I’m sure you understand that this is a widespread problem involving millions of families from coast to coast.

No one will receive justice, (nor should they accept any compromise aimed at subduing resistance) until this criminal enterprise we call the Family Court is abolished. They have overstepped their authority to the point where abolition of the court is really the only appropriate response by the people.

As far as your son being a deadbeat parent, this is my perspective …

What exactly is a *deadbeat parent*?

Is a deadbeat parent someone who stops paying so-called child support because they cannot, in good conscience, continue to pay the unwarranted court imposed financial obligation?

Is it someone who refuses to pay because they are systematically denied equal custody of their children?

Is it someone who refuses to pay what amounts to extortion in order to *visit* their children twice a month … someone who has the self-respect to reject the role as *visitor* to their children?

Is it someone whose arrears skyrocket because the amount awarded is extortionate?

Is it someone who refuses to pay because *he* is denied the equal protection of our laws when it comes to decisions about parenting … someone who was ordered to pay as a result of a blood test, or DNA test, and was denied any other option?

Is it someone who refuses to pay the extortion because *he* is a victim of paternity fraud?

Of course not … we should all know better than that.

The *deadbeat* is the parent who pays the so-called child support … which enables the courts to continue kidnapping millions of children from one of their parents … in order to extort hundreds of billions from them and the duped taxpayer.

The *deadbeat* is the parent who pays the so-called child support … knowing that the courts are violating their inalienable, constitutionally protected rights … knowing that their thoughtless actions put all Americans at risk for loss of liberty.

The *deadbeat* is the parent who values their paycheck, and their driver’s license, more than their own children, and the future of our country.

The *deadbeat* is the parent who does not have the courage to *do the right thing* for fear of incarceration.

The *deadbeat* is the parent who would rather pay the extortion than accept an equal role in raising their children.

The *deadbeat* is the parent who by paying the so-called child support insures that their children will be the next victims of this injustice.

Certainly, any *reasonable person* would agree with these facts.

Abuse websites and information available on the internet ise directed at women. They provide a blue print for how to use the system and what to say in court for the enormouse number of women who abuse men (our sons).

In court, these women have all the right statements rehearsed off the the outline. There is the characteristics of the abused victim, different types of abuse, cycle of abuse, and then there is the blueprint for describing parental alienation. They have a script, a journal (to refresh their memory) and occassionally tears.

These women don’t care about the emotional impact on their children. They request supervised visitation to negotiate for minimum custody. Less custody insures more support and is used like blackmail.

Why doesn’t this crummy family law system stop the charade of justice. They might as well gather all these poor, financally and emotionally beaten-down fathers into the pits and force them to work day & night on oil, salt, or rock. Feed them bread & water or nothing till they drop and give split their wages between the black widows they married. When they drop put them in jail for lack of earnings. Sound like a familiar historical scene. No rights, no justice, and certainly no help.

These men are struggling to keep a small roof over their head, find work, spend time with their children that the court allows and pay the support. These women don’t miss a trip to the salon, drive new cars, take monthly trips leaving the kids with their mother and whining that the court didn’t give them enough.

How do we overcome the emotional drain and stop this from happening? In this day and age it is incredible that we allow these family courts to continue operating this way.

I am currently just so disgusted with the system that I am struggling to be positive and support my son thru his dealings with a blackwidow. I fear the result if he loses all hope of salvaging his life and relationships with his children. He is struggling to make support payments and keep a roof over his head in fear that they will reduce his visitation.

She destroyed his certificates and sold his tools. Her cousin swore under oath that he would employ him immediately even with an injured arm, but he turned him down. She’s filed contempt charges and the judge tells him he needs attorney. If he could pay an attorney he could pay the full support amount, the Moron. How stupid is this? Now her mother has put a slanderous “Dead Beat Dad” letter in their small community paper and signed her name. She doesn’t even live there. Freedom of speech isn’t prohibited.

Fathers4justice ask that we tell 2 people of the injustice in our failed family law courts. This may work eventually, if we survive the now.

It is devistating and depressing when you consider that the family lawyers are there only to line their pockets. They don’t care if you win or lose. They will get paid till they deplete your funds. Then your dropped. They are the bottom feeders of all attorneys. These lawyers become our judges and the judges become our politicians. This isn’t leaving me much hope right now and I feel helpless.

You see, she filed for divorce 1 month after his injury when the constant income ceased. He wasn’t served till 6 weeks later and her family has deep pockets when it comes to paying her attorneys.

Sorry, today was a doom and gloom day for me!

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That’s good advice.

In other words “buyers beware”.

Is that where we should leave it? Is that where we should leave it as a society when there’s a divorce and single-mother industry bilking the taxpayer out of trillions of dollars? Is that where we should leave it when millions of fathers and children are having their lives destroyed for profit?

How would you feel about entering a contract in “good faith” with a mortgage lender, which stipulated that as long as you kept up your end of the bargain, the contract was for “life”, and then have the lender back out of the deal for no “good reason” … then have the courts actively facilitate this lender in destroying your life by taking your children for ransom, putting you on the street, financially ruining the rest of your life, all in violation of virtually every article in the Bill of Rights, all through “no fault” of your own?

Would “buyers beware” do it for you?

Thanks for trying to understand the injustice, especially when that’s more than most will do, including our courts and government.

However, this is a national disaster unprecedented in American history, and the victims of this crisis need more than our comforting words.

Think about it.

They feel they are owed financial support for the rest of lives for allowing you the pleasure of their company. There is a name for this! It is sad but you wouldn’t marry someone you don’t initially trust. So, how do you protect yourself from becoming a victim? Pay attention to your finances, surroundings, your wive’s volunteer organizations, friends and her attitude. Be very aware of and recognize the signs. The loving, seductive woman you are sleeping with tonight may very well be the blackwidow you meet in court tomorrow. Don’t underestimate the amount of planning and deceit she did prior to filing those papers. You probably won’t recognize this woman.

These women are setting prideful women’s rights back 50 years and are an insult to women in general. Those that take responsibility for their share of the marital debt and support of themselves and the children. These women also know what a mop, broom, washing machine and dryer are used for. But you won’t hear of them on this site. They don’t need the FL system. Please don’t stay a victim and hold all women responsible for the sins of your greedy, miserable exwives. There are decent, self-supportive women out there. Choose carefully and be cautious!

this is really big business,
maybe the biggest business in the u.s.
can’t even name all the groups that profit from the c.s.
industry, from the obvious mom and lawyer/judges/court ee’s all
the way down the food chain to the sheriffs and jailers and prison const., maintenance, cooks, and so forth.

one thing that gets me is the ability for the states to charge whatever they want in interest and fees. a $1,000 debt for lack of work can mean (by design) the permanent end of a parents relationship w/ his children due to tens of thousands in “other” monies/fees/interest/whatever owed. finance companies/bank officials would be arrested if they tried to charge the interest and fees states do, to help the children. using trumped up figures to villify the dad and give cause to put him in debtor’s prison really helps the children.

my dad’s a felon, what does your dad do?

and let’s not get me started on the fed. matching $$$$.
no incentive to destroy traditional families there.

When America’s divorce rate is one of the highest in the world, the power of school and media must be powerful for a guy to want to get married in America.

What am I missing here?