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Requiem for Dr. Daniel Amneus

2008-11-22
By

by Robert Lindsay Cheney Jr.

January 8, 2004

(T)he honorable Dr. Daniel Amneus passed away … on December 18th, 2003. Like a somber mid-December storm, a great passing has occurred in this nation; quietly, and without fanfare. Like a dark rain, something important has passed us all, in profound silence. But that passing has meant something. I hope to put the words here to show who and what this man was, and what he had accomplished.

Most Father’s Rights advocates have no idea whom Dr. Amneus was. They have no idea of his foundational contributions to the movement. They have not read his most compelling works. Yet they must. The modern contemporary men’s movement and its achievements of the last decade, can be directly traced to him. He was not the first Father’s Rights advocate, but certainly he was the most concise and eloquent of our forefathers who wrote about father’s and family rights, (at a time when it was not only not recognized, but openly excoriated). Like Galileo, he saw an immutable truth, and wrote comprehensive text about it—which allowed our modern movement a solid socio-political treatise which indomitably changed the face of fatherhood, and made Father’s Rights marketable and more mainstream. He paid a price for that dedication and truth: his work was mostly ignored.

The man was a great intellect, coming clearly from a classical background and training. His mind was eminently empirical, and he countenanced no less excellence in either his work or his students work. You would have to know the man to understand the intellect. He was a quiet, reserved man, one who tread in a measured pace. He wanted to help others, so he took the tools of his trade — his mind, his teaching and his writing — and applied them to the current problem of modern Fatherhood. The Father’s Rights movement has no idea of the treasure it has lost. A great national treasure has passed from our midst, and there is nothing in recognition. Only silence. We should mark him better; and defend not only his name, but his work.

His first book on Father’s Rights was called “Back to Patriarchy,” printed by Arlington House Publishers in June of 1979.[1]

(A)lthough it was good, it had not truly established his voice. It was merely the first gauntlet thrown… His second work was “The Garbage Generation,” [published under his own label of Primrose Press, 1990], … which finally came into his own. This book … defined not only the standards of Fatherlessness, but established the watermark of the modern men’s movement. All Father Advocates owe their work to the Garbage Generation, yet; the future was to arrive in his next book.

Dr. Amneus next book: The Case for Father Custody [Primrose Press 2000] … was a body of work which is the watershed of our movement. Where contemporary men and author’s have written mere expose’s, such as Dr. Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power Penguin USA (2001); and Dr. Wade Horn’s The Fatherhood Initiative; Jeffery M. Leving’s Father’s Rights: Hard-Hitting & Fair Advice for Every Father Involved in a Custody Dispute [HarperCollins (April 1997)]; as well as Dr. Steven Baskerville’s work; David Blankenhorn’s Fatherless America, etc., it was Amneus who wrote to the breadth of humanity. Where modern writers speak to the illness, Amneus addressed and uncovered the genetic code and model. He gave us the answers, deep within his intrinsic thoughts, his profound insight and empirical and definitive proofs. He gave us the Fatherhood genome and revealed every code throughout its DNA. Our movement quietly stands on Amneus; most people have no idea of (this). It is not only the men’s movement who (must) appreciate his work, but rather, it is humankind who will (benefit). Like the great classics of our time, The Case for Father Custody, will be a definitive work about Father’s Rights which will stand separate from all others’ lesser works. It is the classic of our time, and we must respect that and pay homage.

Most people (have) not read Amneus. They do not know he even exist(ed). However, when they are introduced to his work, the reaction is profound. His work is irrefutable, un-rebuttable. It is the duty of any true Father’s Rights advocate to read Dr. Amneus The Case for Father Custody. We must make new effort to adopt Amneus work into the Lexicon of the modern Father’s Rights movement…

The Father’s Rights movement has lost a great man. We have lost others before him, and continue to lose those who have given so much to our cause. We must recognize these great men, and … more importantly—not forget their words and their work…

Then, we must teach them. It is time to venerate those who came before us, and gave us so much, and left us with the treasure it is up to us to carry forwards.

