOL!
March 18, 2008 at 7:29 pm
metalman said,
March 19, 2008 at 9:55 am
Jim Peterson said,
That is when I asked them about themselves. They switched from being forced polite with Mr. Braggart to being at ease with me. Women are far more relaxed or turned on when a man asks about how they are.
That being said, women who still live with their parents or who find their own accomodations crowded (roommate), do want to hear from a man what the venue would conceivably be if they were to spend time together and maybe have sex.
You are not going to be having sex unless the two of you manage to maneuver yourselves into having dinner or coffee at one of your abodes. So there is nothing wrong with putting the image of your abode in her mind so she can prepare herself to say that, yes, she wants to see it. You are putting the suggestion of being together in her mind, not buying her lodging.
For men who do not have fabulous homes or apartments, talking about the interesting hotels you stay at in certain destinations helps prepare the woman to imagine going with you.
You don’t have to offer to pay her plane fare for the latter…and it is not really buying someone if you imply at some point that she would not have to pay accommodation costs if she traveled with you (provided that the price of a room does not significantly jump with the extra person).
You are selling the idea of being together. Marc is correct if you ever sell the idea of being together as if you are buying her with a service she might have paid for herself if you were not a sucker.
The same is true of your job: Women want it to be interesting. Make them totally fascinated in what you are doing without mentioning how much money it brings in.
Some of you guys are good at writing. Consider putting together some timely articles and also look at other venues for publication.
The Daily News just had an article out today that says a lot more husbands see prostitutes than women can imagine. This shows that, although the MSM won’t touch anything with the word feminist in it, they love this kind of discussion otherwise.
March 19, 2008 at 10:28 am
emarel said,
When she was 20-something, 20-something and 30-something men orbited around her, but she was either too focused with her “career”, too picky, or too busy partyin’ and gettin’ her bang on. She got lots of attention just by showing up, and got away with her superior attitude towards men.
Now, at 30-something, the 30-something men are looking past her at the 20-something girls. This is the time when the balance of power changes to the older, smarter man. She finds that she’s now starting to get attention from the 40-something and even 50-something mostly divorced men. She isn’t looking their way though, because she hears her biological clock clanging and desperately wants kids, and correctly suspects that these 40-something men already mostly have kids and don’t want any more. Now she’s desperate, pissed off, and very dangerous, because she was taught to believe that a fabulous relationship with a great guy would just “be” there for her whenever the time came that she wanted it. But it ain’t happening the way its supposed to. Like, WTF! This is the point where they either get artificially inseminated, get knocked up by a throw-away boyfriend (who throws away his money for 18 years), or swallow hard and seek a Nice Guy (one of those types of men who were invisible when she was 20-something) to marry her.
Later, when she’s 40-something and either resigned to her fate or still thinking that she can get men to jump through her hoops, the 20-something and 30-something men will be a distant memory (unless they’re just bangin’ her), and it’ll be the 40-something to 60-something men who will be on her radar. These men are at the point that where they may still like the company of women, but will no longer put up with their shit and will walk.
March 19, 2008 at 3:57 pm
fourthwire said,
Between your books, your blogs, your appearances on Fox News and now your radio show, Men’s Rights are gaining visibility.
Expect the hell-hags to continue to hiss and spit venom at your words - that’s a pretty fair indication that your efforts are successful!
Keep up the good fight!
March 20, 2008 at 5:35 pm