The Gender Silent Majority


On February 1, 2010, President Barack Obama released his proposed budget for the coming year. Most commentaries focus on debt, deficits, taxes, and unemployment. With the trillions of problems in Obama’s multi-trillion dollar budget, however, it is easy to overlook his gendered social engineering approach to the budget process and its impact on boys and men.

The tip off comes from the work of an investigative reporter for the McClatchy newspaper group, James Rosen, who published “Obama budget aims at solidifying women’s support.” His article was based on a budget document entitled “Opportunity and Progress for Women and Girls” which included the following quote: “We’re looking at a lot of significant funding increases for women’s programs in a year when the president has ordered a three-year, non-security, discretionary spending freeze,” Kate Bedingfield, a White House spokesman, said.

To fully understand the impact of Obama’s budget proposal on all members of society, it is instructive to review five points in President Obama’s track record on gender. As will be seen, hope and change in the Obama administration have bypassed boys and men.

The first bill signed by the President (Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act) was part of the larger radical feminist campaign to eliminate the purported gender pay gap. However, Obama’s own Department of Labor, after an extensive review of the literature, found that there was no gender pay gap (download PDF here).

Second, President Obama established the first cabinet level White House Council on Women and Girls. However, all sound social and economic science data argues for the need for a White House Council on Boys and Men. Specifically, boys and men are falling behind at all levels of education from elementary to graduate and professional schools. Not surprisingly, this has led to the recent media attention devoted to a Pew report showing that younger women are more highly educated and better paid than the men they seek to date and perhaps marry.

Third, to sell last year’s Stimulus Bill, President Obama promised “shovel ready” (read “male”) jobs to rebuild America’s infrastructure. However, in response to radical feminist protests and even in the face of the reality that 82% of the jobs lost in the current recession were lost by men, President Obama gave 40% of the Stimulus money to female dominated occupations.

Fourth, had ObamaCare passed, and it yet may still pass, the nation would have been blessed with ten major Offices of Women’s Health and zero Offices of Men’s Health. Critically, however, epidemiological health data shows that boys and men are far more in need of an Office of Men’s Health than are girls and women in need of yet more Offices of Women’s Health. Specifically, Offices of Men’s Health are needed to focus on male problems such as higher suicide rates, higher death rates on about nine out of the ten leading causes of death, and not surprisingly, lower longevity. Not to be forgotten, too, is prostate cancer.

Finally, President Obama’s budget proposes a 22% increase in funding for female victims of domestic violence on top of the billions already being spent on these ideologically based programs. However, decades of sound social science research overwhelmingly has demonstrated that men and women initiate domestic violence at approximately equal rates with the more recent data showing a striking increase in violence by women. Further, men represent at least 40% of the physically harmed victims and the federal government declines to fund equal protection and support for battered husbands and battered men (see mediaradar.org and dailyfinance.com).

In this contest of ideology v. science, ideology clearly is winning. But why should it? In my view, it is long past time for The Gender Silent Majority to stand up and face down what basically is fraudulent ideology. The Gender Silent Majority obviously consists of boys and men and perhaps less obviously it also consists of girls and women who want boys and men in their lives. The latter group includes mothers who love their sons, daughters who love their fathers, sisters who love their brothers, and women who love their husbands along with a host of other male relatives and friends. All together, the Gender Silent Majority easily comprises well over 50% of the population.

So, how does The Gender Silent Majority convince the nation of their views, hold out hope for boys and men, and implement change? Since the Democratic Party, unfortunately, is so locked into such a stridently unyielding and fraudulent gender ideology, the Gender Silent Majority come November has but one choice — to vote ABD — Anybody But Democrat.

Gordon E. Finley, Ph.D. is Professor of Psychology at Florida International University in Miami.

  • Oz Cynic

    OK, let’s just assume (for the sake of this article) that there IS a pay-gap twixt men and women, and that women are paid less (there is a pay gap, all right and it’s heavily against men, but we won;t go there, just bear with me). Let’s assume the Radical Feminists have it correct and that the Radical Feminist Ledbetter Fair Pay Act is deemed to be needed (it isn’t, but let’s just let that one go)

    If I were an employer, and there was a large pay difference twixt men and women, with men out-earning women, I’d fire every single last male I legally could and employ only females.

    Why?

    To save MONEY on wages / salaries (whatever they are called this week).

    Yet, we see that employers stubbornly insist on employing males as well as females.

    Why? Because with all of the “ancillaries” (ie: Radical Feminist Special Privileges) women cost the average employer much more than men do.

