On Gay Marriage
Tolerant, Sensitive Reader Wishes Columnist
Dead (and Other Reader Mail)
March 11, 2004
by
Nicholas Stix
As everyone knows, gay activists and their supporters are tolerant,
compassionate, sensitive people. Apparently some of them thought I
forgot that, and so they responded to my column, “Mainstream
Media Queers Marriage,” with some reminders. I’ll follow each
letter with a brief response.
First, a gentleman from Atlanta.
FYI,
Bush did lie. In the 2000 Presidential
race, Bush and Cheney both said that same sex marriage should be left
to the states. Now that Mass. has decided to do the right thing
and grant civil marriage, he's changed his tune. So, Rosie was
correct in saying the Bush lied.
In addition, I would like you to tell me
how same sex marriage affects you or your marriage (if you are married).
If you marriage is so fragile that another couple's marriage affects
yours, I think you need to take a look at your marriage to see what
is wrong.
If you are basing your opinion on your
religious values, I applaud you. However, marriage is not simply
a religious institution. If it were, then there would be laws
banning civil marriage.
Perhaps you should focus your attention
on ways to strengthen marriage, for example, allow only one marriage
or enact laws forbidding "quickie" marriages like that of
Brittany Spears or marriages performed on television for money.
Same sex marriage is not about getting
your approval, rather it is about rights.
Marriage is a civil right, not a heterosexual
privilege.
I re-read my column, to see where I had quoted anyone as saying that
Pres. Bush had lied. I hadn’t. I accused Rosie O’Donnell of lying,
and backed up my charge. So, the writer was not responding to my column
at all. In fact, in claiming that “Rosie said Bush lied,” he lied.
As for the charge that Bush lied, Massachusetts did not grant civil
marriage; that would have to be done through the state legislature.
The Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court violated the separation of
powers, and usurped the power of the legislature. Chief Justice Margaret
Marshall, and her three like-minded usurpers, should be impeached.
And so, Bush didn't lie.
The problem is that statists on the Left are talking "states’
rights," when in fact they are undermining them, and seeking
to use a states rights facade to force same-sex marriage on the
nation. George W. Bush is under no obligation to stand by passively,
and let them get away with that.
My marriage is none of the writer’s damned business. Now, if I cavorted
in public with my wife, that’d be another thing. But the correspondent’s
baiting notwithstanding, same-sex marriage affects all marriages,
and all children.
The demand by gays for same-sex marriage is an assault on Christianity.
These people don’t give a damn about getting married. Never did.
Publicity stunts like Britney Spears and TV “marriages” are irrelevant
to this debate. Refusing to yield to demands for same-sex “marriage”
is indeed one step toward strengthening marriage. Making divorce more
difficult is another. Ending all sex ed is yet one more. A lefty critic
of same-sex marriage opponents suggested, with tongue in cheek, that
we re-institute stoning homosexuals to death, as per the Old Testament.
Considering that Islam exacts the same penalty, that American Muslims
seek to impose Sharia on America, and that lefties today are terribly
solicitous of Islam, I’m not sure whom the joke is on.
Same-sex marriage is definitely about getting my approval. It is
about forcing heterosexuals to publicly approve of that which they
disdain, and about destroying the institution of marriage.
If same-sex marriage is a “right,” then so are incestuous marriages,
polygamy (one member of one sex to multiple members of the other),
and polyamory (multiple members of both sexes). There is no reason
to favor homosexuals over those who want to marry their siblings,
parents, multiple partners, or an open-ended number of people. Just
because homosexuals demand something, doesn’t make it a “right.” The
logic of “civil rights” is such that certain groups demand special
privileges for themselves, to other groups’ disadvantage … which is
why I oppose all “civil rights” movements.
And now, from Brooklyn, N.Y.
This world will be a better place when
you no longer walk it. I've got no time for your hate.
There are so many more important things to worry about than a miserable
person like yourself.
He wishes me dead, but I'm the "hater"? And he can't be
honest about even the tiniest matter, since he obviously DOES have
time for me, and I am important enough for him to worry (or at least,
rage) about. If he has a problem with hatred and intolerance, he needs
to take a good look in the mirror, and then take his irony supplement.
It's totalitarians like him that took a beautiful town like New
York, and turned it into a crime-ridden, smoke-free, pc nightmare.
And I have not yet begun to fight gay "marriage"! My article
showing pro-gay marriage media bias should have made him happy. After
all, would he rather the media were anti-gay marriage? Or am
I simply not permitted to report on the facts?
He'll stroke out when he sees my serious commentary.
And from an anonymous feminist in the “ether” …
Are you always such an ---hole? I really
feel sorry for people like you. To be so miserable in your own life
that you have to bring others down with you, that's just pathetic.
You pointed out quite frequently how everyone else on the planet (besides
you Fundie ---holes) was ignoring the Law, so I thought I'd point
out your own omission. Ready? You may want to sit down, this could
come as a shock. This country doesn't revolve around whatever your
twisted religious beliefs (that apparently entitle you to ignore one
of God's Laws, which we'll get to in a second) tell you is what God
wants. You don't know the first thing about what God wants. I always
thought that God wanted us to love each other. To "LOVE THY NEIGHBOR
AS THYSELF" you may have heard it put. So maybe you really hate
yourself. Maybe it's because you're gay. Regardless, I think you need
some therapy. This country is not a religious country. That is, we
are a SECULAR country. Is your head really so thick that you can't
comprehend such a simple idea? Wow. You must be absolutely miserable.
