Put Up or Shut Up
July 9, 2002
by Wendy McElroy
The stranglehold on the media that political
correctness enjoys by virtue of intimidation must end. The
New Thought Police: Inside the Left's Assault on Free Speech and Free
Minds by Tammy Bruce — former president of the Los Angeles
chapter of NOW — documents the strong-arm tactics PC organizations use
in lieu of reason, arguments and evidence.
My last Fox column, "NOW's
Court Report Lacks Facts" criticized California NOW's recent
report on anti-woman bias in the family court system for methodological
flaws and for including no quantitative data.
E-mails filled with potentially libelous
accusations and talk of lawyers have buzzed ever since.
The PC onslaught on the critique began
reasonably enough. Rachel Allen, director of public relations for CA
NOW and a co-author of the report, wrote to challenge
me to participate in a discussion with women who had been mistreated
by the family court system. I accepted. In a subsequent e-mail, also
sent to press@now.org, Ms. Allen stated that the report was being modified,
adding, "We ... do not disagree with all your suggestions."
Other PC feminist voices, including
a chapter of CA NOW, apparently do disagree.
Cindy Ross wrote to me in her capacity as a
California director for the National Alliance for Family Court Justice.
According to Ms. Ross, NAFCJ
is an international organization that has "worked closely with CA NOW,
providing them [and others] with documented evidence."
The alleged evidence purportedly documents:
— "FR [father's rights] groups are affiliated
with pedophiles and others who advocate incest and deviant sex ...
— "FR groups are connected to a court
kickback/financial corruption scheme ...
— "FR groups are comprised of misogynists,
batterers, child molesters, sociopaths and criminals ...
— "FR groups and their allied court
'professionals' are connected to hundreds of cases across the country
... where 'custody' has gone to child molesters ..."
The NAFCJ e-mail accused specific individuals
by name but offered no evidence. Ms. Ross demanded a reply from me "A.S.A.P.,"
which she could circulate "to all of the journalists" and others interested
in the family court issue.
In reply, I requested documentation
before commenting on criminal charges that could result in prison time
for those accused. No documentation was provided. (Since NAFJC has circulated
an e-mail to at least one leader in the Men's Movement that describes
me as a "propaganda ho," I must assume my request was declined because
I am not viewed as a legitimate journalist.)
Meanwhile, an e-mail from radical feminist
Liz Kates was jointly addressed to me
and to father's rights advocate Trudy Schuett.
"I am a feminist lawyer," Ms. Kates
wrote. She took both of us to task for perceived errors in an e-mail
written by Schuett and posted online at Men's News Daily. When I asked
Kates "why me?" given I had never mentioned her in print, the feminist
lawyer advised me, "See that you don't [mention her in print]."
Meanwhile, Schuett received an unpleasant
e-mail from Vicki Pierce, writing in her capacity as the president of
Cobb County NOW. (I was
copied on the e-mail, perhaps for intimidation value, as a warning.)
Schuett was told to consult a lawyer for allegedly misstating someone
else's name. The NOW e-mail ended by blaming Schuett for the fact that:
"children will continue to be abused only to grow up [and] wreak havoc
as Hitler did in Europe. Thanks for contributing to the misery of women
and children."
But what of NOW's culpability in the
misery of women and children? If NAFJC has passed on solid evidence
of convicted child molesters who receive child custody, of father's
rights leaders who are child molesters, of kickback collusion between
judges and fathers, then NAFJC and NOW must provide it to the authorities,
to the press, to the public. If not, both organizations are willfully
protecting child molesters at the expense of women and children. Speaking
truth to protect the innocent is also a moral responsibility and children
are the innocents in family court.
The accusations leveled at father's
rights activists by PC feminists are damning — so damning that at least
one of the leaders of the father's movement named by NAFJC is currently
seeking legal advice on libel.
Ms. Ross chose to share accusations
that "named names" with me, and therefore, with a major news organization
— Fox News. If she cannot document those charges, she has a moral responsibility
to retract them in an equally public manner. Indeed, she may have a
legal obligation to do so as well.
In her e-mail, Ms. Ross stated her concern
"with protecting women and children from [those] who view women and
children as chattel and/or are talking about resorting to 'bloodshed'
to eliminate women altogether."
In another e-mail — Ms. Pierce also
makes serious accusations against an individual by name. It is time
for PC feminists to prove their concern by going public with solid proof
of criminal activity against children and women — not merely allegations.
If NAFJC and NOW care about abused women
and children, they will publicize whatever hard evidence they hold in
their hands. Let the "facts" be aired and not just alleged in what appears
to be a cowardly attempt to destroy the reputations and lives of people
who disagree.
Wendy McElroy
Wendy McElroy is the editor
of ifeminists.com. She is the
author and editor of many books and articles, including her new anthology
Liberty
for Women: Freedom and Feminism in the 21st Century
(Ivan R. Dee/Independent Institute, 2002). She lives with her husband
in Canada.