    The Feminist refuse (dishonestly) to count the fact that women get much better treatment than men do, at work. Firstly, as Warren Farrell points out, by the choice of profession: men are mainly obligated to go into the heavy industry (if they can find it) or mining or other hard physical labour environs because they have to earn more in order to attract a wife (or partner). Haven’t seen too many Feminists wanting to cosy up to an unemployed dirt-poor guy, now have you?

    Secondly, women mostly go into the “office type” work place. In there, there’s very little physical danger – the average coal miner is in severe danger of the roof falling in on his head, but if the average office worker was in that same danger, they’d shut the place down and declare it unsafe. So, women have the safer of the tasks.

    Thirdly, “leave provisions” (what used to be known as holidays) – men, in most Western countries, get MUCH less time off for things like looking after their young children (if at all). Women (in most Western Countries, but not all) get weeks, if not MONTHS of “maternity leave”, sometimes at full pay, sometimes at reduced pay.

    Men are lucky to get days, and always at reduced pay.

    This differential of holidays-with-pay is huge.

    Fourthly, if you look at women are asked to do, and what men are required to do – if there’s heavy lifting, you can expect to see a man (or men) doing most of it. This translates to the sporting world. Most female-only tournaments / matches / games / sporting events take place over a much MUCH shorter period:

    Tennis: women play 3 games, men have to play 5 for the same prize money. In tennis, the women get to play in the cooler part of the day, and men get to play whenever the courts are not occupied. One recent example was where two male players were forced to wait until 2 am to START their match, because some of the girls had gone over time, thus pushing everyone else’s times waaay back.

    Surfing: ever wondered why the girls seem to finish several days before the guys do?

    And the list goes on and on.

    This is called “special privilege” to anyone else, to the Radical Feminist, it’s called “equality”.

    But work out the pay-scales. If those female tennis players get paid the same for doing 3 matches instead of the 5 the guys have to do, the female tennis players earn (per match) 15% more than the men.

    If maternity leave was paid out in a lump sum, the women would be miles ahead of the men, simply because the women get much much more maternity leave than the guys get the equivalent of.

    All this costs employers dearly. Yet the clueless elitist Radical Feminists think this Special Privilege is equality. The rest of us disagree.

  • irlandes

    In the early 90′s, some male feminist wrote a guest column in the local newspaper of our small midwestern city, fussing how women were paid so much less for the same work as men.

    I responded with my own guest column. I did not challenge him to prove his claim that this was true in the whole nation. I challenged him to find just one (1) case in our city where a woman did exactly the same job as a man, worked the same hours a week, and had the same tenure on the job, and made one cent less.

    As feminist liars do, there was total silence for weeks, then back to the same old lies.

    Women do not make one cent less than men for the same job. Amy, you need to stop parroting these lies and actually investigate the truth. When they claim women make less, they are taking part-time moms, working easy jobs to keep stress down, and lumping them in with full-time women, then comparing the result to mostly full-time men. Get a life

  • Joe P.

    Humor us, Amy, rediculous or not. And while you’re at it, name some employers who intentionally pay women less for the same job.

  • Al

    Forget talking about the so-called wage gender gap. Men need to start fighting for equality in the gender occupational gap. There is a gender gap when it comes to job classifications. Men are grossly over represented in the dirty, grimy, and/or dangerous jobs women prefer not to do. There is now a huge underclass of workers called men that do the heavy lifting, greasy, dirty, back breaking tasks in our society. If it’s a life-threatening occupation, men are certainly over represented in that particular occupation. And let’s not forget that the 98% of the dying in war is also done by that underclass of humans known as men. It’s time to give women true equality in the back breaking occupations, and of course, they should share equally in the dying in our military endeavors. Let’s fight against the occupational gender gap.

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  • http://shatterdmen.com/ Shatteredmen

    More regarding Single Dads outing of Eve Ensler ideas Abortion is not primarily women getting them because a man forced them to. Just the opposite:

    As proof of male irresponsibility, people like to cite Carol Gilligan’s famous study, In a Different Voice, which found that in one-third of cases, the father influenced the woman’s decision to get the abortion.

    But citing this and similar studies reverses the argument. If the decision to get an abortion rests with the father one-third of the time, then clearly, the woman has made the decision in the other two- thirds of the cases.

    But even Gilligan’s one-third figure is suspect. A few years ago, Arthur Shostak and Gary McLouth interviewed 1,000 fathers of aborted children. Their book, Men and Abortion: Lessons, Losses, and Love reveals that only 4% of the women had been opposed to getting the abortion in the first place.