…It is time we acknowledge those like Dr. Daniel Amneus—and make them monuments to be remembered and admired. For they have set our compass and our future.



[1]

Amneus other works were: The Mystery of MacBeth, Primrose Press; (May 1983)

The Three Orthello’s Primrose Pr; (March 1986) He was a University English professor, and he was an expert on Shakespeare and his works.

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  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    I think I was wrong to brush off David Usher’s idea of a marriage movement so quickly.

    I think I was wrong to not listen more.

    And I think this picture is becoming very clear.

  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    I have to make a PUBLIC APOLOGY to all those who may have read my words and taken what I said as the truth.

    I am referring to comment no: 62.

    Have you ever read something quickly and made a mental note only to find that what you thought was said was not what you took as truth?

    This is a big lesson for my credibility when I become a writer myself.

    The question asked in high school are:

    -What do you think caused your heterosexuality?

    -When and how did you decide you were a heterosexual?

    -Is it possible that your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of?

    -Is it possible that your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?

    -Do your parents know that you are straight? Do your friends and/or roommate(s)know? How did they react?

    -Why do you insist on flaunting your heterosexuality? Can’t you just be who you are and keep it quiet?

    -Why do heterosexuals feel compelled to seduce others into their lifestyles?

    -A disproportionate majority of child molesters are heterosexual. So you consider it safe to expose children to heterosexual teachers?

    -With all the societal support marriage receives, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?

    -Statistics show that lesbians have the lowest incidence of sexually transmitted diseases. Is it really safe for a woman to maintain a heterosexual lifestyle and run the risk of disease and pregnancy?

    -Considering the menace of overpopulation, how could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual?

    -Would you want your child to be heterosexual, knowing the problems that s/he would face?

  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    Hi, Denis. Thank-you for your effort in this thread. Soooo, you figured this out in 2005. I had just discovered the Internet in 2005.

    I really like this site. Everyone seems OK to discuss things that men knew 40 years ago for those of us that have been in the shadows.

    MMX, thanx so much for your e-mail. I do try and read what is available online. I even try to lease the books at the library but we don’t have many of them. So, I can only learn most from what others discuss.

    You guys are awesome.

    20 years ago NZ was 20 years behind Australia. And Australia was behind the UK and America.

    Now because of computers and the Internet and global business, NZ is on par with the rest or the world. Having a global movement well organised of feminism also means we are socially up to date.

    But still. It takes effort to catch up. I learnt how to use the computer through study but I had no idea that there were sites like this where people discuss things and pass on information.

    This is just wonderful. And even the people who are in the shadows and yet to learn are going to appreciate the effort all of you put into this.

    Sometimes, I think I am speaking up publicly just to re affirm people’s ideals and learning. NZ is so much smaller than America.

  • Denis

    The idea originated here in 2005:

    http://mensnewsdaily.com/2005/06/23/redoing-nature/

    by
    Denis

    From Redoing Nature, 2005/06/23 at 9:36 AM

    “She stated the issue succinctly when she said ‘Marriage is targeted for deconstruction’. It is. Same sex marriage is all about that AND much more. Gay marriage will not just be a fatal blow to marriage as it has been for 2000+ years. That is only ONE goal. The SECOND goal, after homosexuality is legally legitimized by same-sex marriage, is to further enshrine in law another protected ‘minority’ with extra protections, powers, and privileges. These will show up after same-sex marriage is adopted. I’m talking about the promotion of the gay agenda in schools (already being done in some states but without the legal backing same-sex marriage will provide), enforced affirmative action in corporations, government, and lawsuits against churches, to name only a few. The creation of a very powerful small group that the vast majority are hostage to. This is most ‘un-libertarian’. It can also be looked upon as the next phase of radical feminism and the general war on men. Most people have not linked the gay agenda to the Radfems so much of the anti-male efforts will be more stealth-like and therefore very dangerous to men. How many men today are versed in Family Law and thus have any idea whatsoever about how their rights and status as husbands and fathers has been virtually decimated? The Gay Agenda-Radfem political operatives have many many other things in store for hetero men. And you men won’t realize what has hit you until it is too late.”

