Jabberwocky Justice

2009-01-20
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“It is a far, far better thing to have a firm anchor in nonsense than to put on the troubled seas of thought.”
–John Kenneth Galbraith

It seems almost impossible to make up a story like this one. An AP story in the Chicago Tribune claims that the state of Michigan is giving a father “a choice.” Pay the medical cost of his daughter’s birth or marry the girl’s mother. Ahhh, fathers rights.

Gary Johnson, – the father – not Rebecca Witt, – the mother – is being billed by the state of Michigan for $3,800.00 for the birth of their daughter. The Michigan Legislature passed a law five years ago that would wave the hospital costs for fathers who are willing to marry the child’s mother. Johnson appears willing.

However, it appears that no one in the Michigan Legislature understands or appreciates the concept of equal rights. A man and a woman have a child and only the father is expected to pay? Does that somehow seem like equal rights to the Michigan legislators? Have Michigan legislators somehow missed the equal rights battles – pun intended – of the 20th and 21st centuries?

In 1971 Representative Martha W. Griffiths of Michigan – also a lawyer and a judge – presented to the U.S. House of Representatives House Joint Resolution No. 208. That boys and girls, is the equal rights amendment. When the ERA was presented to the voters of the great state of Michigan it was overwhelmingly supported by both men and women.

This is one of those stories that just continues to defies logic. Jack Battles, – see above pun – apparently has no sense of equal rights, history or irony. It is Battles office that enforces paternity rulings, child support and other aspects of family law claims, “It’s totally up to them.” Battles says, “Until Johnson can produce a marriage license, “they have to pay.” Just where does Battles get the them or they from? Unless the AP has the story wrong, it is Johnson – the father – not Witt – the mother – that is expected to pay. Johnson is a him not a them.

Johnson and Witt claim that they do want to get married, however, Witt – the mother – wants the marriage to be her choice and not the choice of the state of Michigan. “I don’t think anybody should tell me when to get married,” said Witt. As for Johnson, he says that he respects Witt’s decision. “It’s a woman’s dream to have the best wedding she can have,” Johnson said.

Perhaps there is someone in Michigan, other than Battles, who actually believes this is somehow, as this story is titled, “a fathers choice.” Johnson is willing to marry Witt, however, Witt refuses. The irony here gets even better.

It is generally agreed that Michigan Representative Griffiths is the person most responsible for including the prohibition of sex discrimination under Title VII in the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Is it just me or is it obvious that the concepts of equal rights and sex discrimination mean little to nothing to Battles or the Michigan legislators?

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  • Kevin Merck

    “Is it just me or is it obvious that the concepts of equal rights and sex discrimination mean little to nothing to Battles or the Michigan legislator?”
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    No, it’s not just you, and unfortunately it’s not just Michigan either. The discrimination men and fathers are going through now is far worse than any discrimination (real or imagined) that women ever went through.

    Women have never had their children taken from them on a national scale. They’ve never been forced to pay extortion under the threat of incarceration. They’ve never had anyone make them sign-up for selective service, or be drafted into military service, under threat of public humiliation, and incarceration. I could go on but I think you see my point.

    The answer is simple.

    Treat men and women equally regardless of the way they’ve been treated in the past. It really is that simple. DNA needs to be used to establish paternity so that the *right man* is making an *informed decision* as to whether he would like to raise his biological child (as in 50/50 custody) or give it up for adoption. Every child has a right to know who its real father is, and every father has a right to know if it’s his biological child.

    The days of forcing paternity on men, and allowing women several options to avoid responsibility are coming to an end.

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/amfortas amfortas

    Coming to an end, Kevin? Been on the sauce again? Who is going to bring it to an end? I hope you aren't expecting Pres. B.O. to have this 'Equality' thingo high on his to-do list. He can't help blacks and he can't help men without accusations of 'taking care of his own, even though he is only half of either. Only women left ! Joe Biden, perhaps? Rearrange the following to make a well known phrase – " think don't so I". How about Hilary the jabberwocky's jabberwocky ? A titter ran around the Red Queen's court. Will the last Dad please empower Alice to turn the lights off.

  • Squiggy

    Yes. The days of forcing paternity on men, and allowing women several options to avoid responsibility are coming to an end. With a liberal leftist neocomm in the White House, the trampling of men's rights (aka "human rights") will be just a faded memory.

    And right after that, we all get a free pony.

  • Kevin Merck

    You may want to comment on the article rather than attack and harass the commentators.

    Squiggy is a coward and a bully who hides under the pointed-hood of anonymity and got his feelings hurt by someone who’s not going to take his snide remarks lying down, and you’re not doing him any favors by enabling the behavior.

    I don’t expect you to understand that amfortas, because I’ve a hunch you two share the same lineage, if not the same mother. I guess that’s just what happens when people are stranded on the same Island engaging in centuries of inbreeding.

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/amfortas amfortas

    No-one 'attacked' you Kevin. Just pulled your leg a little. Perhaps you need to get back on the sauce.

  • Kevin Merck

    No-one ‘attacked’ you Kevin. Just pulled your leg a little. Perhaps you need to get back on the sauce.
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    I’m not surprised by that response. It’s the same one your mentor “Squiggy” used when he was offended because I didn’t find his “joke” funny.

    No one should be afraid to stand up to a couple of cowards hiding behind fictitious names making petty, verbal ejaculations, to get their jollies.

    If you don’t have anything serious to bring to the conversation, you may want to just keep your mouth shut, or at least keep your childish remarks directed at the article in question, and stop harassing people who are merely trying to participate.

  • Squiggy

    Kevin, if you can't tell the difference between our teasing, and the full-on attacks you do, you need some help (or at least to grow out of your teens). We never said we would bust your teeth out (for example – you did).

    We never called you a name (like a coward, or a bully – you did). Nor did we say anything about your mother (like calling mine a "bestial abomination" – you did), or about her sexual proclivities (you've done both, in a nasty, childish way).

    You might want to actually read that Bible, not just copy and paste a few convenient verses.

    P.S. My "hiding under the pointed-hood of anonymity" is because there's these trolls on the internet who come to websites to harass and intimidate people. And they can track you and steal personal info and even find where you live (which is a bad thing, even if I didn't have children). As for my choice of a name, that's nunya, see? I thought of using "Samuel Clemens", but I don't have that much hubris.

  • http://www.intensedebate.com/people/scottdavene scottdavene

    Thank you for featuring this article. Fathers’ right to be a meaningful part of their children’s lives, have been eroded to the point of non-existence. My research suggests that this is a phenomenon consistent throughout the industrialized nations. Children who are alienated from their fathers are more likely later in life to have emotional/behavioral problems, suffer from depression, drop out of school, fail in their jobs, and suffer from other social problems. Please visit my site devoted to raising awareness on this growing problem: http://fathersprivilege.blogspot.com/






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