I think advertisers the world over have done an excellent job of convincing women that they have to have shoes and boob jobs, they have also convinced men that they have to have sex with women who have boob jobs and use their image to sell us everything from beer (a genuine need) to cars, creating an entire vicious cycle of consumerist stupidity (that is nonetheless wonderful for the economy).

Sex is great, don’t get me wrong, but it is not a requirement. If the men described in this article realise they don’t need what the women is witholding, it removes her leverage, which means she won’t get her shoes and jewlerry and boob job, which may lead to her realising that she sdoesn’t need any of that crap any way.

I think it is helpful to acknowledge chivalry is a split second default impulse, which may persist, but which sentient beings can resist.

You have a gift for telling it like it is while not giving in to that age-old problem of liking hearing yourself and going over-the-top.

This is a great read. Keep writing and I’ll keep helping spread it.

P.S. There are no Mackenzies at my house. Nor will there be.

What we as men are living in today is a legacy of 40 years of damaged masculinity — starting in the 1960s. None of what we have today just came about recently.

One of the most poignant truths is this:

“When you make it clear, upfront, that you’ll accept only a real woman, that’s what you’ll attract.”

This is in fact a law. The Law of Attraction. It is real. And it affects your life every single day. It is something you control — whether you know it or not (many don’t).

But the truth is more general than simply about men relating to women.

If you live your life with fearless confidence and wisdom you will attract successful circumstances in your life — including the right people.

If you live your life as a victim — one without the power to set your own destiny — you will attract circumstances and people that will victimize you — thus confirming your own premise.

So change your life by changing your thinking.

But you have to change behavior as well.

You will have to be fearless and confident by behaving with fearless confidence. You will have to stand up for yourself — everyday, everywhere, and in every circumstance — new and old. You will have to step out. You will have to make mistakes. You will have to learn from your mistakes.

You will have to take back your freedom.

Believe me — chivalrists, manginas, and feminists, are all used to men caving in without much of a fight. They are not at all prepared for a man full of fight with staying power.

I know.

Ergo, to take away or deny the victim will be to take away or deny the man. A thing which will never ever be accepted here.

If you choose not to vote for a gynocrat, make sure you tell him why you are not voting for him.

But both parties are putting forward gynocrat candidates, so not voting for a gynocrat will often mean not voting at all, which ignores all other campaign issues of national and international importance. So that approach, in my view, is dubious.

I agree with your assertion that men are to blame, at least in part for the prevalence of misandristic policies. I think though that this is primarily caused by the lack of attention in the media and other gynocratic institutions regarding the obvious bias men face in just about every aspect of life. Most men are apathetic or ignorant to the disparities in the laws and policies affecting them until it hits close to home….such as losing his home, kids, assets,etc. Perhaps a false rape charge or a sexual harassment allegation at work followed by dismissal and a civil suit. Other than being bitten on the butt to get “in the know”, most men don’t have a clue.

We all know that men are batterers and women are always victims. That propaganda has been pounded into all of us from day one. We know all about the most minute details of some hollywood a-hole’s life, but we don’t know what is happening in real life. YOU get the word out, but you are outnumbered.

Don’t think I’m looking to give men including myself a pass for our ignorance. We must get the word out. You keep up your good work doing that and I’ll do my small part.

Great article….right on the money.

One of the best pieces I have ever read.

Harry

Most legislators, mayors, DAs, judges, governors, and presidents are men. Gynocrats like Joe Biden cannot hold elected office unless men vote for them. Guess what? Men will return Joe Biden to office. Why? Men don’t care about themselves.

Men like to blame women for being merchant maureens. But, who recruits and pays them? Men.

Men like to blame gynocrats for passing misandrist laws. Who campaigns for and puts them in office? Men. Who selects them as running-mates? Other gynocrats whom men elected.

If you want a real woman you must be a real man, one who doesn’t tolerate nonsense. When you make it clear, upfront, that you’ll accept only a real woman, that’s what you’ll attract.

Real man-loving women do exist, are extremely rare, and are a real pleasure to have. Life is much better with a real woman.

Unless men stop recruiting merchant maureens and stop electing gynocrats, the feminist agenda will rule — and men will continue to fear disappointing women. So sad.

Deluge your elected representatives with calls and e-mails to overturn VAWA. See what happens. They’ll thank you for supporting VAWA, via form-letters. Then, you must write back to hammer them more. Because they never hear complaints about VAWA, they assume all men love it.

Women know that men won’t complain, won’t protest, won’t fight, and won’t let them be disappointed. THAT is why women get what they want. Men want women to change their behavior; this is futile. Until MEN change THEIR behavior, this country will remain a gynocracy in which women aren’t allowed to be disappointed.

FathersHaveNaturalRights said, “The good answer…the only good answer…is to change things.”

Until the “way it works” is more equitable for men, our best recourse IMHO is to avoid marriage. Change will come but not until the young “crop” of males are educated, perhaps through folks like Marc Rudov and Glenn Saks.

Pre-marital contracts are the second most violated contracts…..only second to the marriage contract (just my opinion, please don’t ask for sources).