    “The goals of the same-sex advocates are much wider than most people realize.”

    And also here in 2005:

    http://mensnewsdaily.com/2005/10/10/gay-marriage-the-new-willy-horton/

    by
    Denis

    From Gay Marriage – The New Willy Horton, 2005/10/11 at 7:37 PM

    “I realize that the high failure rate of marriages in America would imply that heterosexuals do not provide a good example for the institution. Destroying marriage and the family has been the goal of feminists for 40+years. It was done by taking legal rights away from one partner (the man/father)and giving more and more to the other partner (wife/mother). Incentives are provided to encourage divorce. Hostility between men and women is constantly being created via the media, the legal system, the government. As the center of gravity has shifted in marrigae(as a result of this radfem onslaught)from one man & one women to the government and the woman, the men, and there rights have been pushed aside and pushed back-way back. Gay marriage will put a nail in the coffin for any hope that heterosexual men can have equal standing in a marriage as a husband and father. This IS part of the radfem and gay agenda. I am willing to bet money that far more lesbians are pushing for same-sex marriage than the gay men.”

    Has David moved the ball forward on this thinking?

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/mike-lasalle Mike LaSalle

    Re: My commment #57 above, to whit:

    Same sex marriage is unconstitutional because it would create three inherently unequal classes of marriage. Feminism’s core demand — that men must give up power to women in matters of reproduction — is the very element (codified in the form of Roe v. Wade) that skews any presumption that each of these three classes of married people would have equal access to justice.

    I would like to hear from David Usher on this. David, have I got this right in terms of your Amicus Brief?

  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    Hey guys, if you want for me to post the curriculum for real … I can get it. I know which organisation sent it to me. But then maybe you already know.

    Anyhow if it helps … just say you want it.

  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    I read David Ushers article on same sex marriage. Yet what Mike LaSalle has written after has eluded me.

    *********
    Same sex marriage is unconstitutional because it would create three inherently unequal classes of marriage. Feminism’s core demand — that men must give up power to women in matters of reproduction — is the very element (codified in the form of Roe v. Wade) that skews any presumption that each of these three classes of married people would have equal access to justice.
    ********

    I don’t understand what this means?

    NZ has marriage for gays/lesbians. There next thing is for gays to adopt children and foster children as care givers.

    I want to share this article with you.

    Damn, I deleted it from my e-mail. It was the curriculum for high school children in America.

    It is pre study for debate at school. Questions are asked like:

    So when did you realise you were heterosexual? Who taught you this? Was it you parents or your environment?

    Are you aware that hetro sexual men are the most rapists and that gay men are much safer to be around?

    *** the questions go on and on like this. One mother complained and the English teacher who has to teach these youth said that they are intended to get students ready for University and to be thinking critically.

    Personally, I kinda think that was the AIM behind feminist studies. The women were the glue to the family and they had to take the women away from their position to destroy the family.

    They would not have conquered any other way. Men would not have forfeited their wives and children. They were too drawn to it. They were bred for it just as women were bred for child rearing. Just my opinion BTW.

    It is all about divide and conquer. And to be honest if no-one made a fuss over homosexuality we would not have another gender war. We would not be so separate and hateful. Did you know the UN recognises 11 genders?

    How on earth do you bring 11 different genders together for one true agenda?

    We were not prepared for what really is going on. We are still not prepared.

  • anti armchair generals

    Mike LaSalle,
    I appreciate your authorative analysis of various men/fathers rights activists and MRA and pseudo- MRA groups.
    What is your opinion of this article “Feminist in chief”?
    Nothing seems ever enough for feminist. It remainds of the old adage “If you give devil one finger he wants the whole hand” Link to the article.
    http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/nationworld/chi-oped1208pollittdec08,0,4881068.story
    Somehow the feminist positions Obama has taken—on reproductive rights, pay equity, domestic violence, Title IX—don’t seal the deal.