But that doesn't excuse you from preventing everyone else their right
to pursue happiness. I'm also curious as to how criticizing the President
for being an arrogant Jackass is a lie. Please, explain it to me,
I'm DYING to know.
Speaking of lies, Rosie is not trying to take away your right
to have a gun, she's promoting the rights of her three children and
other children not to die because people who shouldn't have guns are
given guns by zealots. And insulting someone about how they look is
unfair. I'd like you to post a picture so we can have a new target
for darts (Mr. Bush is getting a bit worn out). I'm thinking you're
not such a looker yourself. I must say, your work doesn't resemble
that of an award-winning journalist. I knew writers in High School
who has [sic] more finesse than you do. Firing off a bunch of bigotry
doesn't seem like journalism for me. I can read the same bullshit
on the AFA, FoF, and CWFA websites. Way to spread the hatred.
My correspondent doesn’t feel sorry for anyone who disagrees with
her.
Now, I have never questioned homosexuals’ prerogative to use their
appendages and orifices in whichever way they choose, as long as only
consenting adults are involved, it’s behind closed doors, and no corpses
turn up in the morning. But they decided to bring down everyone else.
Rather than respond to criticism, they tarred everyone who would not
submit to them, as a “homophobe,” a “hater,” a “bigot.” As historian
Paul Johnson observed in 1996, in The Quest for God, homosexuals have
exploited Western societies’ tolerance, in order to win privileged
status. They don’t play such games with Islamic and communist tyrannies.
The gay movement and its heterosexual supporters are fascists who
respect only brute force.
Not only am I not an Evangelical, I’m not even a Christian. I’m a
Jew, and not a terribly religious one. I was raised on the gospel
of secular humanism. And yet, America is not a secular country, it’s
a Christian one. Granted, for over forty years, secularists have sought
to force their vision, or lack thereof, on America. They have won
their share of beachheads, but the war is far from over.
As for whether I hate myself because I’m really “gay,” I thought
everyone was gay. That’s what I was taught in college, courtesy of
Rita Mae Brown (Rubyfruit Jungle). So, anyone who disagrees with homosexuals
is a self-hating, closet homosexual. (And I didn’t even argue against
same-sex marriage! All I did was point out the pro-same-sex-marriage
bias of the media.) This of course, is the tactic popularized by the
pc 1999 movie, American Beauty. But the writer forgot to call me a
Nazi. So, what does that make someone who agrees with homosexuals
– a self-loving, out-of-the-closet homosexual? Is that what mayors
Gavin Newsom and Jason West are? Or are same-sex marriage supporters
utterly incapable of rational thought, so that all they can do is
engage in psychobabble? And disagree with these people, even in the
most decent, compassionate terms, and you’re an “arrogant Jackass.”
Why didn’t the writer accuse Pres. Bush of being a self-hating homosexual?
Back to Rosie. When someone lies about a statement that has been
universally published, one’s first reaction is to wonder whether the
liar in question is mentally retarded. But that would be an insult
to the mentally retarded, for whose care I was once responsible. As
a moderately retarded man named Greg once told me, “I may be retarded,
but I’m not stupid!”
And so, I conclude that I am dealing with someone who is used to
getting away with telling the dumbest, most obvious lies imaginable,
without being contradicted.
Here’s what Rosie O’Donnell, who goes nowhere without the company
of paid gunsels, said:
"I don't care if you think it's your right. I say: Sorry,
it's 1999. We have had enough as a nation. You are not allowed to
own a gun, and if you do own a gun I think you should go to prison."
So, Rosie O’Donnell has the right to keep and bear arms; the rest
of us don’t.
As for the writer’s next charge, I have never criticized anyone based
on how he looks. And what do all those acronyms stand for?
So, there you have it: tolerance, compassion, and honesty, gay-style.
And in case anyone should claim that the above letters are unrepresentative,
the New York Times has published countless op-eds that are in substance,
if not syntax, the same. Instead of providing arguments, they demonize
all who disagree with them. Take Harvey Fierstein’s November 26 piece
… please.
“Still, as we approach the holiday season I'd like to imagine that
fear and bigotry will not prevail in this land. Maybe this holiday
season we can toss out some of the intolerance that nests in our hearts
and make room for more love and acceptance.”
Not only did the Times publish Fierstein’s empty essay, but a few
days later, the editors ran a letter from a reader, praising it as
“sensitive.”
Note that for “oppressed” people, homosexuals and their supporters
act more like conquerors. The correspondent from Brooklyn gave his
name, and the writer from Atlanta not only gave his job title, as
a “customer service manager” at an Atlanta business, but used his
business e-mail.
Imagine if a gay marriage critic did the same thing? He’d be told
not to let the door hit him on his homophobic, repressed gay butt,
on the way out. Heck, back in 1991, a man observing the Gay Pride
March in Manhattan was overheard muttering some criticism to his girlfriend,
the bystander announced the criticism to the entire area, and a lynch
mob quickly formed to murder the “oppresser.” As Jim Dwyer alone reported
in Newsday, the man was saved when a cop put him in a taxi, which
sped off. No members of the would-be lynch mob were arrested. I suppose
today the man would be arrested.
Nicholas Stix
New York-based freelancer Nicholas Stix has written
for Toogood Reports, Middle American News, the New York Post, Daily
News, American Enterprise, Insight, Chronicles, Newsday and many other
publications. His recent work is collected at
www.geocities.com/nstix and http://www.thecriticalcritic.blogspot.com.