Female Predators
April 1, 2002
by Dan Curry
The current Socially protected female represents
a complex deep dark and concealed dynamic element. Like the black widow
spider, the female predator is rarely portrayed as the destructive, tenacious
dangerous member of society, they really are. These women tend to be ignored
by the mainstream media, child protective agencies and online agents tasked
to track and apprehend them
This misrepresentation makes these female predators even more dangerous
to the mental and physical unprotected child than the lurking priest, schoolteacher,
or abduction. These then are the unchecked threats to our children that
we find offensive and intolerable in our society which are given the word…."child
sexual abuse."
The typical female predator is a primary caregiver of children and rarely
travels beyond their domain to find their next victim... their own child
or, in many cases, their child's friends. Likewise, they are overwhelmingly
heterosexual, making their targets, most boys.
Women are just as likely as men to commit violence against their mates,
inflict the majority of abuse against children and the elderly, are just
as promiscuous as men and just as likely to partake in sexually deviant
behavior, yet we still refuse to address them as possible child molesters.
The few that are discover are quickly brushed aside as a fluke, mental illness
or the blame is somehow pasted on to a nearby male.
There is no shortage of stories about women killing, abusing and neglecting
children. Even female sexual abuse of children reports appear daily and
are equally horrifying as the parade of male offenders, which curl our hair
and outrage the reader, as they should.
- Just last week, a 24 year old women,
who drove from Detroit to Texas to meet and have sex with a 12 year
old boy she met in a chat room on the Internet, was pulled over by police.
They arrested her when they discovered the boy was listed as missing
However, no FBI agents stormed her home, no Federal charges for traveling
across state lines to have sex with a minor and no online-agents attempted
to exchange porn with her in the chat room.
- Amy Gehring, openly admitted having
sex with several teens yet was acquitted of any wrongdoing in British
courts. She had previously been identified as a danger to children for
similar activities, but was allowed to continue working in schools.
- The nine year old daughter of a single
mother in Manchester, Mass was briefly charged for molesting a neighbor
child. Charges where later dropped, I suspect because there was no man
in the home to blame for this behavior.
- Kathy Tuifel, a married 44-year-old
mother of two an trusted Long Island teacher's aide befriended an 11-year-old
blind student - and then had sex with him at least three times at her
home. Her children have yet to be taken from her and interrogated about
likely misconduct by their mother.
- Beth Friedman A Broward County Florida
Teacher had sex with a teen boy in exchange for alcohol, drugs and even
a car. She later offered him $25,000 to make her pregnant. When caught,
she attempted to bribe her way out of it. She also claimed that he,
the teen, had blackmailed her.
- Even those who claim to be looking
after the best interest of children are in question, like a Long Island
lawyer who represented abused and neglected children, was sentenced
for transmitting child pornography.
- A 46 year-old female social worker
was caught sexually abusing a 15 year-old boy. She defeated charges
by claiming he raped here.
Efforts to protect our children should leave
no stone, industry or gender unturned. This should include those that are
called on to protect our children or those that profit from the current
witch-hunt environment, such as social workers, CPS agents; foster care
providers and public schools. There is no need or justification to focus
primarily on males or positions typically held by men, like Catholic Priests.
A closer-look at female dominated roles would help identify many more predators
and reduce child sexual abuse by leaps and bounds.
Witch-hunts like the one currently popularized by a fiery media blitz, do
nothing in the overall effort to reduce child sexual abuse. In facts, it
is now a full-fledged anti-male dog and pony show. Though the intent of
most accusers seem to be sincere. Among their ranks are accusers of questionable
mental capacity who most likely couldn't remember what they had for their
last meal much less something that happened ten years ago. They are followed
by outright anti-Christian zealots looking for ammunition to bring down
the church.
As Joel Mowbray stated on Jewish World Review, "in the overwhelming number
of cases made public so far, the victims have been teenage boys. Making
this a homosexual problem more than a pedophile problem."
I'm all for cleaning up the clergy of homosexual men who prey on minors,
but a witch-hunt of this magnitude only serves to re-create the daycare
witch-hunts of the eighties that convicted many innocent people with fabricated
evidence. Vote hunting public officials like Jane Swift have gone out of
their way to keep innocent men in prison while issuing pardons to all the
women falsely convicted of the same crimes.
It's no mystery why Internet stings operations capture fewer women, as most
are mothers. Female predators are not unheard of on the Internet. Although
untouched by law enforcement like the much touted "Candyman" group on Yahoo!
Websites like "annabelleigh.net" and many others like it, host female discussions
on their sexual relationships with children of all age groups, even babies.
They can also exchange picture via overseas e-mail accounts once they've
establish a rapport with a like minded predator.
The problem with child sexual abuse doesn't lie in pool of perverted males
lurking in every dark corner and public chat rooms on the Internet. It lies
in the fabric of our society in term of sexually suggestive material forced
down our throats from 2 years old up, a lack of parental authority, removal
of the fathers from our families, an epidemic of irresponsible single mothers
and BOTH genders.
Like most human behavior, child molestation does not discriminate. It runs
equally and concurrent between genders, race, creed, economic and astrological
signs. So as long as the hunt for sexual predators remains a gender game,
its efforts will be negligible at best. The female predator is a vital element
in the challenge to end child sexual abuse and must be stopped.
Dan Curry
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