  • Denis

    With apologies for steering off subject, I thought the following link may be of interest.

    Perhaps our messages ARE slowing getting out.

    http://www.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines/

    “The Men’s Experiences with Partner Aggression Project is a research study at Clark University and is funded by the National Institute of Mental Health.”

    “Denise A. Hines, Ph.D., Clark University Department of Psychology, is the lead researcher on this project. She is conducting this project in conjunction with Emily M. Douglas, Ph.D., Bridgewater State College Department of Social Work, and the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women.”

    “Our goal is to better understand the experiences of men who are in relationships with women who use violence. Extensive research has shown that men are at risk for sustaining partner violence in their relationships, yet few studies have investigated their experiences, and there are few resources available to such men. This is an under-recognized problem in the United States, and by conducting this research project, we hope to provide much needed information on these men, their relationships, and their needs.”

    “We are seeking men between the ages of 18 and 59 who have been involved in a heterosexual romantic relationship in which their female partners have used physical aggression against them (e.g., slapping, hitting, grabbing, pushing, punching, beating up, using a knife or gun, etc.) within the previous year. If this describes you and you are interested in participating, please click on the Click Here to Participate link in the left-hand column to access the online survey.”

    Hopefully this will be “legitimate” research.

  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    Just keep it coming. This is great information. Everything makes sense.

    I heard something last night that was interesting.

    “The men and women are different today than the 70′s and 80′s. But it is the 70′s and 80′s people in a bubble making the decisions. They have been on a 30 year plan that is coming to fruition. But truth is … they are not really in touch with the people living in today’s environment”.

    ……..

    BTW, I saw a movie/documentary type film on the Vietnam war. It was terrible what happened to the American soldiers and their allies. Some were even left behind without a care. And they were tortured and died terrible deaths. I can understand it being a major time for men to question things.

    Oh, also … I think men have in the passed given up for women. I don’t think the giving up applies any more to the majority. The social environment has changed particularly in the last decade. …. Oh, that’s funny. It re minds me of people who don’t keep up to date with progress in their careers.

    Maybe it IS time for a revolution.

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/mike-lasalle Mike LaSalle

    MMX said,

    Does this imply that as long as Johnny, Phil, Tommy, Mark, Luke, Tyrone, Terrell, and Xavier all TRIED to hit the same target, then we ought to give them all the same amount of credit?

    Credit for what? For being there?

    Sure, I’m happy to give Warren Farrell credit for being there, as does Dr. Gambill.

    I don’t have to agree with Dr. Gambill’s conclusions or personal biases. But so far as I read it, his historiography is thoroughly researched and the monograph itself is of a high standard — as to be expected from a professional Historian.

    Or does this imply that we ought to evaluate each man’s attempt to see which (if any) are viable, and which (if any) are better-than-viable?

    I’m in agreement with you there. The old “encounter group” presentations employed by Warren Farrell was a 70s fad that has little relevance to me as I ponder these issues in 2008.

    The history of the Men’s Movement is interesting to me objectively, but this “Movement” has no practical connection to me in day-to-day reality –except that it is a world-view that helps me interpret the environment I encounter from breakfast till night.

    But any self-appointed and self-aggrandizing MRA “leader” is more than likely to celebrate himself as the masses of men he supposedly represented.

    So say I.

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/mike-lasalle Mike LaSalle

    The feminist archetype also requires men give up power in respect to reproductive rights.

    Hummm.

    David Usher makes an excellent point in his article, From California, With H8, published on MND 2008-11-14, to whit:

    Same sex marriages are therefore not equivalent or similarly situated for the purpose of asserting an equal rights claim of action on which high courts could justify issuance of broad orders forcing states to perform or recognize “same sex marriage”. Rather, the above analysis suggests that courts must ban same sex marriage, on its face, to protect fundamental constitutional equal rights of men and women.

    Same sex marriage is unconstitutional because it would create three inherently unequal classes of marriage. Feminism’s core demand — that men must give up power to women in matters of reproduction — is the very element (codified in the form of Roe v. Wade) that skews any presumption that each of these three classes of married people would have equal access to justice.