    So the myth that women get an abortion because of coercion by marauding sexual predators is an urban legend that serves to shield us from one simple fact: abortion is by and large a female-dominated decision.

    http://shatterdmen. com/march. htm

  • http://shatterdmen.com/ Shatteredmen

    SingleDad “Even a female egg cell is more important than a man” (per Eve Ensler) She sure does not know her facts. An egg is not male or female. It is the sperm which makes it one or the other.

    I contend that all of this is happening by intention…the intention is to destroy the one road block to a one world governement…the United States

    http://shatterdmen.com/Bitter.htm

  • HQR3

    @SingleDad:
    You’ve hit upon a truly dark, unspeakable truth—and a historic one.

  • Denis

    There is absolutely no pay gap.

    That is a VERY OLD cannard.

    Read Warren Farrell’s “Why Men Earn More”…..that is if you can open your closed mind (e.g. “You really don’t think there is a pay gap?”).

    From Publishers Weekly RE: Why Men Earn More

    “Why do men earn more than women? Because they deserve to, argues this contrarian challenge to feminist conventional wisdom. Men work longer hours at more dangerous and disagreeable jobs. They more readily accept night shifts, hardship postings to Alaska and entrepreneurial risks. Men get in-demand degrees in engineering, while women get degrees in French literature. Female librarians earn less than garbagemen, not because of discrimination, but because so many applicants compete for the safe, clean, comfortable, convenient, fulfilling jobs women prefer. Indeed, the author insists, statistics show that women and men with equal experience and qualifications, doing the same job, for the same hours, under the same conditions-get paid the same. Farrell, author of The Myth of Male Power, usefully points women towards high-paying, male-dominated fields that are becoming female friendly and suggests that ambitious women marry stay-at-home husbands. But he considers men the real victims, taken advantage of because of their innate chivalry and social expectations that they trade earning power for love and sex and be “willing to die to support the wives and children.” He decries anti-male discrimination in occupations like teaching, nursing and cocktail-waitressing, and pillories comparable worth initiatives as “spoiled-brat economics.” A whole chapter is devoted to “genetic celebrities”-i.e., beautiful women (exemplified in photos of same) whom men shower with free dinners, gifts and home repairs and who “marry up” into cushy lifestyles paid for by workaholic husbands. Ostensibly a road-map to workplace equality, Farrell’s portrait of pampered, ungrateful women and stoic, self-sacrificing men may strike some readers as an unhelpful caricature. “

  • Micha Elyi

    What will happen to a nation that indulges its females at the cost of running up an economy-crushing debt owed to foreigners when those of its historically most productive sex are about to retire (boomers) or have begun to slack off in the harness (post-boomers)?

  • SingleDad

    And almost on que, if as to prove my point, Eve Ensler penned this piece in the MSM on CNN:

    http://www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/02/02/ensler.TED.talk.girl.power/index.html?hpt=Mid

    Even a female egg cell is more important than a man. And, to this crowd, an egg is not a human, it can be killed at will.

  • http://rawrpress.wordpress.com Amy

    This is the dumbest article I have ever read – are you really going to say that the Lilly Ledbetter Act was radical feminism?

    You really don’t think there’s a pay gap? Seriously?

    Too ridiculous to even respond to.

  • SingleDad

    Sad as it is to say, I have come to the conclusion that mothers do not love their sons as much as their daughters in the West.

    Looking back on history it is hard to believe they ever did.

  • http://shatterdmen.com/ Shatteredmen

    “The first bill signed by the President (Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act) was part of the larger radical feminist campaign to eliminate the purported gender pay gap”

    In reality, when Obama was a senator, there was a pay gap….in his own office. He paid his female staff less than he did the men. I do not think there is anything that he has not proven to be a hypocrite in.

  • MDM

    I believe that men and women deserve equal rights, but when we as a society begin to favor one sex over the other to the point that we cannot tend to the issues of men, it is merely a matter of time before these issues get in your face, if it has not already.

    So of course the progressives and the leftists will advocate for the rights of women, and im not saying that conservatives or republicans do not, but the left will use this as an advantage by exploding issues that quite frankly affect men just as well (i.e. suicide, depression, abuse). Its just that such issues are so difficult to talk about with men, but why? Because we’re told to put up and shut up and that men are supposed to act a certain way? Why cant we as men be angry, sad, or be able to cry? Oh no but the femenists say that we do not give in to the rights of women enough. We give them our jobs, our roles, even our styles, then interestingly enough they cant manage some of the things we do. Oh yes, if your young men do not know their history, rights, or how this system works, thank a progressive. I am actually a student of Finely’s currently, he has earned my respect.


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