    Just boggling.

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/mike-lasalle Mike LaSalle

    More fascinating history from Gambill (p.21):

    Entertainment celebrities lent further credibility to the concept of gender transformation. Foremost among the Hollywood male proponents of a feminist revolution was Alan Alda, whose roles in television and the movies had already made him a household name. By the mid-seventies Alda had joined the National Commission on the Observance of the International Women’s Year, become a prominent spokesman for the ratification of the Equal Rights Amendment, and was one of a small group of male contributors to Ms. magazine.6 Also occupying a prominent place in the feminist pantheon was television talk-show host Phil Donahue, who underwent a critical evaluation of his assumptions about gender roles after a divorce in which he received custody of his four sons. The process disengaged him from his staunch Irish Catholic upbringing and converted him into a strong supporter of feminism, a stance reflected in his daytime show and increased popularity among a largely female audience.7 Meanwhile, other celebrities were pushing the concept of gender role changes beyond the issue of equal rights; in performers such as Boy George and Michael Jackson some theorists saw a melding of the sexes and emergence of an androgynous society.

    I remember all of this growing up in the 70s and 80s. I remember the Phil Donohue show in which he invited hetrosexual men wearing kilts to discuss their habits. He wore one himself, as I recall.

    (Coincidentally, Boy George — now 46 — was just found guilty yesterday of “handcuffing a male escort to his bed and beating him with a metal chain as he tried to flee after a naked photo shoot.” Riiiight.)

    Earlier, Gambill makes two critical observations regarding the history of the men’s movement:

    If the dividing line between the factions [of the men's movement] was sometimes initially vague, the consequences were significant. One fork in the road led to unlimited support for women’s liberation; the other veered in the direction of men’s rights. (p.13)

    As seen from the feminist (or pro-feminist) fork,

    Since women were the primary victims of sexual oppression… they should be the focus of liberation. Men’s deprivations paled in comparison, and thus men “must give up more privileges first” before addressing such concerns. (p.20)

    Thus it appears to me that the primary requirement of feminism is that “men must give up” power to women (and like it, buster).

    (BTW – the modern version of the feminist archetype can be seen in Bernard Chapin’s post here, wherein woman are encouraged to use sex as a political spoil for pro-feminist Democrats.)

    As it is, how can the true “Men’s Movement” support a social system that requires men to “give up” power to women? This just doesn’t make sense, and it reminds me distinctly of Kurt Vonnegut’s Harrison Bergeron, where anyone who is perceived to have advantage over anyone else must wear weights around their necks and glasses purposely designed to cause headaches!

  • MMX

    “But that they pursued different paths in their quest and arrived at different solutions should not detract from the fact they were engaged in a common enterprise.”

    Does this imply that as long as Johnny, Phil, Tommy, Mark, Luke, Tyrone, Terrell, and Xavier all TRIED to hit the same target, then we ought to give them all the same amount of credit?

    Or does this imply that we ought to evaluate each man’s attempt to see which (if any) are viable, and which (if any) are better-than-viable?

  • http://mensnewsdaily.com/author/mike-lasalle Mike LaSalle

    Who said this?

    Whether liberal or conservative, pro-feminist or antifeminist, black or white, religious or secular, American males in the late twentieth century were challenged by a world in which traditional gender roles had been thrown into flux. The causes were manifold: the Vietnam war raised doubts about the merits of men identifying themselves as protectors or warriors; a burgeoning feminist movement and changing structure of the business world challenged males’ perceptions of themselves as self-reliant individualists and providers; and the growing chasm between home and work and lessening of fathers’ contacts with their children as a result of divorce seriously impaired their roles as mentors and disciplinarians. Given such social solvents, many American males often appeared as missiles in search of a mission. But that they pursued different paths in their quest and arrived at different solutions should not detract from the fact they were engaged in a common enterprise.

    Referencing my post #14 above, it has come to my attention that Hugo Schwyzer may have been influenced by a retired professor of History, one Edward L. Gambill.

    Or it may be the other way around, as Professor Gambill’s book, The Uneasy Male: The American Men’s Movement, 1970-2000 was published in 2005 through iUniverse, and Hugo’s web post was published in June 2004.

    Here’s a quote from the preface of Gambill’s book:

    During the nineteen-seventies and eighties, the mass media perceived the men’s movement as primarily consisting of pro-feminist, men’s rights, or fathers’ rights groups. Sometimes touted as vanguards of a massive upheaval, such groups actually attracted only a small fraction of the membership found in feminist associations, had far less political influence, and constituted only a dim counterpart of the women’s movement in public consciousness. Other male ventures in the nineties
    that were spiritual or religious endeavors had more participants, if sometimes only at the intellectual level, spawned more extensive media coverage, and left a more indelible public impression. However, the mythopoetic phenomenon epitomized by Robert Bly and Promise Keepers’ rallies launched by Bill McCartney waned almost as quickly as they arose.

    Whatever the origin of the central idea, much of what Hugo posted about the historical roots of the “Men’s Movement” can be found in his book. You may glean this even from the chapter titles:

    Chapter 1 Groundswell
    Chapter 2 Nocm/Nomas
    Chapter 3 Divorce Reform/Fathers’ Rights
    Chapter 4 Men’s Rights/Unification
    Chapter 5 Custody
    Chapter 6 Support/Visitation
    Chapter 7 Mythopoetic
    Chapter 8 Promises
    Chapter 9 Black
    Chapter 10 In A Woman’s World
    Chapter 11 Political Postscript

    From what I have read so far, Dr. Gambill’s book is a very well constructed academic assertion. The monograph deserves significant deconstruction. Readers may expect a vigorous discussion next week.

    Readers should also read Richard Doyle’s Save the Males for its profound insights and contrasts.

    Amazon links available below:

    The Uneasy Male: The American Men’s Movement, 1970-2000

    Save the Males.

  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    Oh but for all., I must speak up for single mothers also. I cannot just say women in general calculate.

    Many single mothers are sucked into fear through women’s counselling. They are told to take the parenting issues to court because fathers have the RIGHT to pick their children up from school. It is that bad. Most have no idea how bad things are. Everything men speak up for,. women’s groups counter.

    Lawyers tell women to say things against men just to make sure they are not left high and dry. I get complaints from women who don’t want to say the man abused them. The women feel coerced into saying things they don’t want to say. OK, this is rare but it exists.

    Women are also complaining about women’s refuges hotline saying, “They told me they will send the police around to take my children off me if I don’t follow through”.

    And if they even dare to contact the husband or father they DO lose their children as the women’s refuge directors are also the directors of Children’s services.

    They go hand in hand.

  • http://www.singleparents.org.nz julie

    Me too, Denis.

    I don’t know any men except the few online who want to treat women badly.

    Most of the men I hear from and who have had enough strength to speak up in public are damn good men and fathers. They are soooooo awesome.

    They don’t even mind learning about anger management. Truth is; I don’t mind learning about it either and I don’t know any women who thinks it is a bad idea for them to control their anger also.

    The one thing I find is that men can be and are many, many times dragged into the FC after years of things working out well. I think it is about money most of the time.

    It is as if the mother wants the father to sign an agreement to say she can collect taxes or a benefit for the children but the man is more than giving in that he continues to let the children decide any day, any time where they want to say.

    Shared parenting is the new way and women are carefully calculating how best they can win instead of caring for the children.

    You have no idea how many women I receive phone calls from that are just purely calculating a way to live off men.

    And I have to say this. Feminists are furious now that men are speaking up. They are not furious at the men but at the women.

  • Denis

    In my entire life I have not once seen a man resent or diminish what a woman has honestly achieved and earned. I have never seen a man afraid of a woman’s success that has been honestly achieved and earned.

    I’ve known throughout my life a huge number of men who resent the multitude of unfair advantages and unfair “achievments” of women.







Right.

Man up.

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